Men are pigs...

[blueta2]

Maybe he felt u were flirting with him

ugh....well if he did, he's delusional! Why would I flirt with a 60 something Italian dude?!
And how is "I dreamt you stole my lunch" anywhere near flirting!

 

[reno240]

ugh....well if he did, he's delusional! Why would I flirt with a 60 something Italian dude?!
And how is "I dreamt you stole my lunch" anywhere near flirting!

Right there. I told you - never tell a guy he is in your dream - in ANY capacity.

 

[blueta2]

Indeed. Most of it really doesn't affect me. My now fired supervisor used to make little comments all the time....sometimes boderline sexist, sometimes outright....but I genuinely waved them off and had a "whatever" attitude. He was especially ahrd on the few women in our department and I was the only one of the few who DID stand up to him on a couple of occasions when he was being an out of line jerk. I take the small stuff because it doesn't bug me. But if someone really makes me uncomfortable there's no way I'd just sit there and take it.

Like you, I put up with a ton of comment and let 99% them slide, but some comments, well, I would and will not let slide!
I can take banter like the best of them. I can joke with coworkers about stuff, but when a superviser says to me "Hey would u suck me off if you didn't work for me" well that's when it crosses the line!

 

[Faizakafez]

but you did dream about him, so he probally though it was way of flriting with him tbh..

you said he stole his lunch- so you kinda gave him a negative 'stealing your lunch' but he was in your dream
Dreams are subconciouns..and usually the last thing u think about before bed...

I.E i woke up with major wood this morning because i was watching porn b4 bed.

I mean if the mailroom girl that im after (fingers crossed)came up to me and said she dreamt about me last night that would appear to me as a signal of intrest.

 

[bluepeter]

Show us your tits.

 

[blueta2]

Right there. I told you - never tell a guy he is in your dream - in ANY capacity.

Well if any guy interprets the word "dream-dreamt" as sexual, then they need some serious therapy!
I bet the guys that we had fired from here dreamt of us every night. They probably woke up in a sweat too.......but not the good kind!

 

[jh1]

Pics of your vagina, please.

 

[Faizakafez]

i dreamt of you blu last night so i guess it balances the universe out

 

[heatherrae]

Like you, I put up with a ton of comment and let 99% them slide, but some comments, well, I would and will not let slide!
I can take banter like the best of them. I can joke with coworkers about stuff, but when a superviser says to me "Hey would u suck me off if you didn't work for me" well that's when it crosses the line!

I once had a male paralegal come up behind me and put his hands over my eyes and say "guess who?" Then, he tried rubbing my shoulders. He must have seriously misunderstood the heirarchy in the office...lol. I told him "touch me again, and you are fired."

 

[covergrl80]

I guess it depends on how uncomfortable you are willing to become just so that you don't - as you say - "create office tension".

This I agree with. I myself have neer been offended by ones words. I think it's because I have a bad attitude and will tell just about anyone to kiss my ass or go F^%k off. Which I might add is not a good thing all the time.