peoples attitudes regarding body...

[cal]

recently ive...been getting a lot of compliment from people...and i simply say thank you....
but it seems that...people are starting to think im "full of myself" and "arrogant" ...bc i happen to well built. i dont wear tight clothes, i dont talk about lifting ...others bring it up...and i dont care about fashion etc...

should i take this nonsense as a compliment or what...
anyone else deal with this?

 

[Dr.Equinstein]

Just worry about yourself and don't think twice of anything that the "walking dead" have to say. Alot of people are so unhappy with their lives that the only enjoyment that they can find are when they try to tear down another.

 

[m0t03]

try having your grandma and other family saying your getting too big. Look at your arms they barely fit in your shirt. I just tell them they dont know what there talkin about. I think some girls are a bit more intimitaded to talk to me now, so now I usually have to make the first move. I dont think anyone thinks Im arrogant, we're just a dedicated group of people.

Mike

 

[Shinobi]

believe me everyday I have do deal with people that think Im a weirdo just because I eat well, every 3hrs, look good. I usually touch my abs all the time...I do it without even noticing it, its automatically and the other day a girl from my class came to me and said "Why you are so into yourself?" and I said "WHAT?!?!" Took me 5 sec to answer her back again and I said "Well if Im not into myself who is gonna be?" Whatever guys, people wish they had the same will power to workout as we do. My roomates are even worst! They keep asking me all the time "thats meal #12?" I ONLY like to workout at 2PM so I plan the day according to this and sometimes people from school come to me cause we are doing projects together and they ask "Can we meet tomorrow at 3PM?" and I say "No I cant" and they say "Why not? Because u are at the gym" I say YES and they show a expression with their faces like "you only think about your body, what u eat etc" Whatever it takes...

 

[wizardnor]

Just worry about yourself and don't think twice of anything that the "walking dead" have to say. Alot of people are so unhappy with their lives that the only enjoyment that they can find are when they try to tear down another.

amen for this people like this wish they have what you got, they try to tear you down

 

[Surgical]

I guess it all depends on the people you're around. I work in a healthcare environment. People are usually supportive towards me. Many people want to come see my compete this spring, which is inspiring, and makes me want to look even better. Most people tease me about my food though, which I've learned to ignore.

Dr. Equinstein is right, most people lack the drive and the dedication to achieve the great results. People have no idea the hard work that goes into looking good. Most of those people can't take the pain, or survive the workouts we put our bodies through.

 

[WARBIRDWS6]

it really is stupid. i get less and less women hit on me, and more and more of the "he looks arrogant and stuck up" looks as the years pass. even though i know they are looking at how i am built, (as well as my car hurts me, being a cool guy car lol). when i was in my early 20's and was skinny as can be, i got women like crazy...now it seems like they are scared to even look my way unless they are drunk....then its great. i had one girlfriend who i know would do anything with anyone...lol....and with me if she wasn't drunk she couldn't even take herself to do anything with me since "she wasn't good enough". now THAT pissd me off. i find with guys its actually different....most guys will be like "damn you got big traps" or "what supps you take" or whatever. and they don't seem to look with a hating type look (unless their girl is looking at you). for some reason, especially on certain individuals, if you are good looking and then also have a decent body....you are automatically arrogant and conceited and some type of bad ass mean motherfucker or something. once the women actually speak to me, and find out hey this guy is smart and nice and has a personality to match (cept he has too much roid rage, lol)....then they are pleasantly suprised. if anyone doesn't take the time to find out who you are and judges you on your body or your looks or your car....then its not even worth it to bother with them. it gets very frustrating though as time passes.