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My wife found a bottle of empty sciroxx primo on the floor. I dont know how the hell it fell. she googled it and found out that it was a steroid. She started crying and telling how could i put our marriage and my health in danger by taking a drug. I felt so bad because she started crying. I told her i would quit and i promised to God for her that i would quit. I was just getting into this cycle but now im stopping. I hate to see her cry,I love her so much. I dont want to lose my marriage because of gear. Why did i drop my shit!!!!!! What should i do? I promised her and God and i take both of them serious.
 
Bro... Sounds like you should stop then. Plain and Simple...gear is expensive...hate to see it wasted...but if your marriage is truly very important, theres no question...trash it... (or send it to me)

=)

And if you swore before God...(a lot would say yeah yeah big deal) ...

But I take that serious. Youve made an oath to your life partner and to your creator...Take it serious...or be willing to deal with the consequences.
 
My wife found a bottle of empty sciroxx primo on the floor. I dont know how the hell it fell. she googled it and found out that it was a steroid. She started crying and telling how could i put our marriage and my health in danger by taking a drug. I felt so bad because she started crying. I told her i would quit and i promised to God for her that i would quit. I was just getting into this cycle but now im stopping. I hate to see her cry,I love her so much. I dont want to lose my marriage because of gear. Why did i drop my shit!!!!!! What should i do? I promised her and God and i take both of them serious.
you made 2 big promises and if your marriage is important and if she cant get on board then its time to stop.
 
Almost every girlfriend or wife is the same buddy because they have no idea all they see is Needles and drugs!! and they believe ur killing urself they just don't understand steroids. You need to try and make her understand AAS like you do and also explain how mild Primo is on your health. Nothing else for you to say now but the truth. Best of luck.
 
my girlfriend was like that when she found some of my gear and went fucking nuts so had to give up for a while a spent a while convincing her that there not that bad if not abused, and that drinking and cigarettes are far worse
 
This is a sad day for me because i will miss elitefitness. I have two families and one way or another im going to lose one. I love my wife and children so i have to quit but thanks to all of you for your advice over the years. I love all of you!!!! Keep this board going in this direction because it is a place that people are educated.
 
I will go natural with supplements,diet and cardio to achieve my goals. I know i could do it with a lot of discipline and hard work.
 
I agree. Stop now.
In 6 months or so bring up Juice to her. Make sure you have your reaserch done and can show her hard facts about the safty and what you are doing to be safe as well. She very well may not feel so bad if your coming to her before hand and enlisting her opionon and feelings.
 
it's a lose/lose situation. she'll google steroid side effects and will eventually read "roid rage."

after that every time you get mad, whether you're on them or not, she'll accuse you of being on them and "raging"

she'll forever resent you for doing them in the first place, it's kinda like catching your girl cheating, it will always be in the back of your head

bitches HATE the juice, it's more of an ignorance and control thing anyways

best you stop altogether and HOPE, HOPE HOPE she gets over it...that is if she can't get over the drama and let you do it regardless
 
Ask her to educate herself- maybe watch Bigger Stronger Faster, that's what changed my mind.
I used to disapprove of my husband taking steroids, but I was ignorant and just reacting based on fear.
While I wouldn't use them myself, it's his body, and his choice.
Another good argument that made me reconsider my bias was the fact that birth control pills are also steroids-so I am not really one to talk. Also cortisone injections.
I still can't watch injections though, it kinda grosses me out. He has to do it in private.
You should have been open about it from the start- she's probably overwhelmed from this revelation.
 
Take a rational approach and educate her, explain it how everything works. My girlfriend was completely against me juicing when we met, now she is on GH herself after lots and lots of research.
 
I know this is an asshole move but have you considered HRT, through your doctor, legally?? Doctor's orders hey!! I created a hell of an argument for my wife before I told her about my AAS usage, I mean a hell of an argument (she's a lawyer), I had quotes, facts, arguments, doctor's point of view on it, then again I didn't get caught brother, I sat her down and told her before she found it herself, is just such a shock you know... Specially when the first couple of google hits for AAS is very negative information. I'm sorry for making you doubt like this, but you sound really, really sad, pretty much how I would be if I had to stop, I'd probably be sadder to tell you the truth, and would want all the advice possible, however your decision is the right one, as nothing is more important than family and God.
 
