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Patrick Steele
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One thing you should know is that proffessional bodybuilding and Natural dont belong in the same sentence lol.
Need Advice Please JUST found out fiancee uses steroids DO NOT know what to do!!!!!
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riverrock
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The Bigdawg said:
Bigdawg,
Let me tell you something.....Like yourself and other Bros, I depend on this board as being a serious forum where real issues are discussed by real members, not someone setting up a new account with the sole purpose of pretending that they are a new member, but are in fact taking the total piss out of the whole lot of us, you and I included.
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roidpuple
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.......Ya you are probably going to have to face the face the steroids are going to come with him... he can tell you there for someone else... or that he will quit.. but he will be lying.... to be 280 guessing he is not fat.. he has to be on them.....
so 1st thing you better tell him you dont mind you just dont want him to lie to you about it .... that is the only way you will get him to talk to you about it... if not you are asking for a lie.... If you are wanting him to quit..he would have to quit doing somthing he loves..... steroids my slow his test.count accationally.... up it will pick back up..... Lots of bodybuilders have children... lots
so 1st thing you better tell him you dont mind you just dont want him to lie to you about it .... that is the only way you will get him to talk to you about it... if not you are asking for a lie.... If you are wanting him to quit..he would have to quit doing somthing he loves..... steroids my slow his test.count accationally.... up it will pick back up..... Lots of bodybuilders have children... lots
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Mr.X
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Re: Need Advice Please JUST found out fiancee uses steroids DO NOT know what to do!!!
Since you haven't responded to anyone else, I'm not sure if you will respond here. However, it seems that you're very confused about steroids and how/why/when they are used and by whom. I suggest you do a few things:
1) Educate yourself about bodybuilding and steroids - learn a bit about our lifestyle...after all, I am forced to learn what panties my wife wants me to buy, why shouldn't you learn what your fiancee/husband likes?
2) Talk to him, ONLY, with an open mind and keeping your new-found knowledge about the lifestyle in the back of your head. Be open and clear, don't believe the stigma the media puts out, only belive your own knowledge and views from an educated standpoint. Tell him how you feel and ask him: why it was so important for him to lie to you? did he not trust you enough to share? or are YOU not open enough with him to share?
Remember, this is NOT he-did she-did, he-said she-said, it's about "us" (you and him together). Again, talk it over, be mature about it, and see all sides of the story before you come back and flip out again.
3) Last thing, do you workout w/ the guy? do you help him diet? do you know why he enjoys what he does? do you know when his last blood-test was (for his health)? do you workout?
Ask yourself the basic questions, and come up with more of your own -don't just let the media tell you how to think...think for yourself, think about your future husband and think of how to make a future for yourself as a couple.
Mr.X
sweetmisskelly said:
Since you haven't responded to anyone else, I'm not sure if you will respond here. However, it seems that you're very confused about steroids and how/why/when they are used and by whom. I suggest you do a few things:
1) Educate yourself about bodybuilding and steroids - learn a bit about our lifestyle...after all, I am forced to learn what panties my wife wants me to buy, why shouldn't you learn what your fiancee/husband likes?
2) Talk to him, ONLY, with an open mind and keeping your new-found knowledge about the lifestyle in the back of your head. Be open and clear, don't believe the stigma the media puts out, only belive your own knowledge and views from an educated standpoint. Tell him how you feel and ask him: why it was so important for him to lie to you? did he not trust you enough to share? or are YOU not open enough with him to share?
Remember, this is NOT he-did she-did, he-said she-said, it's about "us" (you and him together). Again, talk it over, be mature about it, and see all sides of the story before you come back and flip out again.
3) Last thing, do you workout w/ the guy? do you help him diet? do you know why he enjoys what he does? do you know when his last blood-test was (for his health)? do you workout?
Ask yourself the basic questions, and come up with more of your own -don't just let the media tell you how to think...think for yourself, think about your future husband and think of how to make a future for yourself as a couple.
Mr.X
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