My boyfriend is going out of town for the weekend

[PICK3]

ololololol!

 

[the_alcatraz]

If he cheats on you, he cheats. Don't be afraid of it. If he leaves, he leaves.

If he dies, he dies.

 

[the_alcatraz]

you should have a drunk three-way tonight. It will make you feel better.

 

[sterolizer]

Holy shit chill the fuck out you worry rat

 

[princeofsin]

You are emotionally attached to him that's why.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

this thread sucks without pics, blue send me some pics

 

[cindylou]

You are emotionally attached to him that's why.

Correct. Ideally, the best thing to do in this situation is detach emotionally and bond with no one.

 

[EnderJE]

Correct. Ideally, the best thing to do in this situation is detach emotionally and bond with no one.

And be a monk or a nun.

 

[canadianhitman]

You are handling this right, blue:

Encouraging him to go was the right call. NOT phoning/texting him in a way that screams "I'm checking up on you" is the right call; let him call or text you if he feels like it. Showing him complete trust is very important, because there are few things that piss a person off more than feeling like their significant other is projecting baggage from previous relationships onto them. I've been there, and have dropped the girl like a hot potato...and I've sure to express to them "I'll be goddamned if I'm going to pay for somebody else's mistakes" on my way out.

Stay the course, and when he gets back, resist the urge to interrogate; do not demand a complete de-briefing with every detail of every hour of his time away. A simple "how was it?" and "did you have fun?" will suffice.

 

[ceo]

Correct. Ideally, the best thing to do in this situation is detach emotionally and bond with no one.

titcr


works for me anyway.