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Ask her to do a lil more research I personaly can't see any negative searches coming from googling primo... also what does she plan on doing when she hits menopause cry some more? Pretty sure she'll be prescribed 3 hormones test estrogen and progesteron... knowledge is your friend buddy!
 
ill say this about the god part,God is serious but the bible says make no vow to god,because he knows you cant keep it,thats the bible words,not mine
 
My wife found a bottle of empty sciroxx primo on the floor. I dont know how the hell it fell. she googled it and found out that it was a steroid. She started crying and telling how could i put our marriage and my health in danger by taking a drug. I felt so bad because she started crying. I told her i would quit and i promised to God for her that i would quit. I was just getting into this cycle but now im stopping. I hate to see her cry,I love her so much. I dont want to lose my marriage because of gear. Why did i drop my shit!!!!!! What should i do? I promised her and God and i take both of them serious.

consider yourself lucky if she doesnt boot you. doing something like this behind her back was a really bad thing. quit and make things right. earn your trust back. screw the steroids whats more important? good luck man, i hope it works out for you.
 
This is a sad day for me because i will miss elitefitness. I have two families and one way or another im going to lose one. I love my wife and children so i have to quit but thanks to all of you for your advice over the years. I love all of you!!!! Keep this board going in this direction because it is a place that people are educated.

awesome decision but ef has diet, training, and supliment forums to so you may not have to go.
 
I would attempt to educate her and then just go along with what you're doing. This girl isn't someone I could marry. I would end up sneakily taking AAS like I did in the past.
 
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i educated my family already which is good. made them watch bigger faster stronger. they trust my research and judgment. and my girl at time. after i explained to her the differences between everything she just told me she didnt want me to do a cycle that would make me "puffy". i havent done a cycle yet but i wont until everyone that is close to me supports it. so something like this wouldnt happen. itd be alot worse if they found out while i was already on them. i cant imagine hiding needles and shit in my house. i moved back in with my parents to finish school so i had to make sure theyd be cool with it.
 
shouldnt have been going behind her back with such a hot button issue such as steroids in the first place dude. are you sad you betrayed her trust or just sad you got caught
 
I'll tell you what's fucking sad.

Having to feel fucking guilty about using substances that improve your appearance/performance while every one else is free to get plastic surgery, take anti-depressants and a whole boatload of shit I don't have the time to list.

Having to feel guilty when people use far FAR worse drugs like alcohol and tobacco.

FUCK THAT.

Godamn hypocritical shit.
 
shes being selfish and controlling. thats the long and short.enjoy kissing ass and compromising your integrity in the name of her happiness. its funny, happy is only a 2 way street when the woman isnt happy. i believe in marriage and love and all that shit, but she bought the ticket, she takes the ride. no returns in the middle.
 
shes being selfish and controlling. thats the long and short.enjoy kissing ass and compromising your integrity in the name of her happiness. its funny, happy is only a 2 way street when the woman isnt happy. i believe in marriage and love and all that shit, but she bought the ticket, she takes the ride. no returns in the middle.


+1

and also watch BFS - good movie. will change her mind
 
bro, no one tells their wife about their juicin habits....seriously. women, unless they juice as well, will never understand. nuff said.
 
not allowing your wife to be a part of your decision to commit felonies and take health risks is extremely selfish.
 
Gotta go with Joe here... We may not all
agree.. But the law is the law.. And in the laws
eyes.. She might as well have found your crack pipe and stash of
ice bro.. And to people who really and truly don't know
(ie. Your wife) it's just as bad in her eyes too.

The decision to take gear is huge.. The penalties are the same as drugs if caught in possession... That can rip a family apart. Once again... Get rid of it.. Family first..
 
I feel ya man. Just open up to her. I talked to my wife this past week on vacation about steroids, possibly wanting to compete and going on HRT. I told her that ever since I was 19 and 20 years old and working at Levrone's gym that I wanted to at least compete in the Mr. Maryland contest which is where he got his start. I said I know its late being 33, but time has gone by so fast with the birth of our kid; I don't want to look back when I'm 50 or 60 and say "Damn I wish I did that."

