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tybz28-#2

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Ive been with this girl for about 4 months now and things are going petty good. She is 30 and im 24. I am having a hell of a time trying to keep my mind off of bad things but i jut cant help it. I think im in love wih this girl, and i dont want to let her out of my sight. She hasnt cheated on me, but one thing that happened in the past bugged me. One night we were out at the bar and his guy i know who hits on every chick he can comes up to her and tries to hug her and says somethin in her ear. Now this is no big deal but she didnt exactly pull away. She just kinda smiled and played along. I really didn't like that.
I am supposed to go on my brothers bachelor party in a few weeks to g on houseboat up on the lake. She says he already has already made plans for that weekend to go to te bars and then go to his party are her friends where there will be coke and extacy floatin around and she probably plans on staying the night there if she gets to drunk. I know I am never going to be able to enjoy myself on the lake if. I know she is going to be partying all weekend around a bunch of coke and extacy.

What do I do?
 
You're 24, you should not get jealous so easily.

Trust her until she gives you a reason not to, then if she cheats dump her.

Otherwise you will continuously be stressed out and not enjoy the relationship.
 
tybz28-#2 said:
She says he already has already made plans for that weekend to go to te bars and then go to his party are her friends where there will be coke and extacy floatin around and she probably plans on staying the night there if she gets to drunk.
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Where is this party at bro?

If you like I will go out there and keep an eye on her for you.

It is the least I could do for a good bro like you.
 
If you like I will bring another bro like gambino or killahbee to help keep an eye on her.
 
On a deeper, more masculine level, I understand what you are saying bro. There is nothing worse than knowing that your chick enjoys attention and being flirted with by other dudes. Now most girls will defend that with endless amounts of childish excuses, but the reality is - she likes the attention and it makes her feel like she is useful on this planet. I am slowly coming to the conclusion that this is just the way it is and we are just going to have to deal with it, which I am definitely not ready for. But I also look at it this way, if they honestly think flirting is innocent (I obviously see it as a larger statement on their overall self esteem issues and neediness, which is a VERY serious problem), then I fuck other girls and use the exact same excuses back at them.

Now sit back and actually think about that for a second. I know that I have the ability to fuck a girl and have ZERO emotions or feelings towards her - so I ask you, what is the difference in the 2 situations? There is no difference. If anything, her actions are much worse because they satisfy a mental desire, an emotional need. Mine simply satisfies a hard on that is gone after 3 minutes. (yes, 3 minutes).
 
Becoming said:
If you like I will bring another bro like gambino or killahbee to help keep an eye on her.
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I will treat her with the respect she deserves.



































A rolled up fitty bone and a donkey punch.
 
KillahBee said:
a donkey punch.
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dude I have been wanting to donkey punch a broad in the baddest way...

this might just be the opportunity I have been looking for..
 
Killa Bumblebee has a point...

I am not much a religious dude but this is a good qoute.
"For jealousy enrages a man, and he will not spare in the day of vengeance." Proverbs 6:34
 
I personally would not be at a place that knowingly has rec drugs floating around, it would be a dangerous situation. I would, if she didn't mind, go with her. Not because lack of trust on her part, but because I know there are guys out there that just want to fuck, and fuck 10 minutes ago. ----> extasy <----
 
Don't mean to be so blunt, usually, when the flirting begins, the timer has been set and the countdown until the relationship is over has begun.

It is summertime, you are young, cut her loose (you were only with her for four months!) and go have some fun.
 
KillahBee said:
On a deeper, more masculine level, I understand what you are saying bro. There is nothing worse than knowing that your chick enjoys attention and being flirted with by other dudes. Now most girls will defend that with endless amounts of childish excuses, but the reality is - she likes the attention and it makes her feel like she is useful on this planet. I am slowly coming to the conclusion that this is just the way it is and we are just going to have to deal with it, which I am definitely not ready for. But I also look at it this way, if they honestly think flirting is innocent (I obviously see it as a larger statement on their overall self esteem issues and neediness, which is a VERY serious problem), then I fuck other girls and use the exact same excuses back at them.

Now sit back and actually think about that for a second. I know that I have the ability to fuck a girl and have ZERO emotions or feelings towards her - so I ask you, what is the difference in the 2 situations? There is no difference. If anything, her actions are much worse because they satisfy a mental desire, an emotional need. Mine simply satisfies a hard on that is gone after 3 minutes. (yes, 3 minutes).
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lmao

Sad... but true
 
Bro. I guarantee she will not cheat or leave you....Unless she finds someone who she thinks might be better than you. Then, you will instantly become a jackass loser, and she will dump your sorry ass. :)
 
awittyusername said:
Bro. I guarantee she will not cheat or leave you....Unless she finds someone who she thinks might be better than you. Then, you will instantly become a jackass loser, and she will dump your sorry ass. :)
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well that's reassuring :rolleyes:
 
If i were you I'd go to the party, get right fucked up on ecstasy and coke alongside her, then fuck her till the sun comes up:)
 
If she's thirty dating a 24year old and parties getting drunk and doing coke and extacy she sounds like a loser. Ditch her, she's baggage or at least wise up and realize where the relationship is heading, dont expect any great things to come out of somebody like that, you already dont trust her and that feeling is usually correct. Spare yourself dealing with someone that obviously isnt wanting to grow up.
 
Blunt truth.

Quit thinking with your dick. She's gonna break your heart.

Have fun with it while it lasts.

I hope I'm wrong dude. Sorry for your woes.
 
Tell her you changed your mind and will be going to this party with her. See how she reacts... Then key her car and buy a voodoo doll, and enrich Uranium in your basement (or attic if you don't have a basement).

do it.
 
gonelifting said:
Tell her you changed your mind and will be going to this party with her. See how she reacts... Then key her car and buy a voodoo doll, and enrich Uranium in your basement (or attic if you don't have a basement).

do it.
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uhmmm don't go near uranium. depending on which one it is (U-234, 235, 238, etc) it has a tendancy to emit alphas. that is bad. very bad for you. That means high radiation and possible loss of a butt cheek. ;)
 
what ever you do, execpt her as she is and dont try and change her ,IMO If a girl in her 30's goes out partying all the time ,its a disaster waiting to happen, becuse alot ppl party out around that age or before (coke and x??). So if you dont like it now, it wont get easier. Look for an established older women, thats when you will realy fall in love bro.. I once got the best advise I've ever heard "If a girl tells you everything you want to hear, she MAY not be trust worthy,because life itsnt without disappointments" go with your gut. and skate with your head up!
 
alien amp pharm said:
You're 24, you should not get jealous so easily.

Trust her until she gives you a reason not to, then if she cheats dump her.

Otherwise you will continuously be stressed out and not enjoy the relationship.
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Holy crap. aap gave good relationship advice.


Anyway, yeah tybz, I'd just take it easy on this broad. Don't take things so seriously. After all, you are tybz28-#2.
 
slickdadd said:
Holy crap. aap gave good relationship advice.
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I'm copying and pasting from this book I bought...."Dating for Dumbasses".
 
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