Question for the ladies, it's seckshual in nature....

[iggy]

man to man, I think you need to talk to her and get these feelings off your chest. her saying i"m trying, or i'm sorry, won't cut it. there's definitely something underlying she isn't expressing or telling you. find out what it is.

 

[billfred]

man to man, I think you need to talk to her and get these feelings off your chest. her saying i"m trying, or i'm sorry, won't cut it. there's definitely something underlying she isn't expressing or telling you. find out what it is.

For every one reason a woman of that age wants to have sex there is 10 reasons why she does not and it is just very hard for a man to juggle all that.

What really has to be done is say "I HAVE to have sex one time per week - you in or out?"

Most likely she will then try to get that worked out.

 

[TC2]

man to man, I think you need to talk to her and get these feelings off your chest. her saying i"m trying, or i'm sorry, won't cut it. there's definitely something underlying she isn't expressing or telling you. find out what it is.

This is a part of the problem....giving them some type of excuse to fall back on or hide behind.

It cannot ever be that someone is just fuckin lazy,self entitled and generally worthless....there is always an excuse.

 

[TC2]

Yes, she's a dog and needs to be put in her place. Make sure you hit her with a newspaper when you get home and tell her she best obey! Who cares if her libido issues could be something physical, it doesn't matter, as long as you get your needs met!

great advice

You have serious man issues....how many cats do you have??

 

[AAP]

I'm thinking of something more like this. Just grab her and flip her over on her stomach and tell her that I'm tired of this shit! Grab the KY and show her what a real mans tool can do for her attitude. After I've savaged her and got my nutt, put her on her back and tell her to lick it off giving me time to recover to give it to her again. Wimmen like that kind of thing you know...

How's THAT!! I'll show HER who's boss.... and then call the best divorce lawyer I can find.

Real men skip the KY.

"Just spit and steady pressure"

 

[IrightI]

Real men skip the KY.

"Just spit and steady pressure"

and ..... you......know this......How?

 

[blueta2]

BOOM!

I like you AnnieFiedler!!

Of course, who wouldn't! This is why old men want younger women. Wait til these women hit their mid 40's and their hormones are totally out of balance and they've popped out a few kids.

 

[blueta2]

You have serious man issues....how many cats do you have??

says the biggest woman hater on EF!

 

[blueta2]

man to man, I think you need to talk to her and get these feelings off your chest. her saying i"m trying, or i'm sorry, won't cut it. there's definitely something underlying she isn't expressing or telling you. find out what it is.

Best advice so far......

 

[AFeedz]

Of course, who wouldn't! This is why old men want younger women. Wait til these women hit their mid 40's and their hormones are totally out of balance and they've popped out a few kids.

Um yeah, I probably like to have sex more than my 40-something year old counterparts, but that has nothing to do with what I said. Currently, I still like to have sex (often) with the men I get with, but there's plenty of stuff I don't like to do that I'll do anyways occasionally to make them happier.

And in the future, if/when my libido slows down, I'll apply the same type of thinking to sex.

I'm not an idiot. I don't think this guy's wife can flip a switch and turn her sex drive up. I don't think she can make herself want to have sex more. I'm saying she needs to sacrifice a little and do it anyways for the sake of their marriage.

I bet if a woman wrote this thread saying she was meeting all her husband's needs, but he wasn't meeting hers anymore because he was tired and stressed and blah blah blah, you wouldn't be making excuses for him. You'd be giving us some speech about how he should try his best to work with her. She needs to do the same. It's not that hard. Just spread 'em for like, 10 minutes once or twice a week more often and I'm sure he'd be fine.