She said if its going to make you happy than do what you need to do and I'll support you. I said it was going to involve taking a lot of gear and she was cool with it. She knows I do my research and spend a lot of time on the boards here. She worries about my health, and if the roles were reversed I'd worry about her's. As we continued to talk more about it, after she has a second kid, I may have talked her into a low dose Var cycle.

Bottom line, you have to be honest with your wife and at the same time be yourself and make yourself happy. If she can't understand that (if this truly is important to you) and want you to be happy, maybe re-evaluate everything.

I was nervous as hell approaching my wife about this, a bottle of wine at dinner and a few after dinner drinks helped. In the end, I feel through that conversation we grew closer as a couple. Just talk to her and be honest, she'll see the sincerity and hopefully be a bit more understanding.

At this point though, she caught you doing something behind her back so her mind will automatically go to "What else is he doing behind my back?", which is also why she's probably so upset. It not entirely about the juice.
 
not allowing your wife to be a part of your decision to commit felonies and take health risks is extremely selfish.

+1 which is why I posted my story. Joe d has help me (indirectly) make a lot of new decisions and choices in my marriage and they've turned out for the better. Listen to Joe, he's a good bro.

And a big thanks to you for being yourself Joe. Just reading your posts (not direct responses to me) has helped me to be more open and honest with my wife. Keep on being you.
 
Gotta go with Joe here... We may not all
agree.. But the law is the law.. And in the laws
eyes.. She might as well have found your crack pipe and stash of
ice bro.. And to people who really and truly don't know
(ie. Your wife) it's just as bad in her eyes too.

The decision to take gear is huge.. The penalties are the same as drugs if caught in possession... That can rip a family apart. Once again... Get rid of it.. Family first..


I'm pretty sure joe was being facetious.

Aaah...kids.

Here's the deal.

Rule number one: Never fear your wife.

Rule number two: Never apologize if you don't think you did anything wrong. Rule number three:

Never make a promise you don't want to keep.

...otherwise you will forever be trying to find happiness in another person's version of happiness.

Talk to her. Educate her.

Then do it behind her back.

And yeah, there are so many good supps today, you can do a BIG BLAST/UNLEASHED/GEAR/ BRIDGE stack and she'll THINK you're on the juice. :)

And god will forgive you. If he was anti steroids he wouldn't have made muscles look so damn cool.
 
I will go natural with supplements,diet and cardio to achieve my goals. I know i could do it with a lot of discipline and hard work.

Like others said u made a promise to her and god and a man keeps his word, second wait a year and see if ur elligible for HRT and bring her with u to ur doctor so she can feel good about it, and third about missing elitefitness, this isnt just a steroid site, its about well being, diet, workout plans, etc
 
mine told me it was gear or her so i punched her in the face and pushed her off the balcony...bitch changed that tone real quick


p.s. send me your gear please....
 
I do not see a logic reason about what a "God" has to do with all of this.
 
.02 from the new guy here. what it comes down to is taht you promised her and God taht u were done with it. If you even think about doing it then IMO it shows your true heart. It comes down to gear vs the family. That said.....I am a youth leader at my church and I don't see the negatives with AS as long as you are doing it the right way. Do the research and be smart about it. I dont know if I will even be doing a cycle. I cant hide the crap. Also, I cant tell her because the only thing she said when I started working out is i better never do steroids. I just dont know which way to go either. I will try to educate her in general. Not about me doing it but about gear in general. Then slide my way in. All in all i think you stay clean and try to inform her like others have already said. If that dont work bust your tail in the gym baby!
 
shes being selfish and controlling. thats the long and short.enjoy kissing ass and compromising your integrity in the name of her happiness. its funny, happy is only a 2 way street when the woman isnt happy. i believe in marriage and love and all that shit, but she bought the ticket, she takes the ride. no returns in the middle.

Selfish and controlling? No, she is just ignorant to what steroids actually do. Is it selfish and controlling to not want the person u love the most to not become crazy and overall kill themselves from such a harsh drug which is the way that steroids are portrayed, she just doesn't know the truth
 
I do not see a logic reason about what a "God" has to do with all of this.

