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Kentucky? Hahaha you damn hillbilly.
btw, you can stop by on your way and visit me in Tennessee
btw, you can stop by on your way and visit me in Tennessee
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LOL....I think I'm missing the mean and nasty gene.p0ink said:
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LOL...fellow hillbilly.alien amp pharm said:Kentucky? Hahaha you damn hillbilly.
btw, you can stop by on your way and visit me in Tennessee
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Yeah, you may be right. The dating is FUN, though -- something I've needed for a bit.superqt4u2nv said:No offence but what the hell are you doing dating so fast? It is a serious recipe for disaster if you don’t take the time to reflect on this situation and put it behind you. Just my 2 cents.
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heatherrae said:
We make country folk look good with what we bring to the table.
We should mate
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So is making new friends... I personally would suggest some 'me' time for you right now. After what you just went thru, you 'may' be just a tad bit to vulnerable and just searching for someone to fill that gap in your life that you just released. Perfect opportunity for another moron to walk right in and do the same thing to you.
The dating scene won't disappear in 3-6 months. You have all the time in the world to do that. Don't try to mask your pain and being lonely by filling it with another warm body. Love yourself first and formost, and learn to be OK with being alone.
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Very well written, Frisky. That made lots of sense. Message well received. =-)
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Is that you in your avatar, Frisky?
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ROFLHiDnGoD said:
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heatherrae said:
Those were the pre-twinkie days
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My body has never looked remotely similar to that...lol. Very NICE!
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She avoided the question. I'll take that as a "yes"
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im glad your date was good. but i agree even though i didnt take the advice and ended up getting hurt 2 more times on top of what i was going through with my wife. the first person i dated was an accident as i wasnt looking. it just happened and i liked the feeling when it was good. i missed that feeling, but when it wednt bad i fell apart again even worse than before i dated her. the second one was my fault as i thought i could get that good feeling back but yet again it went bad. just be careful and take your time.
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Yeah, I know what you mean Bigmann. You know, the funny thing is, though, that I'm not even missing my ex one little bit. You would think I would be thinking about the good times and missing him a little. I'm not, though. My heart isn't broken even a little bit. He has been such a jerk and a stalker since the breakup that I think he's an idiot. The bad times far outweighed the good and there are so many fish in the sea. I guess it isn't even really rebound when you aren't even hurting over the last person???
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yea, its a good thing hes being an ass still. its as if he doesnt want to pursue you in a relationship at all and thats a GREAT thing. it will be over soon and you can move on. you have poeple who care about you. turn to them it will help. im glad your looking at this in a different light. makes it easy. not many women do that. they get hooked and say "he will change i know it" and they never do.
i still dont understand how any man can lay a hand on a woman no matter what. now look at him, it will be on his record forever and the next time if not this time he will be put in jail for a while and his life will be ruined if not so forever. i can not wait to see what happens to him. DO NOT BACK DOWN. they will ask what you think should happen and believe it or not the judge puts that into consideration. if you say nothing i just want this to be over then he will be leanient on him. if you tell them to put him away then its a good possibility they will if they can. i would love to pay this guy a visit just once. slap HIM around and drag HIM through a window.
wooo, im sorry but that is one thing that sets me off every time....woosa wooosaaa....
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After all he has done to me since we broke up, he better know that I am going to pursue all my legal remedies. He hit the wrong gal, this time. He bullies his kids and other women, but he's not getting away this time.
I know that he reads these posts because I can tell when he views my profile. So, I guess I'll let him know right here that I am going to see to it that he goes to jail.
I know that he reads these posts because I can tell when he views my profile. So, I guess I'll let him know right here that I am going to see to it that he goes to jail.
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whats his username, lets all bomb himheatherrae said:
kidergarden justice first, then real world justice bwahahahahahah
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lol,.....his name is roco...bombs away...lolMavafanculo said:whats his username, lets all bomb him
kidergarden justice first, then real world justice bwahahahahahah
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he's bomb proof - no posts. he's a wiley one. thought of everything. (if only real life was as simple as EF life lol)
actually, we could leave him user notes....
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how come when i search his posts it doesnt come up with anything? it sayd he joined in september and has 300 posts but none come up
I have to ask - because frankly I'm dying to know.
If you're not married to the guy and his kids are not there why are you still living there? Wouldn't you just pack up and leave? The relationship is over - why would you stay there? Your being there probably just drives him even more to behave in a negative manner.
is this a Southern thing?
