What's the nicest way to tell woman to lose few extra pounds?

[perkele]

ahh i see, so its for your benefit, not hers?
is she your girlfriend?

Yes

 

[*The_West*]

Yes

how long have you been seeing her, and was she like this when you started seeing her?

 

[blueta2]

you say "Hey fatso, pick up your chin when you walk"

 

[lartinos]

pick your spots when to give diet tips, for me since I'm i saty super lean usually just ask me.

 

[-SD-]

Telling someone they need to lose weight is like telling a smoker they need to quit smoking. People get angry because you're insulting their intelligence in stating the obvious. Let's face it, people know if they are overweight, just like people know cigarette smoking is bad for them.

This is correct. Women are very body conscious but most of the time dont have a workable plan or are afraid to take that first step. I would think the best thing is to integrate her into your workouts, which means "dumbing down" your workouts to her level until she gets in better shape, or adding more workouts that you do with her simply to get her going.

 

[perkele]

how long have you been seeing her, and was she like this when you started seeing her?

She was even heavier. Her weight went down little bit when she started powerlifting again after an eight year break, and after having few kids.

I've known her a long long time. Recently she got divorced and then she started drooling after me. She's one of the nicest person ever so I gave her a chance even though physically I was not attacted to her.

 

[hog#head#cheese]

Start serving her dinner in a slop bucket on the back porch

 

[-SD-]

Also we're going to need pics for proper judgment.

 

[perkele]

Also we're going to need pics for proper judgment.

How about numbers: 5'4 and 185lbs

 

[Big_BK]

I pissed mine off slightly the other day and low and behold today she says shes going to the gym with me tomorrow. I win!