You're right, but I guess I was kind of hurt that I've worked with these dudes for a while and we have a great working relationship and they are too worried about introducing me to their loved one.
So last night before I left I went to ask the guy "how come you introduced everyone to your wife but when I came around the corner and said hello, you didn't introduce me"
He says "Oh because she doesn't speak English" (all French dudes I work with)
I said "well I could have spoken to her in French"
He replied "she is just very shy"
So whatever......I guess you are all correct. These guys just don't want the 20 questions and Jerk, the thought that they may think of me sexually makes me nauseous...ugh!