Men. any idea?

[nimbus]

this beaverscratch character seems a bit suspect to me

 

[Beaverscratch]

most kids did go to Truman high.

Not me, I was sober. good school though. Christman, now that was a fucked up school.

Nimbus, suspected for what? Being a newbie... guilty. Back to the topic though...Myway, anything new?

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Exactly. I'm trying to be reasonable. They must have been brought into my house by someone. He just said it wasn't him. He says he has no idea.

does ypur friend who does laundry at your house have any friends/roomies who may have gotten them mixed up in her laundry? you know how chics change at other chics house. i bet they were brought in by your friend by mistake.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

lol. i am her only friend. she hasn't done laundry at my house for over 6 months.

your her only friend? that says alot about her just from that one statement. maybe there is a reason. maybe she likes your dude and planted them or she wants you all to herself for clubbing or whatever and planted them.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

He doesn't go on trips BUT
He works some off-duty cop jobs. Basically, takes his truck and watches places (for security) and sits there all night. Before we got married and moved in together, he had me come see him at these spots. I could have easily left my panties in that truck back in those days. If some trick left them in there and he didn't realize til he got home/almost home, I could see him easily deciding to try to smuggle them out of the truck by stuffing them in a coat pocket/other laundry.

hmmmmmm didnt know this side of it. do you have the money tp hire a PI? have the PI get pics of him on his cell and see if it is his normal cell?

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Are you high? A strange woman's underwear DONT = innocence.

If it were the other way around (meaning that the hubby found strange boxer's in wifey's laundry) then would it still = innocent woman?

PUH-LEASE.

The guy is a dumbass because he got sloppy.

But AN infidelity is also not a reason to end a marriage. Talk it out. If he won't come clean to some level of stupidity (we are all human) then he needs to find someplace else to get his laundry done - ie his momma's house.

cheating is reason to end a marriage? Are you high? trust is everything!! if you cant trust your spouse what kind of life will you have? one full of ulcers and xanax.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Yep.

Everytime I had that feeling in my gut I eventually found out I was right.

It does no good to argue with them about it. It just makes them cover their tracts better.

my ex girlfriend thought i was a big cheater bcause early on in our relationship my ex boot calls were still calling. i would never answer or call them back. so her gut was telling her i was a cheater. she was way off. she had full access to all my emails sits i visitd and anything else she wanted. she still never trusted me.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

I would LOVE to find out that im wrong. Unfortunatly, there is no other explaination.... unless my house is growing panties. I am always here. No one sleeps here, showers here except me or my husband.

Did you pick them up at the gym by accident?

 

[myway]

My friend has nothing to do with this. She was as shocked as i was. She even felt bad because she was the one who talked me into dating him in the first place. Plus, she isn't someone that would cause any of this. I trust about 3 people on this earth. She's been one of them for over 8 years.
Something very suspect happened(undies in dryer). Since my hubby has lied before, it makes it hard to believe him in times like these. I have no further evidence of wrong-doing but I don't need any. Either way, the issue is trust. It was gone, before the undies, from other lies. This is the source of the problem and is what needs work.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.

If he has lied in the past about something then I can promise he is doin git again. Ill be honest he is cheatng. One of my best friends cheats on his girls and denies it the same way he is.