I'll sum it up..... both are bad for you either way you look at it - From a stand point of, she should smoke if you use steroids, she is slowing down her body functions including brian fuctions. If a kid is in the picture I would say PUT THE JOINT DOWN. However, she does have you by the balls - if you are using a drug, why cant she? Just personal preferance, if my wife was smoking weed and then taking care of my child, she would have an opportunity to stop or she would be coming really close to a swift butt kick out the door, now knowing my wife she would come after all my stuff, not just half...lol
How about this... She can smoke the weed only when you kid has gone to sleep for the night