Went on a date with a girl from hotornot

[healother]

Is there anything at all going on in town that you could take her to?

the state fair, but that might be a little extreme for a 2nd date.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=1208361

why didn't you ask our opinion about cuddlepants, Steve?


you think those playaz at bb.com know more about cuddling and boners that EF's self proclaimed seduction experts?

re - as to when you'll blow it, you already did.

i make so many threads about me and women that i have to space them out between 2 different forums, or else everyone would be even more sick of me and my women problems than they already are.

Youre progressing with chicks but a few things here:
1. If you arent sure if she will accept you continuing the date (asking her to a movie) dont ask to do anything else, just say your goodbyes, give her a wink, and leave. Otherwise you end up with her giving you the pathetic "I should probably get going".
2. Dont tell her to call you, youre the man, call her. But dont tell her you will call her unless she asked right there. Call in a week since you somewhat screwed this up, therefore you need to let her know you arent as into her as she believes you are, so call in a week instead of just 3 days.

yeah, i shouldnt have asked abotu watching the movie at her place, cuz I wasnt sure. and it was only the first date, no need to move that fast. And i shoulda been first to stop the kissing. the man should always be the first person to stop kissing, make the woman keep wanting more.

I already told her to call me so its too late, dangit. I will try in a week, like how you guys are suggesting.

Youre doing a good job healother. Its not in what you do but its in how u do it and yur getting better at that shit

thanks. im still not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, but I'm not even going to worry about that, I'm just going to keep trying, and not expect anything. And if i become a chick magnet then great, if i remain how i am, whatever.

Call her on Saturday afternoon and see if she has plans on Saturday night or Sunday day. Maybe grab a movie or dinner and drinks on Saturday or Sunday grab a lunch and a movie. Sounds like you hit it off. Good luck.

I'm gonna wait a week I think like what others were suggesting. Cuz I did kinda blow it already, and I figure you cant go wrong with waiting a week.

 

[string_bean00]

even tho I call you a dumbass and such sometimes you are doing a lot better than you were a couple years ago

 

[healother]

UPDATE:

Today she IM'd me awhile I was away from the computer. (keep in mind i havent talked to her at all since our date)

Jenna(12:10:08 PM): hope you're doing well
Auto Response from stevegj2 (12:10:11 PM): I am away from my computer right now.

I didn't see it until 2pm though and she had already signed off by then.

even tho I call you a dumbass and such sometimes you are doing a lot better than you were a couple years ago

haha, thanks.

 

[calveless wonder]

you seem to be all about this online sites shit.

IMHO, it's a very poor foundation and it doesn't give you the real tools and experience you need in the real world. 85% of guys who jump online to meet women is so they can't experience real life rejection. Terrible reason to misuse a good dating avenue.

It's another way to meet women, and is good because it's normally girls you would never meet(hotties who work alot or don't go out, etc...but it should only be a side project/portion of your dating life.

Don't get me wrong, it's an awesome tool, but alot of people hide behind their computer in meeting girls. I did it too a bit when i discovered online dating (i've always had good AIM/e-mail game since high school/college, since that was the primary mode of communication amongst friends/classmates), and it was addictive since it was easy for me, but i quickly realized when i would go out or meet girls in random situations, that my skills were not polished.

 

[healother]

you seem to be all about this online sites shit.

IMHO, it's a very poor foundation and it doesn't give you the real tools and experience you need in the real world. 85% of guys who jump online to meet women is so they can't experience real life rejection. Terrible reason to misuse a good dating avenue.

It's another way to meet women, and is good because it's normally girls you would never meet(hotties who work alot or don't go out, etc...but it should only be a side project/portion of your dating life.

Don't get me wrong, it's an awesome tool, but alot of people hide behind their computer in meeting girls. I did it too a bit when i discovered online dating (i've always had good AIM/e-mail game since high school/college, since that was the primary mode of communication amongst friends/classmates), and it was addictive since it was easy for me, but i quickly realized when i would go out or meet girls in random situations, that my skills were not polished.

my problem is that i dont come accross many women in the real world. i cant ask them out at my job, i dont really have that many hobbies and interests that cause me to meet women. the bar scene is a horrible place to meet women, in order to succeed there i would need the looks of brad pitt and a very suave tounge.

i mean seriously, am i just supposed to go to the beach or something just so that i can pick up chicks? does that actually work? and is it any easier than the bar scene?

 

[string_bean00]

my problem is that i dont come accross many women in the real world. i cant ask them out at my job, i dont really have that many hobbies and interests that cause me to meet women. the bar scene is a horrible place to meet women, in order to succeed there i would need the looks of brad pitt and a very suave tounge.

i mean seriously, am i just supposed to go to the beach or something just so that i can pick up chicks? does that actually work? and is it any easier than the bar scene?

Do you ever go out to bars with friends? This will take some of the tension off you so that all the conversation is not on you. Girls go out in groups and enjoy meeting/fucking groups of guys.

 

[Cal_21]

Do you ever go out to bars with friends? This will take some of the tension off you so that all the conversation is not on you. Girls go out in groups and enjoy meeting/fucking groups of guys.

Good advice right there.

 

[healother]

Do you ever go out to bars with friends? This will take some of the tension off you so that all the conversation is not on you. Girls go out in groups and enjoy meeting/fucking groups of guys.

yeah i have gone out with friends to bars before. it seems hard to meet women there though, even in groups.

 

[firefighter337]

yeah i have gone out with friends to bars before. it seems hard to meet guys there though, even in groups.

There's your sign.

 

[healother]

There's your sign.

you misquoted me