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ok here's the deal...

im 29, single, horny man. lol

been dating this girl for 5 months now.
at first, the sex was 'good'.
keep in mind only 'good'..
not fantastic by any stretch of the imagination..
but not bad either.

anyhow, a few months ago, i totally lost sexual interest in the girl.
i thought maybe the steroids are fuckin with my sex drive, but had a few affairs with other women and my dick was perfectly fine.

so i guess its her that im just not attracted to?
we rarely have sex now, but really enjoy each other's company.

this girl is marriage material...
but the sex is something i cannot ignore.

any thoughts?
 
if you are dating her for only 5 months and already lost sexual interest for her, I say you cick her to the curb. I've been maried for almost 7 years and never did I or my husband lost sexual interest for each other
 
maybe you should just be freinds, sounds like you enjoy spending time with her. Were you ever attracted to her at first? people change , doesnt sound like shes the one for you, what makes her marrige material?
 
Stick it in her corn hole Satch.... :evil:
Then, and only then, will you know if she's " the One" :Chef: :tuc:
 
Fuck bro, I dont know what to tell you, I have been divorced twice and am only 31. All I know is that I am in a similar situation with my g/f. She is beautiful, makes good money as a nurse, and does anything I ask. I have not messed around on her, but the temptation is there everyday. There is something about strange that I can not shake. So like I said, I do not know what to tell you, but if you find anything out, let me know.
 
The same thing happened to be and my wife about 3 months after we started dating.

It kicked back in once the non-physical connection grows. Thats just my experience.

If you think shes marriage material, stick with it for a little while longer and see what happens. Or, maybe there is some subconscious need that she isnt fulfilling in her "technique" for the lack of a better word.

Depending on what kind of girl she is emotionally, you can talk to her about it.
 
Sex is VERY important to a healthy realtionship if you are cheating on here already what makes you think the relationship will last?


Remember when you get married she gets HALF!!!!!!!!
 
bb079 said:
Fuck bro, I dont know what to tell you, I have been divorced twice and am only 31. All I know is that I am in a similar situation with my g/f. She is beautiful, makes good money as a nurse, and does anything I ask. I have not messed around on her, but the temptation is there everyday. There is something about strange that I can not shake. So like I said, I do not know what to tell you, but if you find anything out, let me know.
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The temptation is natural. Being with one woman for your life is unnatural...unfortunately (of fortunately, depends on how you view it) society has created these rules for us.

If that werent true, then men wouldnt produce sperm more than once in their lives. On a biological level, men are only here to shag as many women as they can during their lives, and vice versa.
 
satchboogie said:
ok here's the deal...

im 29, single, horny man. lol

been dating this girl for 5 months now.
at first, the sex was 'good'.
keep in mind only 'good'..
not fantastic by any stretch of the imagination..
but not bad either.

anyhow, a few months ago, i totally lost sexual interest in the girl.
i thought maybe the steroids are fuckin with my sex drive, but had a few affairs with other women and my dick was perfectly fine.

so i guess its her that im just not attracted to?
we rarely have sex now, but really enjoy each other's company.

this girl is marriage material...
but the sex is something i cannot ignore.

any thoughts?
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cut your losses now. and im not joking. i promise you will only end up frustrated a lot of times.
 
5 Months is too soon to lose interest, and sex is important. IMHO, it all has to be there. Give it a bit more time, maybe you are just not ready yet at the prospect of settling down.
 
DieselGunz said:
Sex is VERY important to a healthy realtionship if you are cheating on here already what makes you think the relationship will last?


Remember when you get married she gets HALF!!!!!!!!
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I have lost half twice and am now down to 25%. It fucking sucks.

:(
 
velvett said:
Just because she is "marriage material" doesn't mean she is marriage material for YOU.
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well said!!

and great responses all the way around.
im not saying id marry the girl...
but she's really ALMOST i ever wanted in a woman.

but no sex...
this sucks....
 
satchboogie said:
ok here's the deal...

im 29, single, horny man. lol

been dating this girl for 5 months now.
at first, the sex was 'good'.
keep in mind only 'good'..
not fantastic by any stretch of the imagination..
but not bad either.

anyhow, a few months ago, i totally lost sexual interest in the girl.
i thought maybe the steroids are fuckin with my sex drive, but had a few affairs with other women and my dick was perfectly fine.

so i guess its her that im just not attracted to?
we rarely have sex now, but really enjoy each other's company.

this girl is marriage material...
but the sex is something i cannot ignore.

any thoughts?
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post pics of her and ill tell u if u should marry her or not.

i cant believe this, if u enjoy her company then she cant be ugly cause u cant enjoy being with someone who looks gross.

