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[2smallsa]

Bro, take my advise! Do the honeymoon thing now! We were going to wait 4 ours, and we still are eight years later. We both to busy now.

 

[Bikini Mod]

very strange

What is so strange about my post?

 

[musclemom]

as you know Im getting married Nov 10 and my wonderful soon to be wife wanted this huge wedding and I just sat back shut up and didnt say fuck all, but now when its coming to honeymoon planning we are fighting about the fact that we might have to put it on credit and pay it off over a few months, she thinks we should wait till next year when we have more money, however we are both so busy I know it wont happen that we have time off together.

so my question is how important is a honeymoon, it means alot to me,mostly because I havent travelled much.

I want opinions,I think it would be a nice way to unwind after all the stress

I've been married twice and I actually never had a "big" honeymoon. In fact, I didn't have a honeymoon at all with my second marriage, we took a day off in the middle of the work week, got married and went to work the next day.

You don't need to take a big, expensive trip to have a nice honeymoon. If money is an isse, take a long weekend, three or four days, go somewhere you can drive to and spend it in a nice hotel room that has a good amenities (good bed, large steam shower, fluffy towels), in close proximity of where you you can get nice meals. You will find that those days will be relaxing as hell (not doing a damn thing but rolling around in the sack) and will be something you will look back on with great fondness.

Take a vacation some other time and have fun travelling/sightseeing, then.

 

[digimon7068]

I've been married twice and I actually never had a "big" honeymoon. In fact, I didn't have a honeymoon at all with my second marriage, we took a day off in the middle of the work week, got married and went to work the next day.

You don't need to take a big, expensive trip to have a nice honeymoon. If money is an isse, take a long weekend, three or four days, go somewhere you can drive to and spend it in a nice hotel room that has a good amenities (good bed, large steam shower, fluffy towels), in close proximity of where you you can get nice meals. You will find that those days will be relaxing as hell (not doing a damn thing but rolling around in the sack) and will be something you will look back on with great fondness.

Take a vacation some other time and have fun travelling/sightseeing, then.

heck. . .you can get an all-inclusive trip to the bahamas for less than a g. . .

 

[heavy_duty]

(good bed, large steam shower, fluffy towels)

Translation - Big TV with free satellite and free porn, Jacuzzi Hot Tub, good room service, fully stocked mini fridge.

 

[Bikini Mod]

(good bed, large steam shower, fluffy towels)

Translation - Big TV with free satellite and free porn, Jacuzzi Hot Tub, good room service, fully stocked mini fridge.

I still want to know why my initial post in this thread was so strange?

 

[heavy_duty]

I still want to know why my initial post in this thread was so strange?

I STILL have not had a honeymoon, an engagement ring or even a formal proposal and we will be celebrating one year in hell *cough* I mean, wedded bliss soon. <--strange

Airfare for groom? why was he not already with you? Strange

Dressed as a pirate? strange

two of my girls (we were afraid to tell them that it was my wedding so the third opted to go trick-or-treating with her gf, poor thing cried for days after she found out she missed my wedding) <--very strange



and my sister (trailertrash matron of honor), my brother-in-law (her trailertrash husband) and their three kids. <---fucking strange

I know if you try to explain any of this shit it is going to be totally Weird, bizarre and strange!

 

[Bikini Mod]

I STILL have not had a honeymoon, an engagement ring or even a formal proposal and we will be celebrating one year in hell *cough* I mean, wedded bliss soon. <--strange

Airfare for groom? why was he not already with you? Strange

Dressed as a pirate? strange

two of my girls (we were afraid to tell them that it was my wedding so the third opted to go trick-or-treating with her gf, poor thing cried for days after she found out she missed my wedding) <--very strange



and my sister (trailertrash matron of honor), my brother-in-law (her trailertrash husband) and their three kids. <---fucking strange

I know if you try to explain any of this shit it is going to be totally Weird, bizarre and strange!

LOL oh......

My husband2B was in Texas at the time, while I was still in NJ.

We were married on Halloween LOL so we were all dressed in costumes.

And my husband had NO MONEY when we married so we couldn't afford an engagement ring, honeymoon, etc. yet there are still some ASSHATS on elite who call me a gold-digger.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Here's the thread w/pics:

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/chat-conversation/well-we-did-515298.html

And no, we didn't advertise his situation at the time as it really wasn't anyone's business. I did confide in a few close e-friends about it, but didn't broadcast it. Only laughed my fucking ass off when the gold-digger crew asked me, "If he lost all of his money would you still love him?"

DUH - I met him when he had mad bank and I MARRIED HIM BROKE.

Stupid broad that I am I couldn't even get the freaking gold-digger thing right!

 

[musclemom]

(good bed, large steam shower, fluffy towels)

Translation - Big TV with free satellite and free porn, Jacuzzi Hot Tub, good room service, fully stocked mini fridge.

No, I said what I meant:

Good solid bed (tempurpedic, preferably), Large shower that can comfortably accomodate two, plenty of towels that actually have some acquaintenship with fabric softener.

I don't do mini-bars, I bring my own; ditto food because of allergies.

Jacuzzi hot tub could be nice, but I have a chemical thing, so

Porn Whatever floats your boat.

Honestly, the canned shit doesn't do it for us. If we can't get each other's motor revving we'll just play cards