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What would you do in this circumstance?
- Thread starter beefybull
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My ex-wife's fiance, who is a vice principle at a private school, recently told my daughter that he was going to have to shoot her dog. They just moved into a new place with a lot of acreage and cattle and he was afraid the dog would chase the cattle. He denies saying this of course. He is a liar. When I told my ex what my daughter had said, apparently my ex told him and a few nights later he left me a message on my recorder saying that if my daughter didn't take care of the dog that he would kill the dog. I have this recorded. I called him back and lit into him. Over the weekend the dog was killed. My daughter has cried for 3 nights. She has had the dog since she was 2. He claims the dog was run over. My ex backs him on this. We have called CPS to investigate. The police said they couldn't do anything.
vinylgroover
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I think you should tell your daughter that the dog was hit by a car......in the meantime, investigate what really happened and do what you will.
But i don't think your daughter needs to know that he was killed by her mom's fiance.
But i don't think your daughter needs to know that he was killed by her mom's fiance.
What really sux is that she has to live with this SOB nearly half the time and she hates him and will probably always wonder what really happened to her dog. He was mad at her when he told her that he was going to have to shoot the dog. I believe my daughter 100%. SHe has told my sister and me the same story word for word. After he told me daughter that he would have to shoot the dog, my daughter heard a gunshot in the pasture and she ran out to the pasture and was crying thinking that he had shot the dog. She said that he sat down with her and said that he didn't mean it, and that he would never shoot the dog. Then the bastard leaves me a message because he's pissed that I complained to my ex about what he said. I don't know if he actually killed the dog, but he is an asshole for saying that he would.
grlpwrd
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vice principal at a private school???
Geez..I think you should think about getting him in trouble at his job. I don't condone covert operations LOL, but I'm sure a lot of parents and his school would want to know about his antics.
Then again this might just stir up trouble for your daughter.
Maybe this might give reason for you to seek full custody. If he's willing to kill a dog, tell your daughter about it, and follow thru who knows what else he's capable of doing. I certainly wouldn't want my daughter in the care of such a person....
Geez..I think you should think about getting him in trouble at his job. I don't condone covert operations LOL, but I'm sure a lot of parents and his school would want to know about his antics.
Then again this might just stir up trouble for your daughter.
Maybe this might give reason for you to seek full custody. If he's willing to kill a dog, tell your daughter about it, and follow thru who knows what else he's capable of doing. I certainly wouldn't want my daughter in the care of such a person....
Re: Re: What would you do in this circumstance?
That's the main problem. Any trouble I have with him, I fear he will take it out on my daughter in some underhanded way. He's a screwed up individual and I am going to try and get my daughter away from him.
grlpwrd said:vice principal at a private school???
Geez..I think you should think about getting him in trouble at his job. I don't condone covert operations LOL, but I'm sure a lot of parents and his school would want to know about his antics.
Then again this might just stir up trouble for your daughter.
That's the main problem. Any trouble I have with him, I fear he will take it out on my daughter in some underhanded way. He's a screwed up individual and I am going to try and get my daughter away from him.
jackangel
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Damn complications. I dont' have any suggestions right now, especially since I don't know what your rights and recourse are under the law. But if he really killed her dog...he deserves to be beaten severely. Part of me smiles at the thought of his death, actually, but since that's unacceptable, I hope you can find something else more appropriate. He would deserve something serious for such a transgression, though.
easy
Active member
You need to bring the PAIN to him. Also, not that she will even listen, but have you had a conversation about this fucktard with your ex. Why is she with him? She needs to understand that her descision to be with him can have negetive ramafications on not only herself, but more importantly her daughter.
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Alucard
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Play the tape for your daughter. She has a right to know. Having secrets like that kept from me when I was young only bred a sense of resenment for those who should have informed me at the time. Kids are not as mature, but as in "Catcher in the Rye", there comes a point where you just have to let the child grab for that brass ring. You cannot protect them from everything, and trying to shelter them from all things that are ugly in the world may simply backfire, causing her to be ill-equipped to cope with larger issues as they arise unexpectedly. As I said, they're not adults, but they are not invalids, either. I know you know this, so let her see the truth.
