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juiceddreadlocks said:
most kids did go to Truman high.
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Not me, I was sober. good school though. Christman, now that was a fucked up school.

Nimbus, suspected for what? Being a newbie... guilty. Back to the topic though...Myway, anything new?
 
myway said:
Exactly. I'm trying to be reasonable. They must have been brought into my house by someone. He just said it wasn't him. He says he has no idea.
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does ypur friend who does laundry at your house have any friends/roomies who may have gotten them mixed up in her laundry? you know how chics change at other chics house. i bet they were brought in by your friend by mistake.
 
myway said:
lol. i am her only friend. she hasn't done laundry at my house for over 6 months.
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your her only friend? that says alot about her just from that one statement. maybe there is a reason. maybe she likes your dude and planted them or she wants you all to herself for clubbing or whatever and planted them.
 
myway said:
He doesn't go on trips BUT
He works some off-duty cop jobs. Basically, takes his truck and watches places (for security) and sits there all night. Before we got married and moved in together, he had me come see him at these spots. I could have easily left my panties in that truck back in those days. If some trick left them in there and he didn't realize til he got home/almost home, I could see him easily deciding to try to smuggle them out of the truck by stuffing them in a coat pocket/other laundry.
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hmmmmmm didnt know this side of it. do you have the money tp hire a PI? have the PI get pics of him on his cell and see if it is his normal cell?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Are you high? A strange woman's underwear DONT = innocence.

If it were the other way around (meaning that the hubby found strange boxer's in wifey's laundry) then would it still = innocent woman?

PUH-LEASE.

The guy is a dumbass because he got sloppy.

But AN infidelity is also not a reason to end a marriage. Talk it out. If he won't come clean to some level of stupidity (we are all human) then he needs to find someplace else to get his laundry done - ie his momma's house.
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cheating is reason to end a marriage? Are you high? trust is everything!! if you cant trust your spouse what kind of life will you have? one full of ulcers and xanax.
 
all the whey said:
Yep.

Everytime I had that feeling in my gut I eventually found out I was right.

It does no good to argue with them about it. It just makes them cover their tracts better.
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my ex girlfriend thought i was a big cheater bcause early on in our relationship my ex boot calls were still calling. i would never answer or call them back. so her gut was telling her i was a cheater. she was way off. she had full access to all my emails sits i visitd and anything else she wanted. she still never trusted me.
 
myway said:
I would LOVE to find out that im wrong. Unfortunatly, there is no other explaination.... unless my house is growing panties. I am always here. No one sleeps here, showers here except me or my husband.
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Did you pick them up at the gym by accident?
 
My friend has nothing to do with this. She was as shocked as i was. She even felt bad because she was the one who talked me into dating him in the first place. Plus, she isn't someone that would cause any of this. I trust about 3 people on this earth. She's been one of them for over 8 years.
Something very suspect happened(undies in dryer). Since my hubby has lied before, it makes it hard to believe him in times like these. I have no further evidence of wrong-doing but I don't need any. Either way, the issue is trust. It was gone, before the undies, from other lies. This is the source of the problem and is what needs work.
 
myway said:
The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.
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If he has lied in the past about something then I can promise he is doin git again. Ill be honest he is cheatng. One of my best friends cheats on his girls and denies it the same way he is.
 
Pat_McCrotch said:
If he has lied in the past about something then I can promise he is doin git again. Ill be honest he is cheatng. One of my best
friends cheats on his girls and denies it the same way he is.
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I mostly agree. I think he was cheating but he has never been caught cheating before. His lies were always about other things.
 
myway said:
I understand that fcuked up stuff(like ur story) can happen. The problem is:
If he's afraid of getting caught and is not ready for our marriage to end... why would he ever tell me the truth? If I decide I need a confession before I'm SURE he's innocent, then he needs to just never confess. That doesn't mean he's being honest. It bothers me how he's not giving much of a reaction. It's like he realizes that I will never have any other way to find out any truth other than what he tells me.
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he may not be lying about him not knowing how they got there. I am sure he is thinking in his head" I know I threw those out. How did they get in the laundry"
 
Pat_McCrotch said:
he may not be lying about him not knowing how they got there. I am sure he is thinking in his head" I know I threw those out. How did they get in the laundry"
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No. He's VERY absent minded. He's trying to figure out how he forgot to throw them out. Must have been distracted by a shiny object or something.
 
