velvett said:That's the key to understanding the differences between the sexes.
A female having sex seeking love is not the same as a woman seeking sex for sex.
A woman seeking sex for sex is usually self aware enough to know the difference between a man looking to get laid and man that desires her sexually as she desires him.
I believe many young girls are damaged, damaged because no one was able to or took the time explain that sex is sex and sex doesn't come hand in hand with love. Some girls will grow to realize that their self-worth is not dictated by the sex they have or by the attention they get by looking for sex and getting it, while others will not.
If a young man meets a girl he is interested in and she gives it up with hours of knowing each other you can't blame him for wondering if the girl has had sex with every guy she has gone out on a date. Guys want to feeling special too (just like girls) and a girl that is so easy to bed down won't make them feel special.
There are so many variables but I think that covers the girls that Swole was talking about.
Well said...There's a difference between a sexually aware and comfortable girl...and a girl who is using sex to try and get something - whether it be love, attention, validation...or letting herself be used in an unequal dynamics situation.

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