Relationship Problems can anybody help?

[SuperStud79]

I'm having some serious relationship problems. I'm losing all my gains because I'm so depressed that I can't eat or sleep.

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone had any experience with drugs like Paxil and Prozac? I think I need them. Thanks.

 

[macho21]

I don't have experience with those meds, but I hope everything works out for you bro. Good luck and a little karma

 

[doggmann]

stay away from the anti-depressants,bro...prozac fucked up my wife bad...depression is a normal part of life...your depression will lift naturally in time...you may want to assess whether you should maintain the relationship if it is causing you problems...get away from the situation...go out with friends and move on...

 

[decem]

i'm taking depakote (mood disorders) and celexa (depression) right now.. i've actually only been taking the depakote for 8 days now.. and the celexa for 3 or 4..

my girlfriend broke up with me last night.. i didn't even cry.. nothing.. i couldn't give a fuck.. i was like "ok.. that's cool".. when usually i'd be like "nnnnnnnoooooooo.. we can work it out.. yada yada yada"..

so yes.. it does work dude.. i mean i may end up regretting it later.. but i don't think so.. it's taken my emotion away enough to make a rational decision about things..

 

[Beezers]

Your depresion is not due to chemical disorders as is treated with medication. Yours is due to external stressors affecting your mood and perception of your life. Anti-depressant meds will have virtually no effect here as there's no chemical imbalance to normalize. You need to deal with this through thought. Fact is women are the number one cause of depresion among men...or relationships in general. You have to recognize that you're not going to feel good if there is a crises in one of your fundamental human social needs. It's time to figure out what's best for you and how to resolve your problem...and killing her is not the appropriate answer. Always know there are more women out there and your feelings are perfectly human and common. Think as an individual and relize you have needs that aren't being met in this relationship right now. This may take a selfish approach, but so be it...You have your own life to live. Drugs won't fix what is'nt wrong. There's nothing wrong with you. It's called emotion which should lead you into rational thought about how to better yourself and your life. Contemplation on what is wrong directs to things that are right.

 

[SuperStud79]

Thanks for all the replies and advice guys. I know you don't know me but the fact that you guys actually take the time to read that post and make a reply means something to me. Seems like you guys actually care, and that's what I need right now.

 

[Quadsweep]

I feel for ya

I got divorced this year. Hard as hell sice I have a little boy. You will mak it through. I got ready for a national BB show while going through my shit. It proved to be a good distraction. Chin up my brother. Stay away from the drugs. Paxil can make you put on mass fat pounds too! Some karma for you.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Do a good cycle and concentrate on that. It helps me out big time dude. You look forward to growing and getting bigger, stronger, and getting ready to go out and meet other people with your new-found muscle. Man if it weren't for steroids I don't know what I'd do.

 

[G-Force]

Stay away from those fuckin drugs Bro, when you get your shit back together and you've started to gain again you'll be glad you didn't touch them!
Karma Bro!

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Oh, another thing to add bro', is to just drink shakes if you have a hard time eating. I have been through the same shit, but when I have a hard time eating, I just drink a weight gainer shake to get in the cals to replace a meal if I have to.

Good karma to you.

 

[Zyglamail]

I was on serzone for a few months after my divorce. I lost 25lbs, ate about 3 times a week and slept about 3 hours a week, wasnt fun. Then I got fat! UGH!

 

[gomo]

Hey Bro!
I hope you are making it today.
The meds you asked about are for chemical imbalances. That means clinical depression. You can have some clinical depression that makes external problems seem intolerable. So it is not always accurate to say that your problem shouldn't be treated with meds cause the problems seem to be brought on by a woman. We .. on the board .. cannot diagnose you. Only a licensed professional who can discern your condition fully should do that. Talk to a doc who can help you out face to face Bro. Be smart ... don't just stab into the dark and grab a handful of pills. That's some strong stuff.

 

[Arias]

Let it go bro. Lets just say I am the king of depression! I have been plagued by depression all my life. There is many ways to deal with this problem. First you have to deal with your "situation" (relationship/loss of gains). Then you need to eliminate all the things that bring you down from your life. It is easier said than done but it has to be done. After you are through with those steps, you should surround yourself with positive things. Remember my fellow depressionist........there will always be bad times and good times, life will never be perfect, you should just try to obtain a overall sense of hapiness to aide in solving your probs. I have taken every chemical there is and I am still where I left off. There is no quick fix my friend. There are many short term drugs but most are very addictive and should be avoided. Whet helps me the most is ANGER anger is a wonderful tool if used properly. I turn all my fears and pain into anger. Then I use that anger to train, and I mean train hard. I reap many benefits because I get huge and I get rid of all my frustrations. Good luck my friend if you need more ideas or help drop me a line at [email protected].

 

[gorilla_boy]

Whet helps me the most is ANGER anger is a wonderful tool if used properly. I turn all my fears and pain into anger. Then I use that anger to train, and I mean train hard. I reap many benefits because I get huge and I get rid of all my frustrations.

Now there's some good advice. Karma to you Arias.

 

[Pimp C]

Hey bro I feel your pain, I'm in a similar situation right now, only we have a 3mo old baby. I'm in Ohio too, close to Cincy/Dayton. Feel free to drop me a line if you want, it may help being able to talk to someone in a similar situation.

P.S. Don't let this girl interfer with your training. If anything hit the gym more to keep your mind off things and to better yourself.

 

[hhajdo]

I'm having some serious relationship problems. I'm losing all my gains because I'm so depressed that I can't eat or sleep.

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone had any experience with drugs like Paxil and Prozac? I think I need them. Thanks.

Try 5-10 grams of inositol + 100 mgs of 5-HTP.
This combo will work better than any antidepressant and without sides.

 

[SuperStud79]

Thanks guys, you've all got Karma.

 

[futrmro]

use Eq to get your appitite back. I wnet throught the same thing nad it worked for me

 

[Audio8]

so yes.. it does work dude.. i mean i may end up regretting it later.. but i don't think so.. it's taken my emotion away enough to make a rational decision about things..

Are we turning into Vulcans or what. Who needs emotion right ?

 

[artcarved]

Stay away from those drugs, when they are not truly needed, i.e. clinical depression, they can be very bad, and even make you go crazy. It is ok to feel and hurt, time will solve this. Follow the advice here, Get back to training, buy yourself something you want, find little joys, eliminate the bad shit. It is such a clishay [i can't spell it] but there are so many more women. You are speciall, don't settle for less than what you want, but look back and learn about yourself from this. We all hurt sometimes. Even when things are good, it will rain again. Time will solve this.