UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

[nangiggles]

I dont wanna rain on your parade at all Rach, you know I really appreciate you, just watching out for you because I want you with a great guy, if this might be the one then congratz babe

 

[cuthroat]

my husband was like that..... and well we all know how that turned out....

Yes...yes we do

im happy though

We here at EF do not condone lying

so yes sexless and happy is possible......

Keep telling yourself that its your life

yet sexed up and happy is even better.....

Finally the truth comes out!

 

[ceo]

I don't know how the guy can do it. My first inclination was closet homo. I'd have knocked that shit out the park first night. Good luck Rachel, but be slightly suspicious and stay just guarded enough. Don't rush into falling head over heels just because he isn't a normal red-blooded, testosterone filled male.

 

[nangiggles]

Yes...yes we do We here at EF do not condone lying Keep telling yourself that its your life Finally the truth comes out!

I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is

 

[cuthroat]

I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is

And what are the other departments?


JK...Its just easy to poke fun at your sex life. (or lack thereof)

 

[ceo]

I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is

sounds like you need more than one man!

 

[Rachel...lol]

Guys, he's just very very Catholic. And at first I was like... uh... what? No sex? And now I appreciate it. It's refreshing actually because I know obviously that we're developing a relationship rather than it being superficially about sex only. I know it sounds like I'm rationalizing, but the past couple of years for me have been super huge relationship fails, and whatever I was doing or whomever I was meeting has not been working out, so I may as well try a different approach, right? I am 28, not 23 - and I have sooo had my share of sex (and probably some of everybody else's as well)...

Friday I had a job interview in Indianapolis for an IT Business Analyst position. Wish me luck. Gym time - later!

 

[SouthernLord]

Good for you Rach!

Sex fucks everything up, but I love to fuck. I guess that makes me a fuck up? lol

Good luck with the interview and the new guy

 

[lartinos]

Good for you rach. Sounds like you have hung out with him enough to see he is a pretty nice guy. It is either that or he is banging some other chick. That seems unlikely, but possible. Like CEO, I would have just given you a few drinks and sex would have happened the first day. When I first meet a girl I am all about sex, after that the women becomes the aggressor most of the time. I would be pretty happy right now if I were you. Enjoy it and see what happens.
If it doesn't work out with him I think Glad is single.

 

[nydj66]

Three BJs in an hour is not sexless in my book. If I start telling girls that I can't go all the way because I'm catholic, will they start blowing me like that so I can just lie back and not do all the work?