I just don't get it - did I miss something somewhere?
If you're not married to the guy and his kids are not there why are you still living there? Wouldn't you just pack up and leave? The relationship is over - why would you stay there? Your being there probably just drives him even more to behave in a negative manner.
is this a Southern thing?
I just don't get it - did I miss something somewhere?
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he only joined to stalk me on here back in September. LOL. He has never posted.
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Well, because he took all the money. It definitely was not because I wanted to stay here. He left and took away all access to the bank accounts. I told him back when he first got arrested that if he helped me move out, I would be out the same day. He has spent more money renting a hotel, etc than it would have cost to help me move. That is completely irrational and the part that I don't understand. He promised that if I would move down here and close my law office, and we ended breaking up, he would put me in the exact position I was in before I came down here. He had promised he would buy me furniture to replace the furniture, computers, and other business assets that I gave up. I didn't even ask him for that. All he had to do is help me move so I wouldn't be stuck here. He must have wanted me to be stuck here, because he has now spent money for hotels, a lawyer, etc. I do have money of my own, but there is a substantial penalty to withdraw it. So, I am gathering my resources.velvett said:
Regardless, I am moving soon. =-)
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So he went and took all your money out of your account?! He had access to your account and all the money YOU earned?! FUCK that!!!
I hope you cancel all your credit cards if his name is on them, you cancel anything that is associated with him (like cell phones, cable, home phone, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING)....
And your friends should be there for you and have a place for you to crash so you don't have to be at psycho's casa. Get outta there darlin!!!
And you're an attorney; hunny, you know what to do about this guy....what's keeping you?! I know ya'll had a relationship but the key word is HAD....
You don't need all that drama bull crap going on. Go get him girl!!!
**And NO this is not a Southern thing!!!!
I hope you cancel all your credit cards if his name is on them, you cancel anything that is associated with him (like cell phones, cable, home phone, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING)....
And your friends should be there for you and have a place for you to crash so you don't have to be at psycho's casa. Get outta there darlin!!!
And you're an attorney; hunny, you know what to do about this guy....what's keeping you?! I know ya'll had a relationship but the key word is HAD....
You don't need all that drama bull crap going on. Go get him girl!!!
**And NO this is not a Southern thing!!!!
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Yeah, no kidding.velvett said:
Merged our money when I came down here. He was supposed to add me to the account, but was always just "too busy" to do it.
It wasn't much money that I put in there, so no big deal, and I still have a healthy amount in retirement accounts. I have a couple grand coming from another account that I'm using to move.
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Oh yeah, and one more thing......
When he promised this and that to you, did you PUT IT IN WRITING?! Hunny, if he was in JAIL and you helped him and went back to him, you should have made him sign a written document about what he was promising to do and that he would do it and all that crap...
I'm sorry but someone in my family was in the same boat and I had her write up a written documentation to prevent being screwed over. I hate the fact that he is doing this to you- it really pisses me off cause I've seen it happen and what happens to the "victim." But you don't have to be a vicitim- stand up for yourself and do whatever it is YOU need to do.
LOL....if ya wanna come to TX, you're more than welcome!! I'm moving outta my apt and need a roommate!!!!
When he promised this and that to you, did you PUT IT IN WRITING?! Hunny, if he was in JAIL and you helped him and went back to him, you should have made him sign a written document about what he was promising to do and that he would do it and all that crap...
I'm sorry but someone in my family was in the same boat and I had her write up a written documentation to prevent being screwed over. I hate the fact that he is doing this to you- it really pisses me off cause I've seen it happen and what happens to the "victim." But you don't have to be a vicitim- stand up for yourself and do whatever it is YOU need to do.
LOL....if ya wanna come to TX, you're more than welcome!! I'm moving outta my apt and need a roommate!!!!
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Thanks cutie.flipican16 said:Oh yeah, and one more thing......
When he promised this and that to you, did you PUT IT IN WRITING?! Hunny, if he was in JAIL and you helped him and went back to him, you should have made him sign a written document about what he was promising to do and that he would do it and all that crap...
I'm sorry but someone in my family was in the same boat and I had her write up a written documentation to prevent being screwed over. I hate the fact that he is doing this to you- it really pisses me off cause I've seen it happen and what happens to the "victim." But you don't have to be a vicitim- stand up for yourself and do whatever it is YOU need to do.