Obviously God means a great deal to him so please don't start a moral and religous debate, if u dont believe in God fine but please do not start a debate, this isnt the place, the guy is going through serious problems with his wife and juice, can we stick to the topic of helping him instead of challenging his religous beliefs?
 
Selfish and controlling? No, she is just ignorant to what steroids actually do. Is it selfish and controlling to not want the person u love the most to not become crazy and overall kill themselves from such a harsh drug which is the way that steroids are portrayed, she just doesn't know the truth

it is selfish and controlling, in my opinion, to tell someone not to follow their passion. steroids are a part of serious gym culture. if this guy is dedicated to eating and training, and isnt a waste of space (which it doesnt sound like), i see that as a controlling decision. a grown adult should be able to make decisions that are responsible. there is responsible steroid use. just my opinion. can i tell my wife she can never have wine again because she could become an alcoholic and get liver disease? believe me, i am not arguing with you or trying to make a stronger point. i just think alot of women feel they have the right to dictate to their husbands on all issues. not cool in my opinion. i support all personal decisions if my wife feels strongly for them. thats my side of the deal i feel. most women dont feel that way, in my opinion. i also feel its a slight by the woman to think someone will automatically go over the deep end and not be able to handle himself in safe way that will support his family. this isnt crack we are speaking about. its about personal enhancement.
 
it is selfish and controlling, in my opinion, to tell someone not to follow their passion.

+1000. New guy here but completely agree. Also, denying yourself that which makes you happy is being Selfish to Yourself. I'm not talking about Vanity or Gluttony (Excesses to the extreme) , but look out for yourself so you can better lookout for others. Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, even Spiritually. Good Luck. But Education is still the key.
 
it is selfish and controlling, in my opinion, to tell someone not to follow their passion. steroids are a part of serious gym culture. if this guy is dedicated to eating and training, and isnt a waste of space (which it doesnt sound like), i see that as a controlling decision. a grown adult should be able to make decisions that are responsible. there is responsible steroid use. just my opinion. can i tell my wife she can never have wine again because she could become an alcoholic and get liver disease? believe me, i am not arguing with you or trying to make a stronger point. i just think alot of women feel they have the right to dictate to their husbands on all issues. not cool in my opinion. i support all personal decisions if my wife feels strongly for them. thats my side of the deal i feel. most women dont feel that way, in my opinion. i also feel its a slight by the woman to think someone will automatically go over the deep end and not be able to handle himself in safe way that will support his family. this isnt crack we are speaking about. its about personal enhancement.

I completly agree that women think they have the right to dictate and rule their husbands lives, the only poitn i was arguing is that the media makes steroids out to be something there not, not saying u are wrong, he is wrong or his wife is wrong, its just horrible that plastic surgery drugs and alcohol and tabacco are acceptable but steroids are poison
 
I'm pretty sure joe was being facetious.

Aaah...kids.

Here's the deal.

Rule number one: Never fear your wife.

Rule number two: Never apologize if you don't think you did anything wrong. Rule number three:

Never make a promise you don't want to keep.

...otherwise you will forever be trying to find happiness in another person's version of happiness.

Talk to her. Educate her.

Then do it behind her back.

And yeah, there are so many good supps today, you can do a BIG BLAST/UNLEASHED/GEAR/ BRIDGE stack and she'll THINK you're on the juice. :)

And god will forgive you. If he was anti steroids he wouldn't have made muscles look so damn cool.

This^^^ +1000

However, You should have educated her from the beginning and included her in your decision. Its very very sad that women take the fearful, and uneducated approach. Often throw up their hands and close their ears no matter what you say.
I'm glad my wife is in the .01% of cool women.
 
Obviously God means a great deal to him so please don't start a moral and religous debate, if u dont believe in God fine but please do not start a debate, this isnt the place, the guy is going through serious problems with his wife and juice, can we stick to the topic of helping him instead of challenging his religous beliefs?


