sticky situation...need help

[Bikini Mod]

Because THAT IS MY SISTER!

I would never ever even remotely entertain the mere THOUGHT of laying under a man that had sex with my sister. Why? Because if she thought enough of this man (at one time, the past isn't negated automatically because the situation in now no longer present) to take her clothes off and get busy with him, then I would never disrespect HER FEELINGS.

The bro who started the thread would not want to disrespect his friend, even though the friend is no longer living. Then why on earth would he sleep with a woman who might have no trouble disrespecting her own living sister?

As I said.... just my .02

 

[magman1]

It sounds like your ex-girlfriend's sister my very well be lonely and in need of some "SERIOUS" comforting. After all regardless of how she and her ex were or were not getting along at the time, he was still her baby's father. She is probably truly hurting right now and needs all the friends and genuine support that she can get. If your true intentions are to just "hit it" then maybe that would not be the right thing to do at this particular time (in light of recent events). It is not good to take advantage of someone in a weakened state because it is not good karma for you. However if you can be a source of comfort and a real friend to her, than by all means you should speak with her.

thanx brotha...that really put shit into perspective...i mean it

 

[AAP]

no, she didnt lose her baby...she lost her baby's father...i dont think its wrong in terms of me and her sister, but rather bc of my friendship i had with her late fiance

My bad. Sorry I didn't read it more carefully bro.

 

[Heahy Minister]

Because THAT IS MY SISTER!

I would never ever even remotely entertain the mere THOUGHT of laying under a man that had sex with my sister. Why? Because if she thought enough of this man (at one time, the past isn't negated automatically because the situation in now no longer present) to take her clothes off and get busy with him, then I would never disrespect HER FEELINGS.

The bro who started the thread would not want to disrespect his friend, even though the friend is no longer living. Then why on earth would he sleep with a woman who might have no trouble disrespecting her own living sister?

As I said.... just my .02

You are forgetting that it is the SISTER who contacted him, not he contacting her.

There is nothing wrong with meeting up with her and being there to comfort her AS A FRIEND. However, should she want to take things further (ie sexual....but I doubt that as she is in a state of mourning) I do not think you should go down that road.

If you respect her, your ex, and the deceased whom you said was like a brother, you will not allow things to get sexual because it is too soon and would be nothing more than rebound/comforter sex. Nonetheless, there is nothing wrong with you consoling her as a friend. Remember, just a friend, nothing more AT THIS POINT IN TIME. After she has enough time and has moved on from her loss, then by all means if she is still interested pursue things then.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You are forgetting that it is the SISTER who contacted him, not he contacting her. ...

My point exactly. Why would he even want to be involved with a woman like that?... that is, IF there is anything to do with sex here.

She may be a very decent woman and sex may be the furthest thing from her mind. But if sex wasn't on HIS MIND, then this thread would never have even begun, correct?

 

[HumorMe]

She may be a very decent woman and sex may be the furthest thing from her mind. But if sex wasn't on HIS MIND, then this thread would never have even begun, correct?

But guys always think of sex. Even when we are taking a dump or picking our noses.

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL I forgot that! heheheheheeee

 

[Imnotdutcheither]

My point exactly. Why would he even want to be involved with a woman like that?...

I have nothing against women who call me up demanding sex

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL

I see. So you are a slut then?

 

[Imnotdutcheither]

LOL

I see. So you are a slut then?

No I am a man therefore it makes me a stud.......

Besides I only say 'ok' sometimes. Other times I play hard to get and go 'Uhhhhmmmmmm........ ok'.