She Left Me At The Alter....

[yonkers weights]

I am sure it goes back and forth and not always 50/50. But if you both want it to work, you will help pick up the slack when the other is lacking. Give and take. No one can be "on" all the time. We all need down time and alone time. But as long as you have a good partner in your corner who will be there for you through it all, you can make it if you want to!
It is all personal choice.

Easier said than done at sometimes.... It seems it's never 50/50 after many years of marriage. I do not think I've ever met a couple who are "on" 100% of the time. Rare, un-heard of actually.


I have to admit, he's picked up my slack more than I have him as of late. I better work on this huh?

 

[vixensghost]

I am sure it goes back and forth and not always 50/50. But if you both want it to work, you will help pick up the slack when the other is lacking. Give and take. No one can be "on" all the time. We all need down time and alone time. But as long as you have a good partner in your corner who will be there for you through it all, you can make it if you want to!
It is all personal choice.

Yup, it's my personal choice to take him for granted.lol

No, he knows I adore him even when I'm slacking. Likewise too.

It all works out in the wash....

 

[yonkers weights]

Yup. If you both want it to work, it will and it all ends up even in the end.

Yup, it's my personal choice to take him for granted.lol

No, he knows I adore him even when I'm slacking. Likewise too.

It all works out in the wash....

 

[Sub-Zero]

Gifts = $77k in cash and checks plus some actual gifts from where we registered. So we are still up after everything.

u made money off ur wedding? now that is awsome

 

[digimon7068]

Easier said than done at sometimes.... It seems it's never 50/50 after many years of marriage. I do not think I've ever met a couple who are "on" 100% of the time. Rare, un-heard of actually.


I have to admit, he's picked up my slack more than I have him as of late. I better work on this huh?

i don't know jack about 50/50. . .my wife's job (the last few years she's been a stay-at-home-mom) is infinitely more important than mine and probably more complicated. . .all i gotta do is work my behind off and put bread on the table. . .and in the bank accounts. . .pretty simple. . .raising kids, however, is very challenging. . .but she's the best mom i've ever seen. . .i'm in awe of her. . .always have been

 

[yonkers weights]

We were very lucky! Our family and friends took very good care of us. My parents give us $5k which was great and my dad paid for the rehearsal dinner which ran about $7k for 23 of us the night before which we did not have to budget for since he said he was paying from the start. They took good care of us! Very lucky!

u made money off ur wedding? now that is awsome

 

[yonkers weights]

Looking forward to the kids. We hope in about 2-3 years. We want to enjoy sometime together and keep going away when we want to. We have a good lifestyle and want to keep it alittle longer. She will be a stay at home mom when the time comes. She is great.

i don't know jack about 50/50. . .my wife's job (the last few years she's been a stay-at-home-mom) is infinitely more important than mine and probably more complicated. . .all i gotta do is work my behind off and put bread on the table. . .and in the bank accounts. . .pretty simple. . .raising kids, however, is very challenging. . .but she's the best mom i've ever seen. . .i'm in awe of her. . .always have been

 

[yonkers weights]

Some pics are posted in another thread.

 

[velvett]

Congrats Yonkers!

 

[i-Supplements]

Congratulations!!!!!