Question for the ladies, it's seckshual in nature....

[IrightI]

The fact that she really listened and is going to make an attempt is a pretty good step in the right direction, since I think that's all you wanted all along: to know she heard you and just for her to try. I hope she follows through.

I'm happy for you, I.

Thanks AF. Hell, I felt better just telling her, but this time she even HEARD what I said. Usually she lets me talk to a point, then runs me over with everything that she can think of to change the conversation to why she's SO mistreated. I really think that using the ideas that NY gave, you gave, MM gave, Nef, and others, helped mr put the words together in a way that helped. Annie, she wasn't going to ;listen to me at first, but maybe from what you had been saying, I put my had on her leg and with a stern voice told her that this is important to me and I NEED her to listen, so she did. When we "talk", it usually turns into a fulblown argument, so I don't even try....

 

[nydj66]

thanks af. Hell, i felt better just telling her, but this time she even heard what i said. Usually she lets me talk to a point, then runs me over with everything that she can think of to change the conversation to why she's so mistreated. I really think that using the ideas that ny gave, you gave, mm gave, nef, and others, helped mr put the words together in a way that helped. Annie, she wasn't going to ;listen to me at first, but maybe from what you had been saying, i put my had on her leg and with a stern voice told her that this is important to me and i need her to listen, so she did. When we "talk", it usually turns into a fulblown argument, so i don't even try....

wtg!

 

[IrightI]

wtg!

thanks Bro. I think that writting this down, and with everyones input helped. I really didn't know how to approach her, but yall gave me some ideas. TY

 

[Roxy722]

thanks Bro. I think that writting this down, and with everyones input helped. I really didn't know how to approach her, but yall gave me some ideas. TY

Hey I...I'm glad you were able to do that! I hope it at least gets the discussion going and will help your wife to think about it and take it more seriously.

 

[jnevin]

Im pretty sure this is just maturity..and not the aging variety




but wait...what happens when you get the quickie when you really wanted to longer more entailed version??

When guys nut our minds go blank. We can be all up in the middle of something and just think we could crush all night. Nut happens and we're like "well that was cool" time for a sangweech and some sleep. Wake me up and I'll be glad to go again, but my mind blanks after said nut.

 

[shirlene29]

When guys nut our minds go blank. We can be all up in the middle of something and just think we could crush all night. Nut happens and we're like "well that was cool" time for a sangweech and some sleep. Wake me up and I'll be glad to go again, but my mind blanks after said nut.

lol...well thank you for clarifying

what I really wanted to know was can I fuss and whine that I didnt get the version I wanted

 

[canadianhitman]

lol...well thank you for clarifying

what I really wanted to know was can I fuss and whine that I didnt get the version I wanted

Yes, you can...if you communicated that you wanted the long version and didn't get it, you have the right to whine. Unless, of course, it's been forever since you last put out...in that case he has a valid excuse to not be able to control himself.

 

[jnevin]

lol...well thank you for clarifying

what I really wanted to know was can I fuss and whine that I didnt get the version I wanted

It'd fall on deaf ears.

 

[nydj66]

lol...well thank you for clarifying

what I really wanted to know was can I fuss and whine that I didnt get the version I wanted

You're a chick. You're expected to fuss and whine regardless of what the facts are.