*cant believe Im going to reply to an advice thread about marriage when I have a horrible track record, but here goes*
Id make sure he knows that you really would like him to be there with you (you like to spend time with him and at social functions, not just out of spite)
but if he chooses not to go, i would leave it alone. I was never big into forcing or guilting anyone into going to functions.
from last weekend because i went out with the girls and the next morning was stranded at the hotel without my keys and forgot which parking garage i left my car in! 7:30 in the morning I called him on a Sunday to come bring me a spare and drive me around kansas city while i run up and down all the parking garages because they all "look kinda familiar".
he did that. . .but he won't go to a party with you?? now i'm REALLY confused. . .oh. . .and by the way. . .you'd have paid me back a couple/few times already for that incident. . .he's obviously got more patience than me. . .
he did that. . .but he won't go to a party with you?? now i'm REALLY confused. . .oh. . .and by the way. . .you'd have paid me back a couple/few times already for that incident. . .he's obviously got more patience than me. . .