Need advice...found another womans phone number in my hubbys jeans

[Sniperwolf]

Like your husband, people sometimes make false judgement. I think he should be allowed one last chance to pull himself together, especially since you have children. As the last poster said, it will be important to start talking again and to get everything out in the open. Going to counselling may be a good option here. If he really values the marriage, I don't think he will stray again. I don't think marriage is something that should be thrown away so easily.

 

[luvs2workout]

I know all of that...How many chances does a person deserve???

Im not making any decisions right now, as Ive previously stated.....counseling is on TOP of the list of priorities though!!!

 

[luvs2workout]

KRONK and KRONKETTE

I had to give a special thank you to you both!! Its nice to know their are wonderful people out there like you what yall did for me, the time yall put into it,,,,, means the world to me.....even though things are hard for me right now, something good has come out of it I will call yall tomorrow

all my love

 

[KAYNE]

I know all of that...How many chances does a person deserve???

THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO FIGURE OUT MYSELF. WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO MAKE IT WORK. AND YOU TRY YOUR HARDEST. BUT THERE COMES A POINT WHERE YOU JUST HAVE TO SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH I GUESS. I RECENTLY WOKE UP AND REALIZED I WAS TIRED OF GETTING LIED TO AND HEARING THAT MY GF WAS CHEATING ON ME. IF SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN TREATING ME GREAT I WOULDNT HAVE BELIEVED IT. BUT WHEN YOU ACT LIKE SHE WAS ACTING, I HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO START BELIEVING THE THINGS I HEARD. THATS ON TOP OF ALL THE LIES I CAUGHT HER IN ALSO.

I DONT KNOW YOUR SITUATION LUVS BUT I REALLY WISH YOU THE BEST IN IT. IF THIS DOES HAPPEN TO TURN OUT BAD, I'M SURE IN THE END SOME GOOD WILL COME OF IT AS I'M SURE YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED. NOT ALL OF US ARE BAD. PROMISE.


S

 

[IanStuart]

how did daneilson become a mod, that guy is a fag

 

[Austin316]

Im sorry Luvs..I really can't imagine what you are going through, good luck to you with whatever you decide to do, be strong

 

[gotmilk]

Kill him.

Unless you have children.

Then castrate him and render him unconscious with a mallet.

Hmmm...somehow I knew you would say that

 

[kronk]

KRONK and KRONKETTE

I had to give a special thank you to you both!! Its nice to know their are wonderful people out there like you what yall did for me, the time yall put into it,,,,, means the world to me.....even though things are hard for me right now, something good has come out of it I will call yall tomorrow

all my love

Your welcome luvs. Talk to you soon.

 

[MrMuscle]

GOD DAMNIT

why does this hsit always happend to the best people..stay tough Luvs. im here if you need me

 

[polarpixie]

i'm so sorry to hear that this is how it turned out. i was really hoping the number meant nothing....


well luvs, it sounds to me like you are trying to keep your wits about and thinking clearly, so that is a good thing and prolly hard as hell to do in a situation like this. What a dickhead. I hope they are telling the truth about not getting physically intimate, even tho he didn't cheat on you physcially, he cheated on your love and trust. I hate cheaters. But I hope you can work it out somehow for your family's sake.