Dial_tone said:
From avi's it looks like the panties could belong to Bikinimom.
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LMAO!!! your a mother fucker!!!!! LOL
 
velvett said:
My, my, he must be a real cocky fellow to just go to bed after his wife and mother of his newborn child just found another woman's panties in his laundry.

And when you say a "clean phone' do you mean the recent calls, missed calls or do you mean the actual phone bill?

If you mean the actual phone and that he clears all the incoming and outgoing messages - that is a bit odd (paranoid or devious). And since I'm rambling, what did he do in the past to make you feel that you have to check his phone?
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I clean my phone every day or two, not because I am cheating but because I wanna.
 
javaguru said:
It all starts with a hug bro...then a kiss......next thing you know your playing star wars with your best friend. :)
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Do you speak from personal experience Java?































Im fucking with ya.
 
nefertiti said:
Bino,

I know you think his nonchalance is a point in his favor...I see it as the opposite. As cindy said, it's a tool of manipulation. He has a history of lying to her about contact with women, and one of the consequences of that is that in the future the burden of proof is on him, not her. In his shoes, were I innocent, I would have moved heaven and earth to prove my innocence. Not gone to bed at 8 and said, "you should just trust me." If I were innocent, I would have been sick to my stomach at the thought of my spouse sitting up all night trying to "just trust me."

No, I would have been right there with her, staying up all night trying to come up with answers.
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Because you have ovaries. This is what people with ovaries do. You over think things and it causes problems. Someone doesn't have to explain something or have a good answer. is it weired? Yes it is. Did he cheat. It sure sounds like it based on past issues. Is it 100% PROOF? Nope.
 
Pat_McCrotch said:
I clean my phone every day or two, not because I am cheating but because I wanna.
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Most cops have a clean phone. It an "unknown" phone. It never enters the home. They only have it at work. They just load it into the police car with the rest of their stuff and take it back out at the end of shift. Wives don't have access to the police station locker room(phones usually kept in the locker). They deny the phones and it's hard to catch them with one. I only know about this stuff because I had several police-officer friends before I knew my hubby. I have been working with cops for over 8 years. I knew all of the tricks before he met me. It's a good and a bad thing. As far as his normal cell phone, I get the bill every month. It's sent to my email addy. It's fine.
 
musclemom said:
Exactly my point. In particular, since she's is postpregnancy she needs a little extra compassion.

Some of the people who are pointing out that maybe he's nonchalant because he knows he didn't do anything wrong have sort of missed the point you're picking up very well. He's been caught if not with his hands in the cookie jar he at least was reaching for the lid.
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I wish my cookie jar wore panties like that!! Some guys have all the luck. :(
 
Stefka said:
Maybe someone bought you some large red thongs as a gag gift when you were pregnant.

Stray underwear are usually a bad sign. I've been there. My boyfriend reacted in the same way your husband did. I knew he was lying and I later had real proof that he was lying. But I wasn't even 24 and I had no real emotional investment in the relationship.

This must be so hard to deal with right now. I wish the best for you and your son.
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Is samooth still calling you after all this?
 
Dial_tone said:
I bet all the missing socks are in some sock bar somewhere laughing their asses off.
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and sending fatty red panties back in.
 
The Best Way To Get Over One Man Is To Get Under Another. Just Sayin
 
blueta2 said:
Yes it will work, as long as your honest. Make therapy about you and not him.
If he wants to lie, then he loses. If you are honest, you will get the benefit of therapy and the strength to move on in peace.

Myway, thereapy saved my sanity from a cheating ex.
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Well if he comes clean in therapy then she has her answer and he loses. if he sticks to his story he still loses. Why not deny and lose and not really have proof you cheated than admit it and be known as a cheater and still lose?

its a lose lose for him.
 
myway said:
Yes, exactly. Although, at work he's a loner. He deals with the job but nothing else. I don't really blame him considering the jerks he works with.... but he doesn't chit-chat/socialize at all while he's working.
If he gets pissed off about something at work, he can talk to me about that stuff(but not as much as he did before we got married). He won't confront the problems at work. He won't deal with problems with me. But he will vent about work to me. He's very passive.
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Maybe he pissed off the wrong cop at work?
 
Beaverscratch said:
If he is cheating on you , you will know it soon enough. Has he been acting differently recently? More interest in looking good? Catching him in lies? if not, dont worry yet, just be cautious. With that said, if he is a cop, he is naturally more prone to cheating. Power trips, above the law mentality, many of those dudes have..especially if he is Indep PD or KC.
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Is this nates alter?
 