In order to properly "help" him, logic and reason must be used. Emotions as well as non-sense "beliefs" lead to NO solution. It has been proven over and over and over again, that because emotions, humans make mistakes, and then suffer from their own lack of wisdom and knowledge. Clarifying this, will help settle a path of solutions in his unstable rational life.
 
Just remember that you only have one life and time passes you by and in the end you should not have any regrets!

If you spend most of your time pleasing her I hope she pleases you too because I know where you mind is and some years from now you will think back and think if this was worth not to follow your dream!

This is not like a life or death decission and your wife sounds sort of controling if you ask me. You could be fat and an alcoholic would she be opposed to that too? Food and alcohol is legal last time i checked!!
Think about it...if you not happy you will not able to make anyone happy either.

If you ever need to be on HRT then what ...steroids are OK?
If the question came up with it;s me or the steroids bologny that's silly because most ppl have something in their closet and no one is perfect. However steroids are far from being dangerous...I've been on them for a long time and im just fine...my family is still around and happier than ever and I feel like a million bucks.
 
In order to properly "help" him, logic and reason must be used. Emotions as well as non-sense "beliefs" lead to NO solution. It has been proven over and over and over again, that because emotions, humans make mistakes, and then suffer from their own lack of wisdom and knowledge. Clarifying this, will help settle a path of solutions in his unstable rational life.

Maybe to you they are "non-sense" beliefs. And it has been proven that emotions are the reasons human make mistakes, well it is these emotions that make us human, also not everything is so easily right or wrong.
 
I really don't think at this point its about him doing juice or not, its the fact that he did it behind her back, so now she is thinking - What else could he be doing behind my back. That is probably where her mind went to which got he so upset.
 
My wife found a bottle of empty sciroxx primo on the floor. I dont know how the hell it fell. she googled it and found out that it was a steroid. She started crying and telling how could i put our marriage and my health in danger by taking a drug. I felt so bad because she started crying. I told her i would quit and i promised to God for her that i would quit. I was just getting into this cycle but now im stopping. I hate to see her cry,I love her so much. I dont want to lose my marriage because of gear. Why did i drop my shit!!!!!! What should i do? I promised her and God and i take both of them serious.

Bro...first off...if you leave elite, i will miss our banter...but before you decide either ways, just hear me out.

I will begin with a detour and tell you what i did before i started gear. I sat with my wife ( yes and i have 3 kids too ) and told her all about my researches and gave her some credible reading material telling her about the benefits of Testosterone after a particular age and told her that i wanted to live a better healthier life for the sake of my family.

She researched the benefits of Test on her own and thankfully understood how i'd benefit at my age. I'm 38 btw. And thats how i bergan the whole thing. Upfront. No lies. No secrets. AND....Believe me you bro...had it gone the other way...

...i swear i would have cycled either way. And definitely would have got caught someday or the other. We are afterall humans and are prone to mistakes.

Now listen up and listen good bud. What you do is cycle off. Stop gear totally for 6 months thereabouts. Then...slowly...gradually...gently...romantically...start up talk on the benefits of Testosterone for the older male...as in...the male who's over 35. I know you are 37. And work it into her subconsciously...vey very slowly. No rushing things here buddy.

Test talk is like gonna be convincing a virgin about anal sex. Its that delicate believe me. I've successfully done it and i'm sure you can too. And once positive thoughts start sinking in...Jeez...she'll be ready to learn to inject it into your butt bro...and thats the best you can ask for...

Think about it. Never give up. Be truthful to the Almighty and the Almighty who's not a single entity but Whos one who envelops the entire warp and woof of creation will help you. Your intentions will matter though. Keep them s\traight. Be truthful and open to her feelings. Appreciate her more often..but do it by not making things too obvious..i'm dure you're getting the drift...

Best luck. God Bless. God Speed.
 
Bro...first off...if you leave elite, i will miss our banter...but before you decide either ways, just hear me out.

I will begin with a detour and tell you what i did before i started gear. I sat with my wife ( yes and i have 3 kids too ) and told her all about my researches and gave her some credible reading material telling her about the benefits of Testosterone after a particular age and told her that i wanted to live a better healthier life for the sake of my family.

