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What's the nicest way to tell woman to lose few extra pounds?

perkele said:
To be dead honest would probably be the best thing.


i agree...but i dont think you should say that the weight is why you're backing off..

her weight is her issue..don't make it about you.. if you like her..stick around.. if not.. end it nicely.. but no need to tell her about your opinion of her weight..

if you really accepted her, heart and all, you'd make it work.. the fact that ur not attracted to her despite all that she offers just means she's not the girl for you whether + or -20lbs.
 
velvett said:
Who's angry? :confused:

Why be involved with someone that is not your type and expect them to change so you can stand to look at them and be aroused?

I don't see the logic in that.

If she wasn't buzzing up around him after being divorced - he'd not give her the time of day beyond the friendship that already existed between them.

He should cut her loose and find another girl that suits his needs.

I am at most expressing my opinion - no one has to argree with me or take my advice.

You sounded annoyed. LOL one might even say miffed.

But yes, you are correct. If she isn't *it girl* for him, then he really should let her go.

'Course how many times did it happen to us that we REALLY thought we were attracted to someone, then we got to know them and we got turned off?

We are always entitled to change our minds.
 
life is tooo short to dance with ugly people..

you can't change anyone, it's hard enough to change yourself
 
the_alcatraz said:
you make very strong points and I agree with you on ALMOST everything that you said. However, I know a lot of decent men who share my mindset and values. I'm not one-of-a-kind nor am I special. I'm just a decent man. There are a lot of them out there. This post is by no means to defend men and present them in good light, but rather to step-over any / all stereotypes regarding males thinking with a prominent organ south of the equator. Yes, some of them do that, many of them do that, but there are decent men out there. I also realise that you have far more experience in life than I do, by virtue of your age and misfortunes, but life has taught me that sometimes you just need to trust people, no matter how messed up it may seem and no matter how betrayed you might feel, you can't go around and not trust people or believe everyone is the enemy. I was like that for a long time. I think I kinda went off topic a little, but that is a subject that I know a little about. My appologies if I bored any of you with my ranting lol.

Anyways, my position on the topic of this thread is that women are an important part of everyone, they have given us birth, they have raised us, they have fed us, and I have nothing but respect for them, especially the single mothers out there who are trying to make it.

I second my saying. If I were a woman and a man says the above mentioned statement that I commented on to me, I'd headbutt the living daylights out of him. He doesn't know what it takes to be a woman, through childbirth, responsibility, struggling with values and perception of society...etc...

I'll shut up now.

I agree with you. Not all men are superficial.
 
SpyWizard said:
life is tooo short to dance with ugly people..

you can't change anyone, it's hard enough to change yourself

lol thats some coldass shiznit bro just sayin
 
perkele said:
Few = +20lbs



When you find a woman who has more than her share of inner beauty, yet bit too chubby to get you really turned on. Then you really need to know how to tell her where's the problem, in the nicest way possible.

Buy her some rice cakes and slim fast? Take her out to dinner at Jenny Craig's?
 
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