okay, so does anyone have this kind of luck with women?

[Lestat]

that is what I am thinking as well. Just continue with not forcing anything and see where it ends up. It will either work out or it won't.

exactly, as long as you are still having fun and enjoying things, roll with it. Maybe she's just trying to let the ex down softly.

 

[Smurfy]

i have to unsubscribe. i cant keep looking at this god awful infected thread in my User profile.

 

[princesa]

that is what I am thinking as well. Just continue with not forcing anything and see where it ends up. It will either work out or it won't.

in the meantime you are willing to put up with all that drama ??
i mean its only 4 months its easier to drop it now, you dont have that much time and effort invested in it.
take some time out, start out clean...imo

 

[nefertiti]

Dude, end it now before you get in deeper. She lied to you, and she's still talking to a guy who has feelings for you. NOW is the time to leave, when it's not going to hurt. Who cares if she's trying to let the ex down softly? She's lying to you about time she's spending with other guys who have feelings for her.

Don't wait till you catch her red handed, come on!!! You have plenty to go on here to know it's not gonna work, why waste your time?

I don't get when people do this, stay in something that is pretty much doomed to fail. I'd rather be single than let something die out slowly or waste my time with someone who doesn't respect me as she clearly does not you.

But I digress... as I always say to my friends - It's your life and you are the only one who has to live with your choices...if staying with her is worth it to you, then I'm pretty much blowing hot air, here. But follow your gut. Don't stay for the wrong reasons.

 

[roy2]

What everyone else said in this thread +1.

Don't dig your grave any deeper, its time to get out.

 

[nefertiti]

Oh and one more thing...a little tidbit of wisdom my brother offered me years ago -

If someone wants to see you or talk to you, they will find a way to do it.

If she's been way out of touch except for randomly saying she's missing you, she's just throwing you the things she thinks you want to hear but not really feeling it. If she missed you that much, she'd have found a way to get in touch more frequently, even if just for a minute here or there. She would have texted you back on NYE. Don't let her play you, dude.

 

[jack sparrow]

I'm so glad I have very little, if any emotion left

 

[blueta2]

oh wait, I think I missed something. He txt her on new yrs eve and she never replied?

 

[Wulfgar]

I honestly think the best thing to do is go against your better judgement. throw intuition and logic to the wind and just crawl under a rock to hide and try to convince yourself over and over
last I check Da Nile was still a river in Egypt my friend

 

[nefertiti]

oh wait, I think I missed something. He txt her on new yrs eve and she never replied?

A "very romantic" text at that. And she didn't even bring it up, he had to ask if she got it and she was like, "Yes, thank you."

Come on, now, that's bull.