Married people

[canadianhitman]

no, I don't hate him. I love him and would give him the shirt off my back. He's a good man. Our divorce probably was more my fault than his.

I'm starting to think that heatherrae is an alien posing as a woman here on earth....

 

[canadianhitman]

Im not sleepin on the couch

Good for you...that'd be the day when someone would tell me I couldn't sleep in my own bed. The way I see it, I'm 240+lbs....good luck pushing me out of the bed when I decide to lay in it.

 

[heavy_duty]

Married guys should not go to strip bars.

well it was line of credit which is cheap,but either way it appears as ive been a selfish prick lately which blew up tonight when I went out for a few beers to a local strip bar with a friend,apparently thats a big deal and Im not sleepin on the couch

 

[alien amp pharm]

Weddings are one of the dumbest things ever.

Why not save that money you would spend on a wedding and take a nice vacation/honeymoon PLUS use the left over for a down payment on a house or something?

Think man think!

 

[heavy_duty]

It is an event that MUST be shared with all family and friends and that does cost money.

 

[TC2]

"I just sat back shut up and didnt say fuck all"

Sorry bro you've already doomed yourself and set a precedent for future decisions.

 

[theoak01]

the wedding is important to share with our family and close friends,its just her guest list seems to include twice what mine does,we definately have a different definition of close friends and such,hell nobody from my moms side of the family is even invited,I wanted it cheap but she has this idea of what she wants and saying anything starts an arguement and since she makes the $$ I dont have much sway there

and I agree the strip club thing was stupid,had I known it was gonna blow up the way it did I wouldnt have gone, I still slept in the bed though,she went to the spare room,then we had make up sex this morning.

 

[yonkers weights]

Honeymoon is NEEDED after planning a wedding and that day. It is a great way to get ride of stress afterwards! Plus as it gets closer, you have in the back of your mind, "THE HONEYMOON" makes the BS fights about things easier to get through. Trust me, I just got married and my wife and I said "Bermuda" all the time. It was like a goal to get to with all of the bs. Once it passes, it passes and it gone. It will just become another vacation if you take it later, if you take it later... Best of luck!

as you know Im getting married Nov 10 and my wonderful soon to be wife wanted this huge wedding and I just sat back shut up and didnt say fuck all, but now when its coming to honeymoon planning we are fighting about the fact that we might have to put it on credit and pay it off over a few months, she thinks we should wait till next year when we have more money, however we are both so busy I know it wont happen that we have time off together.

so my question is how important is a honeymoon, it means alot to me,mostly because I havent travelled much.

I want opinions,I think it would be a nice way to unwind after all the stress

 

[BNG]

Dude go!
We had a bigger wedding, a reception with a hosted bar, band, ect. It cost a fortune. So we didn't go on a big honeymoon, and I wish we would have. The wedding was nice , but the honeymoon could have been better. I wish we'd have gone to great lengths for the honeymoon and backed off the wedding. Here is what you need to present to your woman. The wedding is for your friends and family, the honeymoon is for us!

Tell her how much it means to you and that no amount of money spent on the wedding will be as important to you as the honeymoon time spent with her. Go someplace fun. It doesn't have to be Borneo or something as exotic.

There will be arguments about money, kids, whatever, but talk about the money stuff ahead of time. Who's doing what with what money. What kind of goals. If you want the honeymoon why should she be selfish about a big wedding and not be able to afford a honeymoon?

Most divorce is over money or sex.

 

[ortiz34]

Sounds like you two are both ready for marriage