Beaverscratch said:
Not me, I was sober. good school though. Christman, now that was a fucked up school.

Nimbus, suspected for what? Being a newbie... guilty. Back to the topic though...Myway, anything new?
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the suspicious thing to me is that you start off posting in this of all threads, and then just happen to live in the same town as the OP.
 
lmao @ pat mccrotch responding individually to thirty different posts throughout an old thread at 3 in the morning
 
nimbus said:
the suspicious thing to me is that you start off posting in this of all threads, and then just happen to live in the same town as the OP.
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hmmm
 
nimbus said:
the suspicious thing to me is that you start off posting in this of all threads, and then just happen to live in the same town as the OP.
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Ive been a member here since 99 or 00 I think, under a diff name (skeet5150 if you wanna check). I had my posting priv. revoked due to lack of activity. I couldnt post without going plat but have been reading posts for years. Just recently signed back up under Beaverscratch. So thats my story. Sorry if I am a "suspect" ..suspected for what I dont know, nor care really. This message board is pretty entertaining so I figured I'd finally jump in and post when I saw someone from my area posting. You guys are pretty tough on new folks.

But here is my suspect reasons: I live in her area, and I posted in this thread..Oh NO heavin forbid. I should be banned! lol Some people take this internet shit tooo seriously I guess ("we dont take too kindly to strangers 'round here menatlity lol)
 
nefertiti said:
lmao @ pat mccrotch responding individually to thirty different posts throughout an old thread at 3 in the morning
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that's why he's known as pat mccrotch
 
Beaverscratch said:
Ive been a member here since 99 or 00 I think, under a diff name (skeet5150 if you wanna check). I had my posting priv. revoked due to lack of activity. I couldnt post without going plat but have been reading posts for years. Just recently signed back up under Beaverscratch. So thats my story. Sorry if I am a "suspect" ..suspected for what I dont know, nor care really. This message board is pretty entertaining so I figured I'd finally jump in and post when I saw someone from my area posting. You guys are pretty tough on new folks.

But here is my suspect reasons: I live in her area, and I posted in this thread..Oh NO heavin forbid. I should be banned! lol Some people take this internet shit tooo seriously I guess ("we dont take too kindly to strangers 'round here menatlity lol)
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never said you should be banned bro; just said the situation (you) seemed a little suspect. I still think i was totally justified in saying that, but thanks for clearing it up
 
Beaverscratch said:
Ive been a member here since 99 or 00 I think, under a diff name (skeet5150 if you wanna check). I had my posting priv. revoked due to lack of activity. I couldnt post without going plat but have been reading posts for years. Just recently signed back up under Beaverscratch. So thats my story. Sorry if I am a "suspect" ..suspected for what I dont know, nor care really. This message board is pretty entertaining so I figured I'd finally jump in and post when I saw someone from my area posting. You guys are pretty tough on new folks.

But here is my suspect reasons: I live in her area, and I posted in this thread..Oh NO heavin forbid. I should be banned! lol Some people take this internet shit tooo seriously I guess ("we dont take too kindly to strangers 'round here menatlity lol)
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Drop the Fucking Attitude!!!!
 
superdave said:
who the hell reads posts for years without posting
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Superdave..sorry, had more to do in life than worrying about my posting privelidges here BUT,
Couldnt post//System wouldnt let me due to inactivity, elitefitness required me to go plat to post or just be in read only. i chose read only until i saw there were peeps from KC area, Myway being one..and another dude who is an Indep Cop. Small world

CEO. No tude here bro. Its hard to read emotion through text however so I forgive your misjudgement in my emotion of having an "attitude" I dont take myself seriously enough to have an attitude on the internet, thats just kind of silly.

Beaveritch would be cool but my pet beaver's name was beaverscratch, hence my board name. Im not very creative.

Nimbus, your bool bro. Was just kidding with the deserving of bannishment and really my whole comment.

JuicedDL (cool name dude)..Same here with the exception of Ohara..Where the heck is that anyway? KC?

Where do all the KC folks here train? I used to train at Xtreme and now 24

Myway, sorry to hijack your thread with my babbling. I hope there is some closure to your situation very soon!
 
