sticky situation...need help

[magman1]

to clarify myself, id love to be her friend and would love to play a role in the childs life, but the role i would like to play is not nearly what she needs...i am away at school, and want no part of a long term relation with her...i guess my question is do you feel it would be wrong to just "hook up" with no commitments? as long as it would be clear there is no attachment?

 

[BonerBoy]

you need to tap that puss, no need to think twice about it bro

 

[Bikini Mod]

You mean to tell me that you would have sex with your ex's sister?

Ummmmm wrong, wrong, wrong.

Regardless of what HER intentions are this is a line that I would never cross. I share everything with my sister EXCEPT my shoes and MY MAN. My sister feels the same.

Just my .02

 

[crew9]

Are you still friends with your ex-girlfriend or do you not talk to her. If you have no relationship well then sorry lil sis your outta luck.

 

[magman1]

her and her sister are no longer close at all...dont even talk really...two totally different people...my gf is the gorgeous girl next door, while her sister reminds me soo much of aria giovanni(porn star for u non-pervs)...im not sure if this makes a diff...i dont care how my ex feels, just respect for her ex fiance

 

[Bikini Mod]

I am not passing judgement, only telling you my opinion which is like an asshole, cause everbody's got one LOL.

Whether she and her sister are close or not, it just doesn't seem right. Would you REALLY want to be involved at all with a woman who wouldn't care what her sister would think about her dating/doinking/whatever her ex?

Just think about that. If you can proceed with that knowledge then by all means - do. But me, I wouldn't....

 

[magman1]

it does seem very dirty to me, and very jerry springerish, but i guess thats why i wanted ur guys opinions...im just gona play it by year, and see how the nite goes...might be getting worked up over nothing

 

[HumorMe]

I don't see anything wrong with it myself. Meet with her and talk to her but I wouldn't jeopardize a relationship by jumping her bones unless it's her decision to instigate it.

Gonelifting probably said it best.

 

[Imnotdutcheither]

Why is it so wrong? I dont get it

You mean to tell me that you would have sex with your ex's sister?

Ummmmm wrong, wrong, wrong.

Regardless of what HER intentions are this is a line that I would never cross. I share everything with my sister EXCEPT my shoes and MY MAN. My sister feels the same.

Just my .02

 

[2tone]

It sounds like your ex-girlfriend's sister may very well be lonely and in need of some "SERIOUS" comforting. After all regardless of how she and her ex were or were not getting along at the time, he was still her baby's father. She is probably truly hurting right now and needs all the friends and genuine support that she can get. If your true intentions are to just "hit it" then maybe that would not be the right thing to do at this particular time (in light of recent events). It is not good to take advantage of someone in a weakened state because it is not good karma for you. However if you can be a source of comfort and a real friend to her, than by all means you should speak with her.