LOL....if ya wanna come to TX, you're more than welcome!! I'm moving outta my apt and need a roommate!!!!
He made the promises to do all that for me before I even moved down here to Florida.
He's spent more trying to screw me over than it would have cost to just keep his word.
However, he's a man utterly without honor.
I just don't understand why he spends so much to mess with me...lol.
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I'm going to my dad's for x-mas by wednesday, so I won't be here. So all will be fine.flipican16 said:So he went and took all your money out of your account?! He had access to your account and all the money YOU earned?! FUCK that!!!
I hope you cancel all your credit cards if his name is on them, you cancel anything that is associated with him (like cell phones, cable, home phone, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING)....
And your friends should be there for you and have a place for you to crash so you don't have to be at psycho's casa. Get outta there darlin!!!
And you're an attorney; hunny, you know what to do about this guy....what's keeping you?! I know ya'll had a relationship but the key word is HAD....
You don't need all that drama bull crap going on. Go get him girl!!!
**And NO this is not a Southern thing!!!!
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A lobotomy might help both of them. Something tells me these two class acts would be better off lol.
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He messes with you cause he has no purpose in life- the weak prey on the strong and that's what he's doing.
You just gotta fight back, that's all.
Turn on the bitch switch girl!!!
Sometimes it is the only way to get what you deserve.
I'll say a prayer for you!
You just gotta fight back, that's all.
Turn on the bitch switch girl!!!
Sometimes it is the only way to get what you deserve.
I'll say a prayer for you!
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No court date has been set yet. I called the prosecutor the other day, and she said that it could be a few months.velvett said:
That is just the criminal case, though, regarding the aggravated battery. All this other stuff wont be relevant in that case. The only thing relevant will be will be the events surrounding the battery
If I want to bring up the broken oral contract, I would have to sue him in civil court. Of course, I do have a pretty good case against him, i.e., battery, assault, promissory estoppel, intentional inflection of emotional distress, property damage....I could go on...lol.
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velvett said:
Oh God no!!! I was just waiting for an apartment to open up that would take dogs and a check to come to me that I'm using to move.
I actually had no goal to keep him or his kids out of their house. I've always wanted to get out. He's a jerk, but I'm not the type to be so vindictive as to try to make someone miserable. That would be cutting my nose off to spite my own face, because I'm probably more miserable here than he is not being here.
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LOL...thanks velvett.
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lol...Today, I actually fully flicked that switch. He underestimates how much trouble he's in. He's up for a felony, and I'm probably going to sue the shit out of him and his scumbag lawyer, who had the nerve to call my father and tell him that I was in "legal trouble" down here in Fl. WTH. The only one in legal trouble is her client. Oh yeah, and her when I file a bar complaint against her and sue her for defamation.flipican16 said:He messes with you cause he has no purpose in life- the weak prey on the strong and that's what he's doing.
You just gotta fight back, that's all.
Turn on the bitch switch girl!!!
Sometimes it is the only way to get what you deserve.
I'll say a prayer for you!
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p0ink said:
I make significantly more than 100k, my penis is not close to 9" not even when it's hard, I have one car (not a BMW, but better IMHO), my house is only 2100sqf...
And for an EF poster... I am skinny bitch.. 185, 5'11"... I am not into HUGE size... just some size w/tone & damn good looks..
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Is this a job application? lol.JH1 said:I make significantly more than 100k, my penis is not close to 9" not even when it's hard, I have one car (not a BMW, but better IMHO), my house is only 2100sqf...
And for an EF poster... I am skinny bitch.. 185, 5'11"... I am not into HUGE size... just some size w/tone & damn good looks..
Hey, I love your puppy on your profile. Is it a sylkie terrier, part yorkie, or what? Have you seen my yorkie?
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Long story... a puppy that me and an ex-g/f of mine had together and after we parted ways, I let her keep him.. I miss that little guy. I used to get to watch him all the time, but because of our lives I never get to see him anymore.
It's a full yorkie....
Nope.. haven't seen your yorkie.. where would I have?
