Need advice...found another womans phone number in my hubbys jeans

[luvs2workout]

Please ONLY serious replys if you dont mind......

As I was folding my husband jeans a piece of paper fell out the pocket...when I opened it, I found a womans name w/her number and her work number on it (also an email address - but I can hardly make it out)

I researched as much as I could on the pc and found out that SHE is the exact same age as me - she lives 2 hours away in a city that my husband frequently travels for work.....

I asked him very nicely about the number and he said he had NO IDEA where the number came from...he said he must have picked it up on accident at a store or job or something...I acted like I believed him and told him that I trusted him - and I threw the number in the garbage....only to go and dig it out when he went outside.....

Now I dont know where to go from here....I dont want to call b/c IF there is something going on, then she would probly just lie....I would feel like an insecure stupid little wife calling....I would love to drive and just SEE if this is someone my husband would be interested in (see if shes pretty)....I dont know what to do He doesnt know Im even looking into this anymore....I can check his cell bill - but it wont be here for another 3 or 4 weeks and I would go crazy till then....HELP!!!!

Honestly - I have questioned his fidelity a time or two, but lately he has given me NO reason and Ive actually trusted him more than ever, but you never know???

 

[FreakMonster]

To be honest with you I think he's lying about the number. He probably met this chick and asked for her number and he was gonna call her.

I think you should just call the number and ask for the lady and ask her if she knows who your husband is but don't identify yourself as his wife because then she might lie.

If she tells you she does know who he is then you just busted your husband lying to you.

 

[Crazier]

Honestly - I have questioned his fidelity a time or two, but lately he has given me NO reason and Ive actually trusted him more than ever, but you never know???

Bullshit. He just did. This is a bunch of bullshit : "I asked him very nicely about the number and he said he had NO IDEA where the number came from...he said he must have picked it up on accident at a store or job or something."

BULLSHIT.

Sorry luvs... I don't know how to exactly 'catch' him... but it sounds like there is definately something you can cath him on.
Especially seeing how he travels to her city for business.

Sorry luvs... but this doesn't sound too promising.

I hope for the best for you, and that his bullshit answer was true.
But really...
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[FreakMonster]

Or you could hire a private detective to follow him around while he is traveling or you could just tap his cell phone which is easy to do.

 

[Testoterone Tom]

You have to get back to trusting him again, if he innocent, that is. Sounds like it's time to hire a private investigator. A good one should be able to clear up the situation in a couple of days, although I would'nt know what the charge would be. I hope he's innocent of all charges, good luck.

 

[MrMuscle]

i dunno. some women have a tendency to come on REAL strong. so maybe she made him take the note and told him to call her. the only way to fnd out is to

A) ask him again. tell him what you are feeling and that you are worried.

B) call the number, or sen her an email..but be classy about it

 

[Captain_insano]

Time to move to NJ luvs.

 

[dballer]

Give me the # and your husbands name. I will call her and act like an FBI Agent. I will ask how she knows him.. all of that crap. It works everytime.

 

[manny78]

Just drive to that specific city. Follow him and be stealthy. Its probably the only way for you to know. Otherwise hire a private detective.

There's 2 options:

A- He met this chick recently and he's planing to fuck her.

B- Something related with his job but he lied to you cause he thaugt you wouldn't believe him.

 

[FreakMonster]

Give me the # and your husbands name. I will call her and act like an FBI Agent. I will ask how she knows him.. all of that crap. It works everytime.

hehe, that's a good one.