My g/f killed herself last night.

[Ganryu]

Sorry for your loss, csharp. Thoughts and prayers from me also, bro.

 

[jerkbox]

I am very sorry to hear this. I wish you the best.

 

[c-sharp minor]

We are common-law which gives me legal rights to many things, including her death benefits.

Well....her last wish was to be cremated and have her ashes scattered in an old forest.

The funeral parlor informs me that I don't have the legal right to sign the cremation certificate.

What a pile of bullshit!!!!

Her mom is in Quebec and a fucking transient alcoholic. Now I cannot make any funeral arrangements whatsoever until they finish checking every last contact in order to reach her mom, who she hated.

The people they want to reach know absolutely nothing about my g/f anymore, it's ridiculous.

 

[Shak]

my prayers & thoughts are with you at his difficult time. stay strong and remember the positive way in which she enhanced your life.

 

[Lestat]

I'm sorry to hear this man. I hope you are ok. Time will help.

 

[Alkybanshee]

Sorry to hear all of this, thoughts are with you...

 

[2Thick]

We are common-law which gives me legal rights to many things, including her death benefits.

Well....her last wish was to be cremated and have her ashes scattered in an old forest.

The funeral parlor informs me that I don't have the legal right to sign the cremation certificate.

What a pile of bullshit!!!!

Her mom is in Quebec and a fucking transient alcoholic. Now I cannot make any funeral arrangements whatsoever until they finish checking every last contact in order to reach her mom, who she hated.

The people they want to reach know absolutely nothing about my g/f anymore, it's ridiculous.

So if they cannot find the mom, they have to listen to your wishes?

 

[c-sharp minor]

So if they cannot find the mom, they have to listen to your wishes?

Yes.

We just got back from a few meetings. Returning her wheelchair, going to set up funeral arrangements and putting in her obituary. It looks like there won't be a problem as the mom is very hard to locate.

She'll be in the paper here on Saturday if anyone wants to check it out online.

 

[Parabellum]

Damn,

Sorry for your loss.

Stay strong.

 

[SofaGeorge]

C-Sharp, you may not want to consider this... but it might be a good time to check in for a visit with a therapist... even if it is just to have the therapist tell you you don't need counseling.

This is heavy, really heavy. It might be a good idea to talk to a pro.