This week has been the toughest and most trying time of my life!!

[hurricane]

Yes Spartacus I don't want to go into all of it but alot of you know I haven't seen my daughters in like 4-5 months and had been trying to find them. Well I hired an attorney and found out that their mom was arrested a few weeks ago on drug charges and is in rehab and she had been leaving my daughters in hotel rooms with whoever while she went out partying and someone sexually touched my daughters during this time! I have spent the last few days with my attorney and had to go take drug tests myself and I have to go sit down and talk to the child therapist that their seeing now to find out everything they've been through which is going to kill me. Then they are going to start slowly seeing me til I have full custody of them. I feel like I let them down being their father I should have been there to protect them and I wasn't! I can't even believe I'm saying this on this board but it's been killing me inside and if it wasn't for my faith and people in my church I don't know what I would have done.

just came home now and saw this ... i will say a pray for u tonight .. just hang in there bro.. things will get better .. im truely am sorry to hear this

 

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[Smurfy]

hang in there beachboy. you will do the right thing here/ I'll be thinking about you and your daughters

 

[silverstar1025]

Hang in there sweetie! You and your beautiful girls will be in my thoughts. I hope it all works out.

 

[Beachboy6294]

I really, really ,really want to thank everyone that has sent me pm's and all the wonderful K messages I can't even begin to tell you how much it means to me! I know we all play around on here and mess wih each other but after what happened to Guardian I realized how much most of my friends on here mean to me and I do consider alot of you as really good friends. It's hard to open up about the things I'm going through but for some reason I felt more comfortable with you all and I have really received some heartfelt messages that has really touched me. If I ever had my doubts about becoming a lifetime Plat member that has changed as soon as I return from work that is one of the first things I'm going to do. I would right now but I've spent $2,000 on my sttorney this week another $500 for the girls to start school this week, $100 for the drug test I took, and I went and bought $400 in birthday presents for them since I missed it that I'm going mail to them this morning for them to get with a video from me before they see me in person. Once again thanks to all the support and prayers!!!

 

[silverstar1025]

I really, really ,really want to thank everyone that has sent me pm's and all the wonderful K messages I can't even begin to tell you how much it means to me! I know we all play around on here and mess wih each other but after what happened to Guardian I realized how much most of my friends on here mean to me and I do consider alot of you as really good friends. It's hard to open up about the things I'm going through but for some reason I felt more comfortable with you all and I have really received some heartfelt messages that has really touched me. If I ever had my doubts about becoming a lifetime Plat member that has changed as soon as I return from work that is one of the first things I'm going to do. I would right now but I've spent $2,000 on my sttorney this week another $500 for the girls to start school this week, $100 for the drug test I took, and I went and bought $400 in birthday presents for them since I missed it that I'm going mail to them this morning for them to get with a video from me before they see me in person. Once again thanks to all the support and prayers!!!

Take care!

 

[hog#head#cheese]

BB i just sent you my # anytime you need to chat Im here for ya my friend

 

[txbondsman]

BB, the past is just that, gone. It will be counterproductive to beat yourself up over things that you cannot change. Put all your energy into moving forward to provide the stability for your girls. They will see you accomplishing that and it will give them peace of mind.
We don't usually understand why things happen that seem to be so terrible. There is a master plan for you and your girls. If this tragic situation had to happen to get the judges and others who will have a say in the custidy of the kids to have the amuntion necessary to accomplish that, that may be one reason. You'll never know for sure.
from this point forward, you have to be strong for the girls, you'll be making some tough decisions, but trust that after much prayer, they will be correct and just.
Even in this darkest of times and much anger towards their mother, I would say to hold your toungue and tell them that she is sick and that you are hoping that she chooses to get better.
Sorry for your pain. If I can help in any way, you know where to find me.

 

[EnderJE]

WTF? I hope it gets better for you BB. Let us know if you need anything.

 

[velvett]

I don't know a lot about your situation but it would seem that her arrest can only work for you and your children. Best wishes for you and your kids.