This week has been the toughest and most trying time of my life!!

[Beachboy6294]

Haven't read past this post at the moment, I sincerely wish you the best my friend, but I will put a different light and perspective on this, when I read this, all I could think about was thank god. I know that doesn't sound right, Consider the 4-5 month nightmare over! you should breathe a sigh of relief and rest easy knowing that your children are NOW safe and unharmed, alive and well, and they are in your protection. You are a good dad because you took them away from thier NIGHTMARE. I know it's not enough and you wish you could have done much more much more. I don't normally believe in revenge, but I do believe somewhat in justice and I think the mother of your daughters is clearly the one who should be severely punished for putting YOUR lovely daughters through this.

I'm sorry for the tradgey that has happened to you, I will absolutely keep you and your daughters in my prayer. I wouldn't beat yourself up to bad, instead put your best foot forward and be the best most loving dad you can be. I'm sure your daughters need you now more then ever. you ended thier nightmare, now give them everything good and wonderful that a good dad like you should.

My prayers go out to you bro.

I'm all out of K but I wish I could give more to all of you!!!

 

[rnch]

quoting my Grandmother: "God never gives you more than you can handle."



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"this too shall pass".

 

[Dial_tone]

Don't blame yourself. You can't be everywhere at once. No matter what you might have done differently something still could happen to any one of us. You did the best you knew how to do and that's all you can do. Stay strong.

 

[Beachboy6294]

quoting my Grandmother: "God never gives you more than you can handle."



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"this too shall pass".

Thanks rnch and dialtone!! I am really trying to not blame myself but as their father you just feel like you're suppose to protect them lways but I have to move on and be there for them now!

 

[gonelifting]

Give your children a great life. Let them look back at their life and remember how great YOU made it for them as they were growing up, not how someone else "messed it up" for them.

Good luck man.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Yes Spartacus I don't want to go into all of it but alot of you know I haven't seen my daughters in like 4-5 months and had been trying to find them. Well I hired an attorney and found out that their mom was arrested a few weeks ago on drug charges and is in rehab and she had been leaving my daughters in hotel rooms with whoever while she went out partying and someone sexually touched my daughters during this time! I have spent the last few days with my attorney and had to go take drug tests myself and I have to go sit down and talk to the child therapist that their seeing now to find out everything they've been through which is going to kill me. Then they are going to start slowly seeing me til I have full custody of them. I feel like I let them down being their father I should have been there to protect them and I wasn't! I can't even believe I'm saying this on this board but it's been killing me inside and if it wasn't for my faith and people in my church I don't know what I would have done.

I'm really sorry to hear that bro. It saddens me how fucked up and stupid some people can be.

 

[hurricane]

I'm really sorry to hear that bro. It saddens me how fucked up and stupid some people can be.

+1 similar event happened to my friend ... him and his wife seperated and she turned into a crack whore and it killed him ! he wound up meeting a georgous chick 100 times better lookin then his ex wife that treats him like gold and is happier then he has ever been in his life! .. keep your head up bro.. there is greener grass out there and it will find u some where down the line

 

[LoneTree]

I hope every thing turn out right for you.
You have to be strong for those who depend on you.

 

[Beachboy6294]

Well I went to church last night and stayed after and talked for awhile with my pastor and some close friends and it's still really hard and I know it's going to get worse before better but with the help of God and friends I'm staying strong right now. I really appreciate all of you that have send me the kind encouraging pm's because believe me it really is helping me! I leave tonight to go offshore and can't wait to hurry up and get out there so I can get back to see my babies!

 

[Smurfy]

Well I went to church last night and stayed after and talked for awhile with my pastor and some close friends and it's still really hard and I know it's going to get worse before better but with the help of God and friends I'm staying strong right now. I really appreciate all of you that have send me the kind encouraging pm's because believe me it really is helping me! I leave tonight to go offshore and can't wait to hurry up and get out there so I can get back to see my babies!

Sounds like you've got a good support system, That's critical in times like these.