what would you do

[cindylou]

One of my girlfriends is getting married tomorrow and I'm in the wedding

tonight is the rehearsal dinner and my husband does not want to go

everyone else is bringing their husbands and its free booze

i dont get it?

I'm not mad, but I'll be the only one without their spouse.

Should I put my foot down or let it go?

I've gone to all of his crap. I rarely ask him to do things he does not want to do. I think of all the times I've gone to dive bars to watch some gay ass band play just to hang out with him

or all the years i've watched chiefs games

or the rehearsal dinners I've gone to when he was a groomsman

 

[puddlemonkey]

tonight is the rehearsal dinner and my husband does not want to go

Divorce

 

[puddlemonkey]

I might be a little bias though.

 

[cindylou]

lol! woudl you go to the dinner with me if you didnt know anyone?

he's being such a pussy. he's never had a problem around people/strangers before. Especially if he gets to drink

I dont get it.

 

[billfred]

One of my girlfriends is getting married tomorrow and I'm in the wedding

tonight is the rehearsal dinner and my husband does not want to go

everyone else is bringing their husbands and its free booze

i dont get it?

I'm not mad, but I'll be the only one without their spouse.

Should I put my foot down or let it go?

I've gone to all of his crap. I rarely ask him to do things he does not want to do. I think of all the times I've gone to dive bars to watch some gay ass band play just to hang out with him

or all the years i've watched chiefs games

or the rehearsal dinners I've gone to when he was a groomsman

Foot down - no doubt. One of the crosses one has to bare being married. He knows the rules.

 

[cindylou]

Foot down - no doubt. One of the crosses one has to bare married. He knows the rules.

you think so? I kinda agree. I thought that rehearsal dinners and dates to weddings and funerals were just things that you had to do when married.

everyone will ask where he's at and I'll have to lie.

Normally I dont care what he does, as we live pretty seperate lives when we want to - I dont mind doing stuff alone

but I thought that rehearsal dinners were a given, no questions no complaining.

i was surprised when he said he really didnt want to go , and if he had to.

well, i dont want to MAKE him go. lol.

 

[billfred]

you think so? I kinda agree. I thought that rehearsal dinners and dates to weddings and funerals were just things that you had to do when married.

everyone will ask where he's at and I'll have to lie.

Normally I dont care what he does, as we live pretty seperate lives when we want to - I dont mind doing stuff alone

but I thought that rehearsal dinners were a given, no questions no complaining.

i was surprised when he said he really didnt want to go , and if he had to.

well, i dont want to MAKE him go. lol.

Tell him most drunk bridesmaid's get laid at rehearsal dinners. Fact!!

 

[puddlemonkey]

lol! woudl you go to the dinner with me if you didnt know anyone?

Absolutely, you two are married. He's being selfish.

 

[digimon7068]

One of my girlfriends is getting married tomorrow and I'm in the wedding

tonight is the rehearsal dinner and my husband does not want to go

everyone else is bringing their husbands and its free booze

i dont get it?

I'm not mad, but I'll be the only one without their spouse.

Should I put my foot down or let it go?

I've gone to all of his crap. I rarely ask him to do things he does not want to do. I think of all the times I've gone to dive bars to watch some gay ass band play just to hang out with him

or all the years i've watched chiefs games

or the rehearsal dinners I've gone to when he was a groomsman

i almost always enjoy going to stuff like that. . .especially if there's booze. . .i can't understand why he wouldn't want to go. . .gotta be more to the story than that. . .oh. . .and. . .by the way. . .no way in hell i'm getting away with anything like that. . .my wife would be hurt. . .and pissed. . .rightfully so. . .

want to take me as your date?? i'll ok it with the missus. . .i clean up real nice. . .you won't be embarrassed. . .no monkey business. . .i promise

 

[needtogetaas]

I say go and get really drunk. Rent a room and do not go home. Ya don't have to cheat on him just don't go home.