She researched the benefits of Test on her own and thankfully understood how i'd benefit at my age. I'm 38 btw. And thats how i bergan the whole thing. Upfront. No lies. No secrets. AND....Believe me you bro...had it gone the other way...

...i swear i would have cycled either way. And definitely would have got caught someday or the other. We are afterall humans and are prone to mistakes.

Now listen up and listen good bud. What you do is cycle off. Stop gear totally for 6 months thereabouts. Then...slowly...gradually...gently...romantically...start up talk on the benefits of Testosterone for the older male...as in...the male who's over 35. I know you are 37. And work it into her subconsciously...vey very slowly. No rushing things here buddy.

Test talk is like gonna be convincing a virgin about anal sex. Its that delicate believe me. I've successfully done it and i'm sure you can too. And once positive thoughts start sinking in...Jeez...she'll be ready to learn to inject it into your butt bro...and thats the best you can ask for...

Think about it. Never give up. Be truthful to the Almighty and the Almighty who's not a single entity but Whos one who envelops the entire warp and woof of creation will help you. Your intentions will matter though. Keep them s\traight. Be truthful and open to her feelings. Appreciate her more often..but do it by not making things too obvious..i'm dure you're getting the drift...

Best luck. God Bless. God Speed.

good post.

its gonna be hard though in this situation. they are both southern people and god fearing. point blank he is breaking the law and having ILLEGAL stuff in the house. no way will she allow it.
 
Bro...first off...if you leave elite, i will miss our banter...but before you decide either ways, just hear me out.

I will begin with a detour and tell you what i did before i started gear. I sat with my wife ( yes and i have 3 kids too ) and told her all about my researches and gave her some credible reading material telling her about the benefits of Testosterone after a particular age and told her that i wanted to live a better healthier life for the sake of my family.

She researched the benefits of Test on her own and thankfully understood how i'd benefit at my age. I'm 38 btw. And thats how i bergan the whole thing. Upfront. No lies. No secrets. AND....Believe me you bro...had it gone the other way...

...i swear i would have cycled either way. And definitely would have got caught someday or the other. We are afterall humans and are prone to mistakes.

Now listen up and listen good bud. What you do is cycle off. Stop gear totally for 6 months thereabouts. Then...slowly...gradually...gently...romantically...start up talk on the benefits of Testosterone for the older male...as in...the male who's over 35. I know you are 37. And work it into her subconsciously...vey very slowly. No rushing things here buddy.

Test talk is like gonna be convincing a virgin about anal sex. Its that delicate believe me. I've successfully done it and i'm sure you can too. And once positive thoughts start sinking in...Jeez...she'll be ready to learn to inject it into your butt bro...and thats the best you can ask for...

Think about it. Never give up. Be truthful to the Almighty and the Almighty who's not a single entity but Whos one who envelops the entire warp and woof of creation will help you. Your intentions will matter though. Keep them s\traight. Be truthful and open to her feelings. Appreciate her more often..but do it by not making things too obvious..i'm dure you're getting the drift...

Best luck. God Bless. God Speed.

My man, yo that is pretty much how I would do it, down to the virgin anal talk, we were made for this type of negotiations.
 
In order to properly "help" him, logic and reason must be used. Emotions as well as non-sense "beliefs" lead to NO solution. It has been proven over and over and over again, that because emotions, humans make mistakes, and then suffer from their own lack of wisdom and knowledge. Clarifying this, will help settle a path of solutions in his unstable rational life.

Yes.....Thank you......(cue the majestic trumpet music)
 
In order to properly "help" him, logic and reason must be used. Emotions as well as non-sense "beliefs" lead to NO solution. It has been proven over and over and over again, that because emotions, humans make mistakes, and then suffer from their own lack of wisdom and knowledge. Clarifying this, will help settle a path of solutions in his unstable rational life.

If this was facebook I would "like" that comment...
 
good post.

its gonna be hard though in this situation. they are both southern people and god fearing. point blank he is breaking the law and having ILLEGAL stuff in the house. no way will she allow it.

I thought Southern guys knew how to keep their women in line. :licker:
 
Also let me add that just because something is the Law, it doesn't always make it right.
Wasn't Jesus thought of as a criminal in his time?
 
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