just buck up and fuck her like a man
 
I gotta think, if you're bangin other chicks & you've only been together 5 months, it's going nowhere.
I've never lost desire for wifey. Lost desire for sex occasionally, but I didn't even think about it with others, then.
Been together 25 yrs & I still want her bad.
In fact, I think I'll go "take" her.
C ya.
 
hidngod said:
I gotta think, if you're bangin other chicks & you've only been together 5 months, it's going nowhere.
I've never lost desire for wifey. Lost desire for sex occasionally, but I didn't even think about it with others, then.
Been together 25 yrs & I still want her bad.
In fact, I think I'll go "take" her.
C ya.
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Thata boy!
 
needtogetas said:
old cow sindrome.watch porn when you fuck her that will do the trick.
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nope, I think you need to invite one of her gf's to liven the action up
 
Not a good sign. There are brief times during the ups and downs of marriage where sex seems like it is the ONLY good part. A solid sex life is vital to a long term relationship.

Wish her well and move on.
 
Well....personally...don't marry here....sex is a huge factor in marriage...I have been married for a long time....I can't imagine not wanting sex....but if your looking else where now you will be looking later...
 
satchboogie said:
well said!!

and great responses all the way around.
im not saying id marry the girl...
but she's really ALMOST i ever wanted in a woman.

but no sex...
this sucks....
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I don't know what to tell you. If sex weren't so important to me, I could have been married a 100 times by now. I know lots of nice women.
 
satchboogie said:
well said!!

and great responses all the way around.
im not saying id marry the girl...
but she's really ALMOST i ever wanted in a woman.

but no sex...
this sucks....
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Well as you know that's very important as well, pull a Satch and move on my man........you know the drill :)

Also man I am back in town and needed to talk to ya about something anyway...so if you wanna talk give me a shout, I"ll be around today and tomorrow....
 
Satch, have you tried talking to her about spicing up the sex a little w/o hurting her feelings? I mean what is it? Is she a dead lay or is it just not there being w/ her? No physical attraction,even on test :chomp: ?
 
chefbone said:
Best link ever!!! :Chef: :tuc:
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Chef this is the 2nd post in Satch's thread here where my wife has came out to me with a wireless laptop telling me "I am not too impressed with Chef today" man you are making me guilty here just cause she knows we talk alot....:) You're killin me man !! :p
 
cranny said:
Satch, have you tried talking to her about spicing up the sex a little w/o hurting her feelings? I mean what is it? Is she a dead lay or is it just not there being w/ her? No physical attraction,even on test :chomp: ?
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yeah man no attraction to her at all!!!
i seriously would rather jerk off than fuck her..
its gotten to that point.
 
tiger88 said:
www.nomarriage.com
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I went there & looked around.
Whata buncha losers!
Sure sex isn't great all the time. Hell, marriage isn't GREAT all the time. But if you are in a loving relationship you NEED to communicate. If you can't communicate, then your relationship is doomed & you might as well get out.
Marriage only works if you work at it.
Run Satch. Yer done there.
 
satchboogie said:
ok here's the deal...

im 29, single, horny man. lol

been dating this girl for 5 months now.
at first, the sex was 'good'.
keep in mind only 'good'..
not fantastic by any stretch of the imagination..
but not bad either.

anyhow, a few months ago, i totally lost sexual interest in the girl.
i thought maybe the steroids are fuckin with my sex drive, but had a few affairs with other women and my dick was perfectly fine.

so i guess its her that im just not attracted to?
we rarely have sex now, but really enjoy each other's company.

this girl is marriage material...
but the sex is something i cannot ignore.

any thoughts?
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Bro. I'm married. Same age. After some years married you learn a lot about life. Things you never learn from the rest. Only by experience. And I've learned a lot. If you ask me if I'd marry again, I'd say no way. I'm happy with what I did and I'm happy now but so far relationships are better without that dangerous signature. The main problem is us. Men. We can't have sex with only one girl. We are not made for that. We need several sexual partners. Some in low degree, others in high degree. Loosing sexual interest in your partner is absolutely normal. Some guys can keep that interest in their wives but they do cheat anyway. Sooner or later. We live in this conservative society of family, marriage and religion just to keep an order. Just as a guide. That's what keep everything under control. But we do it anyway. We look for that different smell and taste anyway. EVERY SINGLE MARRIED MAN DO THAT. And the proof is simple. Porn, prostitution, strip clubs, escort services. They move hundreds of billions of dollars every year around the globe. And that exist thanks to us. Men. Women usually don't see or don't believe that. They just live in la la land. But at the end they are way more civilized than us.
 
satchboogie said:
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yeah man no attraction to her at all!!!
i seriously would rather jerk off than fuck her..
its gotten to that point.
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If this is the case bro, the choice is an obvious one.
 
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