Men have NO RIGHTS.

[dballer]

Re: pregnancy

Stuff like this happens all the time. Sorry just read this thread today. I never wanted children and when i say i never wanted children i meant it. I like to work and go where i wanna go when i wanna go there. Any way i had a one night stand 5 years ago that produced a son. I thoght no big deal. I'm a grown man i can handle this and at least if i was going to have one kid it was a boy.
Fade to two years ago. I'd had a steady girlfriend for about 6 months and we had moved in together. Did all the responsible stuff like having the aids test so that she could go on the pill and we could stop using condoms. Her idea by the way. Three months later she tells me that she's pregnant. Ran out of bc pills and hadn't had time to get anymore and neglected to tell me. I was super pissed but i'm not the kind of guy that believes in abortion. I believe in the right to do it -just not in my right to tell someone to do it.
Anyway a friend of ours comes forward and tells me that my girlfriend had talked to her about having a kid and she was bummed because she knew that i didn't want anymore. We had talked about it and i had told her that if she wanted kids she needed to find somebody else. She said that she understood. At least i thought she did. Didn't take me long to see that this had probably been planned. I decided to stick with her because i don't run away from stuff but i also decided to take matters into my own hands.
I went and saw a urologist and had a vasectomy.I didn't tell her about it until i came home, balls all swollen and went straigtht to bed. Needless to say, she wasn't happy. I explained how i wasn't happy about being a father again and i was gonna make damn sure it didn't happen again. Anyway, we had a beautiful baby girl that i love more than anything in the world.
Of course things didn't work out with her mom. Magically, she ended up pregnant again about half a year ago. The first thing i did was see a doctor who confirmed that i was still shooting blanks. The second thing i did was go home and dump her ass.
the moral of the story is men should be responsible for their actions but women are not always innocent. It's a lot easier to get fucked over by a woman that you've known for a long time than it is on one on a one night stand. Either way, put yourself first and don't take a chance. Wear a condom or get your nuts cut. It didn't hurt that bad. I was in the gym the next day.

Hey.. I am sorry man.. but there are alot of young kids on this board.. you should keep stuff like this to yourself.. unless you want to promote the gay population.

 

[gwl9dta4]

That is interesting. Is there new research that I don't know about which shows that *most* of the physical symptoms and pain pregnant women are just 'in their head'?

You mean in a period of about 9 months, pregnant women imagine their hormones to be out of whack causing all kinds of havoc on their bodies? You mean they imagine morning sickness, intermittent nausea, and fatigue? You mean they imagine feeling like they have to go to the bathroom every 10 mins because their uterus is imaginarily pressing up against their baldder? You mean they are only imagining that their breasts feel like they are going to explode in pain and their back feels like it's breaking because they are carrying imaginary extra weight on their bellies now? You mean it really does not hurt when something that is 4x the size of their vagina cavity is pushing their way out of her body? Should I continue? Whether women's bodies are designed to carry babies or not not exclude the agony that goes along with that privilege. IMO, making a statement like that just makes you sound like an angry man making false and inaccurate accusations.

Sweetie give it up, the way you described pregnancy with breasts exploding and backs breaking and all the sicknesses is a sorry attempt coined by femenists to make the male sensitive to women issues and their ability to "carry life". Give me a break, being pregnant is a good thing, many women i know of consider this the bast time of their lives, they actually feel great, sure there may be some aches and pains here and there but the overall experience is very gratifying and memorable, so stop trying to make it sound like you are god knows what since you can get pregnant.

 

[bunnymt]

Sweetie give it up, the way you described pregnancy with breasts exploding

Sounds like it could be fun? Is that a come on?

 

[polarpixie]

Sweetie give it up, the way you described pregnancy with breasts exploding and backs breaking and all the sicknesses is a sorry attempt coined by femenists to make the male sensitive to women issues and their ability to "carry life". Give me a break, being pregnant is a good thing, many women i know of consider this the bast time of their lives, they actually feel great, sure there may be some aches and pains here and there but the overall experience is very gratifying and memorable, so stop trying to make it sound like you are god knows what since you can get pregnant.

While it may not be 'torture' depending on how well your body handles everything that is going on, my point is simply that you were out of line to dismiss the very real and physical symptoms of pregnancy as something that is 'all in her head'. That statements was typical of something a male chauvinist would say.

 

[polarpixie]

By the way, what I said was that they feel like they are going to explode in pain. That would be pretty gruesome if they actually exploded.

 

[bunnymt]

That statements was typical of something a male chauvinist would say.

From what I can see, he posts as a realist, not a chauvinist.

 

[smallmovesal]

By the way, what I said was that they feel like they are going to explode in pain. That would be pretty gruesome if they actually exploded.

oh come on... we know that's what you meant.

bunny, i'd have to say that judging from the few posts i've read from our polish friend, he seems to be coming off as a bit condescending- "sweetie". lol!

 

[bunnymt]

oh come on... we know that's what you meant.

bunny, i'd have to say that judging from the few posts i've read from our polish friend, he seems to be coming off as a bit condescending- "sweetie". lol!

I don't know....maybe I'm just partial to polish guys....
Anyway, condescending or not, he gets his point across, no?

 

[polarpixie]

From what I can see, he posts as a realist, not a chauvinist.

Maybe so. However, why do I feel as if you are attacking my statements for some reason? If you disagree with something that I or anyone else have said, then state your opinion and your reason. That is how we learn from each other.

I'm not familiar with any of his other posts. He may be a realist in general, but I was pointing out that the one statement that he made was typical of someone with a male chauvinistic point of view. That is all.

 

[smallmovesal]

def. point made... i just hate when the guys resort to calling the women "sweetie" and things of that nature when the debate is starting to get a little dirtier.