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He can't come back. The court entered a no contact order stating he can't come here. I'm moving anyway. It isn't so much that he took money...if I sue him it will be for all the other stuff.healother said:
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go to bed
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what are you going to waste your time doing now?
wake up with a guy in your sleep has your thighs covered in sweat
wake up with a guy in your sleep has your thighs covered in sweat
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heather - Your avatar is now anachronistic. a vestigial reminder of your former life of bondage. As a sign of your liberation and an act of enpowerment, you should bare your breasts in a Freedom Boobvatar (tm). Think of how crazy it'll make him.
(you people owe me karma if this works)
(you people owe me karma if this works)
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digital camera card doesn't fit into this laptop. So no boobvator is coming. =-( lol
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blueta2 said:
Damn right! THe sweetest revenge is living well. =-)
Glad to be out from under the burka. Damn, it was hot under there.
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GOOD FOR YOU!!!
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Extremely good advice. I'm not seeking any sort of revenge. His life is miserable enough of his own accord. I know he will never be a happy man. I don't need to do anything to him. Plus, I just want to get back to my silly, playful me -- the me I am without him. =-)mightymouse69 said:
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Good for you.
Isnt it nice to get "you" back?
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i know your a lawyer and such but you do realize that not only can HE not contact you but he is also in violation if he SENDS someone to talk to you. his lawyer is not to speak to you directly either. thats why you have a lawyer unless you are your own lawyer.
and the money thing... im telling this story not to make you feel bad but for all the ef females here.
my former friend did this exact same thing to his wife. made her drop everything and made her completely dependant upon him. they also had 2 bank accounts. one was in both their names (thats the one HER paychecks went into) and the other was in just HIS name. (thats where HIS paychecks went). he made her sell HER house she had in georgia when she moved here to florida. well the money she made from HER sale went right into HIS account that she could not touch. then i witnessed him call ALL of HIS credit card companies and one by one pay them off with HER money. thats when i knew something was up. well someone tipped off his wife (i wonder who that could have been
) and she confrunted him. he flipped out on her (never hit her thank god but the verbal abuse was bad enough). well, he kicked HER out of the house with her 3 kids (he had 2 of his own) they were renting together, then a few days later HER paycheck was direct deposited to the accoutn with both their names on it. well what do you think the asshole did? yup, he drained the account the morning it posted. the bank said they remembered him cause he was waiting outside the bank for them to open and he went right to the teller and drained the entire account. but because HIS name was on the account they had to let him. when she talked to her lawyer about the money he took they talked to the bank and said that because both names were on the account it is considered both their money. they said he had every right to it cause she okay'd the name to be put on the account. i lost touch with the asshole cause he tried to screw me over and got me arrested just for the police to find out HE did it and now the FBI are after him. we also found out he tried to kill his ex wife. he cut her brake lines, that didnt work, then he hired a hit man to do it but that guy got caught and rated him out but they cant prove it yet. he burned down his house we was renting for the rental insurance money to pay the hitman. he also got caught before all this putting his car in a chop shop and getting the insurance money for it. guilty on 7 felonies. but we didnt find this out till after he screwed us all over and ran. i heard hes in new york now. anyway, ladies if you see these signs ask questions. if he puts all YOUR money in a joint account but puts HIS money in an account with just his name on it then run. take your money and run or at leased put it in a seperate account until he can put his account in your name as well. banks are not allowed to take your name off an account without your permission. so heather id go to the bank and find out why he was able to take your name off the account without your permission. the bank will be liable as well. the way i look at it...NOBODY FUCKS WITH MY MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Holy Cow! Crazy events in that story!
Yeah, no doubt about men who have to have you under their thumbs -- insecure, pathetic lot.
Yeah, I realize that he is violating the no contact order, but he must have hired the dumbest biatch on the planet to represent him, because she violated it herself by contacting my father. You can't contact third persons for that person, either.
His son came over last night and started banging on the door and demanding in. I opened the door and he stormed in like he owned the place. I told him to leave because of the no contact order, and he flatly refused. Next time I will call the cops. I've had it.
Yeah, no doubt about men who have to have you under their thumbs -- insecure, pathetic lot.
Yeah, I realize that he is violating the no contact order, but he must have hired the dumbest biatch on the planet to represent him, because she violated it herself by contacting my father. You can't contact third persons for that person, either.
His son came over last night and started banging on the door and demanding in. I opened the door and he stormed in like he owned the place. I told him to leave because of the no contact order, and he flatly refused. Next time I will call the cops. I've had it.
