What cindy said....
Honestly omega the only reason anyone makes a huge deal about what you look like is because YOU make a huge deal about it. If you had always just said "hey, I'm a private guy, pics aren't ever gonna happen," most likely people would be like, oh, ok, whatever, and they'd move on. For the most part, unless someone is making claims of this or that, no one cares what people look like beyond natural curiosity. The harrassment you get about this is very much of your own making (with threads like this).
No, you're not as unattractive as you make yourself out to be. But threads like this are just like throwing chum out into shark infested watters.