UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[Rachel...lol]

UPDATE - Having Oral Sex & Loving It.

So... I went to a work conference 1 month ago; had to go to a dinner thing as I lobbied for sponsorship from my employer. I was sitting on my bed having a glass of wine in the hotel not wanting to go to dinner, and dragged myself out (as a result of necessity) and first thing talked to this guy; we had "silly bands" for drink tickets - fist I had seen of them but apparently popular. So that night we chatted and then went to a bar where people from the conference were going, and had a great time. We parted ways with some awesome kissing in the parking lot and that's it.

We skyped all week after that, and he came here for the weekend and we did really stupid stuff like go to the museum and walked by the river and then drove out to Lake Michigan where my friends were playing (cover band) and then stayed in a hotel. Then 2 weekends ago I stayed at his house in Indianapolis and drove home Sunday night.

Then I drove back there Wednesday night (my little doggie in tow the whole time as well). And came home tonight. Intersperse lots of hottub time, meeting friends and parents, job interview in Indy... my head is spinning and I am so super happy - and you guys will get a kick out of this, no sex yet.

 

[PICK3]

If you don't give it up soon he'll lose interest ... just the way it works.

 

[twenty47]

i cant do the whole sleep over thing and no sex. if no bed sharing happens then its fine an dandy. maybe its my young hormones lol.

 

[Rachel...lol]

guys i'm not the one not giving it up

 

[twenty47]

guys i'm not the one not giving it up

so you guys just laid in bed and cuddled or what. i have a rule. we can cuddle and wrestle around 1 time. you get to blue ball me once. next time its put up or shut up lol.

 

[-SD-]

guys i'm not the one not giving it up

then he suffers from terminal phagocytosis.

 

[cuthroat]

Good for you! Thats awesome sounds like you have a good connection with this guy. Hopefully when the time comes things are good in the sexual department as well. Always happy to hear when someone finds someone.

 

[cuthroat]

What will you do if he is hung like a tic-tac rofl.

 

[Rachel...lol]

Good for you! Thats awesome sounds like you have a good connection with this guy. Hopefully when the time comes things are good in the sexual department as well. Always happy to hear when someone finds someone.

Thanks He did get 3 awesome blowjobs in an hour and there was plenty of playing with my kitty - but still, it means something. and there is a very strange connection. I have no doubt that the end result will be fantastic.

 

[PICK3]

then he suffers from terminal phagocytosis.

^^^^
this

butt I bet he's a flashy dresser