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heatherrae said:
dont open the door... or next time open it with a shotgun pointed at his nose.... he will leave real quick. or do my ultimate favorite.... when he bangs on the door go to the door and ask "who is it?" and when he says who it is, without opening the door cock the shotgun... its the scariest sound in the world.
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Right now, next to the weather this is THE ONLY THING I like about being in Texas.
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Ummmm...I don't have guns...lol. I think I'm just going to say that I am calling the police and then do it. Problem is, they break in almost every day if I leave the housebigmann245 said:
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maybe you can hire a private investigator/bodyguard until you're out of there
to document his violations (maybe land him in jail)
and to protect you.
to document his violations (maybe land him in jail)
and to protect you.
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I dont know the law in FL but in Jersey when I had the final order against my ex he threatened my life (AGAIN) to my sister within ear shot of me on our property. He was getting electrical supplies from the garage. He had every right to be there with my sister on the premises getting his supplies but he had ZERO right to threaten me again.
I called the police. His ass was promptly arrested again.
And like AN IDIOT I dropped all the charges because my then attorney advised it "as a show of good faith" to settle the divorce.
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heatherrae said:
it doesnt even have to be loaded. the cocking of a shotgun when your not expecting it will make anyone shit their pants. i dont have any guns either. i used to have a .45 but i sold it 3 months after i bought it.
but yea you need to document everything cause it isnt their house. and obviously captain assface is sending these people.
im sorry but this whole thing really upsets me. i know im not involved AT ALL but he is damn lucky im not. i hope he reads my posts because he needs to know you do have friends that dont live far away.
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bigmann245 said:it doesnt even have to be loaded. the cocking of a shotgun when your not expecting it will make anyone shit their pants. i dont have any guns either. i used to have a .45 but i sold it 3 months after i bought it.
but yea you need to document everything cause it isnt their house. and obviously captain assface is sending these people.
im sorry but this whole thing really upsets me. i know im not involved AT ALL but he is damn lucky im not. i hope he reads my posts because he needs to know you do have friends that dont live far away.
lol...i know you are kidding, but ixnay on the scary stuff. He may try to say we threatened him...lol.
Actually, it is his house, but he isn't supposed to be near it. So his 18 year old punk son comes and harasses me. He was puffing up his chest last night and saying, "this is my house." Damn, last I knew he was laying up at a flop house and flunking out of High School. His dad threw him out months ago. Didn't know he had moved back in...lol.
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i gotta stop thinking like a bouncer.....
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ROFL...testosterone man. ;-)bigmann245 said:
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heatherrae said:
no no no....testosterone junky...lol
That's a lot of phucked up shit.bigmann245 said:i know your a lawyer and such but you do realize that not only can HE not contact you but he is also in violation if he SENDS someone to talk to you. his lawyer is not to speak to you directly either. thats why you have a lawyer unless you are your own lawyer.
and the money thing... im telling this story not to make you feel bad but for all the ef females here.
my former friend did this exact same thing to his wife. made her drop everything and made her completely dependant upon him. they also had 2 bank accounts. one was in both their names (thats the one HER paychecks went into) and the other was in just HIS name. (thats where HIS paychecks went). he made her sell HER house she had in georgia when she moved here to florida. well the money she made from HER sale went right into HIS account that she could not touch. then i witnessed him call ALL of HIS credit card companies and one by one pay them off with HER money. thats when i knew something was up. well someone tipped off his wife (i wonder who that could have been
anyway, ladies if you see these signs ask questions. if he puts all YOUR money in a joint account but puts HIS money in an account with just his name on it then run. take your money and run or at leased put it in a seperate account until he can put his account in your name as well. banks are not allowed to take your name off an account without your permission. so heather id go to the bank and find out why he was able to take your name off the account without your permission. the bank will be liable as well. the way i look at it...NOBODY FUCKS WITH MY MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My wife & I have separate accounts. They're generally empty, or in the negative. All our money siphons through the same accounts.
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I don't think your wife is in any danger, though. LOL. You are a good guy.HiDnGoD said:
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HiDnGoD said:
just as long as both names are on both accounts OR your money goes to yours and her goes to hers. its either all or none IMOP.
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heatherrae said:Would it be too much to arrange to have me walk in the courtroom surrounded by sexy, shirtless men while Beyonce's Irreplaceable plays in the background? Oh yeah, and a fog machine and a wind machine to seductively blow my hair about...
To the left. To the left.
Not too much...should be required
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