Need some appetite stimulants

[blackhat]

Blackhat,
A lot of shit I would tell you has already been said. Listen to these guys, there's some good advice. I've been through that shit, not a wife, but a five year gf and fiance. It sucks bro. You got that sick, empty feeling all the time. You don't want to do anything. The good thing is, its can only get better from here. You gotta motivate yourself to beat this shit. Dedicate your time to the gym and lookin good for all the girls your gonna meet this summer. Where are your friends. They need to be taking you out. Everyone knows a new girl(or x) is the best way to get your mind off the last girl. Once you get mood right and clear your head your appetite will be back. In the meantime, just eat more of your favorite foods. Even when I don't have an appetite I can usually think of something that I could eat but normally wouldn't; its probably terrible for me but its better than starving. Good luck bro.

Thanks again everyone for your very valued input. Hard to put in the time at the gym when I know im not eating right, what can the muscle build off of if I cant get enough food in there.
Like I said Im not the type to hunt for girls, I just don't do it. The worst part of all is that there was no reason for her leaving me as she did, just out of the blue, she will still call but I dont answer, she has said in her messages that its not what it looks like and that there is not another guy and that she still loves me but she needs time. Which in my opinion is total bs. I dont know what to make of it, its like do I just hang on hold? Or how do I move on when she will still try to call me and leave me messages. Its like a giant puzzle with half of the pieces missing, something isnt adding up.

 

[blackhat]

worst advice ever. Meridia is an appetite suppressant, it will have the opposite effect. Anyways, Ive also been there. It sucks. Training was really shitty for a few months too. Every relationships teaches you something though. You just got to think that you are worth it and that she is the one missing out. Others will realize just how good of a person you are, its a matter of time, or maybe shell change her mind. BTW, periactin is an appetite stimulant.

True but if she goes and screws some other guy when she told me that it wasnt about that, I will burn with hatred toward her and never accept what she did. Iam a very jealous person and since I would never do that to her, if she did it to me it would be unacceptable

 

[blackhat]

Ha, yea I thought about that, but getting random drug tested isnt the best thing.
The last time I felt this bad was last year when my dad was diagnosed with cancer the size of a tennis ball in his chest. everything turned black and nothing mattered. I feel the same way now, she was basically my life, her family was my family etc etc.

 

[njmuscleguy]

vitamin b12 shots, just like someone else said... supposed to increase appetite - ag-guys sell it

also try oxycalm... seems to work nicely... it does increase appetite and it puts your mind in a different perspective.... AF Store carries this one

 

[cranny]

Bro, we've all taken our lumps in life when it comes to love. Some more than others. As said before, You've got to pull yourself up and move on. No matter how hard. You're not the only person to have gone through something like this. Find whatever you can to occupy your time. A hobby, the gym(my prefernce), another women. Something bro. You can't just sit there and dwell on the past. Learn from it and move on to something positive. I know it 's easy to say it but you just have to bro. It's the only way. Now get off your ass and hit the gym! Good luck bro.

 

[swolenole]

Take all your frustrations out on food & Iron....that's how I do it.

 

[immortalis]

Man this sucks. What a shitty situation to be in.

I've had my runs with serious depression in the past. Sometimes its been because of the woman in my life, sometimes it was something else. But regardless of the cause, the result was the same.

Inability to focus.
Lack of appetite.
Unable to sleep.
Pent up anger and frustration only led to other negative situations...

Its just all in all a shitty situation that you are in right now, and the only thing you can do is try and kick yourself in the ass and get out of the gutter.

I know its hard. Its even more difficult when its the woman that you were going to marry. My woman is bi-polar and we have been together for 10 years. We just finally got married this past New Years Eve. We have had such a troubled past, that I wouldnt even consider marrage up until recently. To be honest, there are times that I regret it... because like you I am a very very jealous person. I hold grudges. Im like an elephant... i dont forget a god damn thing. So everything that my wife has ever done to hurt me, often times resurfaces for no reason whatsoever and I just get so mad I damn near snap.


One thing that always seemed to, and still seems to help me get through situations is "The Routine". I make a schedule and stick to it so that I can focus on something else and keep my mind occupied. Once my mind is idle... thats when I become my own worst enemy.

On the subject of appetite. Naturally I have virtually no appetite. Ive been known to go days without eatting. I dropped down to just above 180 pounds last year, and when I decided that I was going to propose to my wife, I got focus'd. I had let myself slide way too far. The first thing I needed to do was get my appetite back in full swing.

I forced myself on a strict eatting schedule, eatting 3 small meals at the exact same times per day. It took roughly 3 months before it finally kicked in, but after about 3 months I could feel my body starting to get hungry at the times it was used to being fed.

After that point, it shot through the roof real quick. Within a matter of a few weeks after that point, I was noticing an increase in appetite between those meals.

It was at that point I began supplementing with small snacks. A few weeks after that, my appetite was raring to go and now I am eatting 4-5 times a day, with 3 supplement shakes minimum, and im hungry damn near all the time. Plus I smoke weed every night which does help, obviously... but youre concerned about randoms so that really isnt an option for you.

This has been over the course of the last 5.5 months. I have been on gear for the last 9 weeks.



There is nothing that any of us can say or do to get you out of the funk you are currently in. Only you (can prevent forrest fires!...) can get yourself motivated enough to do something about it.

There is going to come a time where you are sick of feeling how you are feeling, and you will do something about it. You just have to decide when that time has come...


Goodluck bro. Stay safe... stay sane... and stay focus'd. Keep your chin up.

 

[Beachboy6294]

Cannabis Sativa.

You beat me to it!! That has always worked for me no matter what!

Bro I feel for you cause I've been there but it could be worse even though you may not think so now. I got married and had two little girls and my wife decided she didn't want to be married anymore cause she was so young and was missing out on all the fun her friends were experiencing. That's what happens when you marry someone 12 years younger than you! I did the opposite I didn't workout and would just stay at home and eat everything possible that was bad for you! It's tough to get through bro I know and wish I could do something to help you but the only thing that really helps is time! I hope your stable enough and your mind is right when you start your gear also cause that could be a bad thing for some that like to blame their temper on gear. Myself it did the opposite for me made me feel better about myself which made me nicer towards people and it will help with your appetite most likley dependng on what you take.

I wish you the best and if you need a bro to talk to I'm here for you! Good luck!!

 

[medi3val]

www.doubleyourdating.com

This guy is incredible. He not only teaches you how to attract and keep women, but he teaches you why they do things and what is going on inside their mind. It will change your life. I know it has mine. I've been with more girls in the past three months than I've been with in two years.

 

[Quiltie]

I feel for you bro. But the best motivation in my life to get into the gym is being dumped by a girl that I loved. You're in a GOOD situation; it's funny that you don't see that, Blackhat. Going to work everyday is like torture, you can't focus. You feel like giving up on the gym and working out. But you must read this thread and understand the the most important thing in the world is for you to focus on YOU. You need to ponder your situation and make a list of things that you can get together and improve, and take daily steps toward improving YOURSELF. Clean your car, jot down a better diet plan, change up your workout routine- are you going to tell me that you're doing everything exactly the way you should be? Nobody does (of course), so take this rare opportunity of not being burdened with entertaining and clean up the operation. Women will take notice, there's nothing more attractive than a guy who's making an effort to improve himself. Within a month of my taking consistant, daily steps to get it together I was dating a hottie. (And I'm an ugly m*therf*cker). Do it, they'll be chasing YOU around in no time at all- I promise.