Sad =-(

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maybe you can hire a private investigator/bodyguard until you're out of there

to document his violations (maybe land him in jail)
and to protect you.

I dont know the law in FL but in Jersey when I had the final order against my ex he threatened my life (AGAIN) to my sister within ear shot of me on our property. He was getting electrical supplies from the garage. He had every right to be there with my sister on the premises getting his supplies but he had ZERO right to threaten me again.

I called the police. His ass was promptly arrested again.

And like AN IDIOT I dropped all the charges because my then attorney advised it "as a show of good faith" to settle the divorce.

 

[bigmann245]

Ummmm...I don't have guns...lol. I think I'm just going to say that I am calling the police and then do it. Problem is, they break in almost every day if I leave the house

it doesnt even have to be loaded. the cocking of a shotgun when your not expecting it will make anyone shit their pants. i dont have any guns either. i used to have a .45 but i sold it 3 months after i bought it.


but yea you need to document everything cause it isnt their house. and obviously captain assface is sending these people.

im sorry but this whole thing really upsets me. i know im not involved AT ALL but he is damn lucky im not. i hope he reads my posts because he needs to know you do have friends that dont live far away.

 

[heatherrae]

it doesnt even have to be loaded. the cocking of a shotgun when your not expecting it will make anyone shit their pants. i dont have any guns either. i used to have a .45 but i sold it 3 months after i bought it.


but yea you need to document everything cause it isnt their house. and obviously captain assface is sending these people.

im sorry but this whole thing really upsets me. i know im not involved AT ALL but he is damn lucky im not. i hope he reads my posts because he needs to know you do have friends that dont live far away.

lol...i know you are kidding, but ixnay on the scary stuff. He may try to say we threatened him...lol.

Actually, it is his house, but he isn't supposed to be near it. So his 18 year old punk son comes and harasses me. He was puffing up his chest last night and saying, "this is my house." Damn, last I knew he was laying up at a flop house and flunking out of High School. His dad threw him out months ago. Didn't know he had moved back in...lol.

 

[bigmann245]

i gotta stop thinking like a bouncer.....

 

[heatherrae]

i gotta stop thinking like a bouncer.....

ROFL...testosterone man. ;-)

 

[bigmann245]

ROFL...testosterone man. ;-)

no no no....testosterone junky...lol

 

[HiDnGoD]

i know your a lawyer and such but you do realize that not only can HE not contact you but he is also in violation if he SENDS someone to talk to you. his lawyer is not to speak to you directly either. thats why you have a lawyer unless you are your own lawyer.

and the money thing... im telling this story not to make you feel bad but for all the ef females here.

my former friend did this exact same thing to his wife. made her drop everything and made her completely dependant upon him. they also had 2 bank accounts. one was in both their names (thats the one HER paychecks went into) and the other was in just HIS name. (thats where HIS paychecks went). he made her sell HER house she had in georgia when she moved here to florida. well the money she made from HER sale went right into HIS account that she could not touch. then i witnessed him call ALL of HIS credit card companies and one by one pay them off with HER money. thats when i knew something was up. well someone tipped off his wife (i wonder who that could have been ) and she confrunted him. he flipped out on her (never hit her thank god but the verbal abuse was bad enough). well, he kicked HER out of the house with her 3 kids (he had 2 of his own) they were renting together, then a few days later HER paycheck was direct deposited to the accoutn with both their names on it. well what do you think the asshole did? yup, he drained the account the morning it posted. the bank said they remembered him cause he was waiting outside the bank for them to open and he went right to the teller and drained the entire account. but because HIS name was on the account they had to let him. when she talked to her lawyer about the money he took they talked to the bank and said that because both names were on the account it is considered both their money. they said he had every right to it cause she okay'd the name to be put on the account. i lost touch with the asshole cause he tried to screw me over and got me arrested just for the police to find out HE did it and now the FBI are after him. we also found out he tried to kill his ex wife. he cut her brake lines, that didnt work, then he hired a hit man to do it but that guy got caught and rated him out but they cant prove it yet. he burned down his house we was renting for the rental insurance money to pay the hitman. he also got caught before all this putting his car in a chop shop and getting the insurance money for it. guilty on 7 felonies. but we didnt find this out till after he screwed us all over and ran. i heard hes in new york now.


anyway, ladies if you see these signs ask questions. if he puts all YOUR money in a joint account but puts HIS money in an account with just his name on it then run. take your money and run or at leased put it in a seperate account until he can put his account in your name as well. banks are not allowed to take your name off an account without your permission. so heather id go to the bank and find out why he was able to take your name off the account without your permission. the bank will be liable as well. the way i look at it...NOBODY FUCKS WITH MY MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's a lot of phucked up shit.
My wife & I have separate accounts. They're generally empty, or in the negative. All our money siphons through the same accounts.

 

[heatherrae]

That's a lot of phucked up shit.
My wife & I have separate accounts. They're generally empty, or in the negative. All our money siphons through the same accounts.

I don't think your wife is in any danger, though. LOL. You are a good guy.

 

[bigmann245]

That's a lot of phucked up shit.
My wife & I have separate accounts. They're generally empty, or in the negative. All our money siphons through the same accounts.

just as long as both names are on both accounts OR your money goes to yours and her goes to hers. its either all or none IMOP.

 

[HiDnGoD]

just as long as both names are on both accounts OR your money goes to yours and her goes to hers. its either all or none IMOP.

We have 3 accounts in both names. One account in mine, & one account in hers.