Beaverscratch said:
Superdave..sorry, had more to do in life than worrying about my posting privelidges here BUT,
Couldnt post//System wouldnt let me due to inactivity, elitefitness required me to go plat to post or just be in read only. i chose read only until i saw there were peeps from KC area, Myway being one..and another dude who is an Indep Cop. Small world

CEO. No tude here bro. Its hard to read emotion through text however so I forgive your misjudgement in my emotion of having an "attitude" I dont take myself seriously enough to have an attitude on the internet, thats just kind of silly.

Beaveritch would be cool but my pet beaver's name was beaverscratch, hence my board name. Im not very creative.

Nimbus, your bool bro. Was just kidding with the deserving of bannishment and really my whole comment.

JuicedDL (cool name dude)..Same here with the exception of Ohara..Where the heck is that anyway? KC?

Where do all the KC folks here train? I used to train at Xtreme and now 24

Myway, sorry to hijack your thread with my babbling. I hope there is some closure to your situation very soon!
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I train at my house, in my garage but I live 2 blocks from 24.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
dont laugh... at the Y by truman when I lived there.
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Dude, many people diss the Y there. I love it! Small, good crowd, old school weights. I love it. And the water fountain there on the top level has the absolute best, coldest water ever put out by a water fountain..That sounds odd,but I swear its true! lol

Myway, I within the last 2 years moved away from your current neighborhood. I lived to the north of 24 HR, down that big hill, just a couple of blocks down. Do those damn geese still block the road every fucking night? lol Cute little bass turds think they own Crackerneck Road.

I have a friend who is an Indep PD that lives in that hood too, honestly just a few blocksfrom 24... I wonder if that is your man? :worried:
 
Beaverscratch said:
Dude, many people diss the Y there. I love it! Small, good crowd, old school weights. I love it. And the water fountain there on the top level has the absolute best, coldest water ever put out by a water fountain..That sounds odd,but I swear its true! lol

Myway, I within the last 2 years moved away from your current neighborhood. I lived to the north of 24 HR, down that big hill, just a couple of blocks down. Do those damn geese still block the road every fucking night? lol Cute little bass turds think they own Crackerneck Road.

I have a friend who is an Indep PD that lives in that hood too, honestly just a few blocksfrom 24... I wonder if that is your man? :worried:
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Are his initials NS or JO? Or is it CA? It could be several of them.
 
Beaverscratch said:
Dude, many people diss the Y there. I love it! Small, good crowd, old school weights. I love it. And the water fountain there on the top level has the absolute best, coldest water ever put out by a water fountain..That sounds odd,but I swear its true! lol

Myway, I within the last 2 years moved away from your current neighborhood. I lived to the north of 24 HR, down that big hill, just a couple of blocks down. Do those damn geese still block the road every fucking night? lol Cute little bass turds think they own Crackerneck Road.

I have a friend who is an Indep PD that lives in that hood too, honestly just a few blocksfrom 24... I wonder if that is your man? :worried:
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Plus, I live by 24 Hour Fitness not 24 Hwy.
U were talking about the Y by Truman High School? AMR is right behind the post office. And YES! The geese are BAD by Crackerneck.
 
myway said:
Plus, I live by 24 Hour Fitness not 24 Hwy.
U were talking about the Y by Truman High School? AMR is right behind the post office. And YES! The geese are BAD by Crackerneck.
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I meant 24 hour fitness , not lol hwy. Wouldnt get caught dead living over there. Friend's intials begin with a J..... L.... (great guy), and other not so friend who I am drawing a blank on his name at the moment but he is a HUGE dude and dumb as a box of rocks. I wouldnt doubt if he was a member of this site. I have a client with the initials DD...GREAT COP, you probably know him
 
Beaverscratch said:
I meant 24 hour fitness , not lol hwy. Wouldnt get caught dead living over there. Friend's intials begin with a J..... L.... (great guy), and other not so friend who I am drawing a blank on his name at the moment but he is a HUGE dude and dumb as a box of rocks. I wouldnt doubt if he was a member of this site. I have a client with the initials DD...GREAT COP, you probably know him
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Yes on the first one. The second one, could be a few people,lol. The 3rd, I know a BD but not a DD.
 
Beaverscratch said:
Born and raised in Indep. Have some good friends on the force and some not so good friends.

Now living in Lee's Scummit. I have a lot of Indep cops as clients. Why do you ask?
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I was born in Indep myself thats why I was asking.
 
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