Little Sister's New Boyfriend...

[Puc]

bfold. i would say butt out. BUT... the LD puts a different spin on things.

does your sister have the faculties to make this decision?

Has she been in a lot of relationships? if she has, she will be more likely to listen.

if i were you, i would make sure bucko understands that the gargantuan guy is very protective. And, if he does any no-no's, well, conan's wheel.

 

[b fold the truth]

She has never really been in a relationship at all. Ever.

He could really be a good guy in the future but right now he is an 18 year old freshman who acts really goofy.

Actually...he is the best guy she has ever dated...he has the most potential.

B True

 

[Puc]

well, it looks like the answer is clear.

she is young and nieve, so she will not listen. If you try and scare him away, he will tell her about it and she will continue to see him (and fall for him) without telling you.

I would suggest you talk to him, without her there. Explain to him simply that she has not been in that many relationships, and that you protect her... dearly. Tell him you are giving him the benefit of the doubt. Tell him that they may or may not work out, and that is okay. Tell him that you understand that if they break up she will be hurt, and that is okay, too.


Tell him if he lies to her, cheats on her, or treats her poorly... well... conan's wheel.

also, if you can arrange it so you are shirtless, and possibly training at the time, do. you are the biggest, scariest looking, nicest, most compassionate person.... geeze... you are a wild eclectic...

 

[knight69]

why dont you buy them a hotel room, give him a couple of rubbers,(1 for vaginal use and 1 for anal use) and then let them be kids!!!!!

 

[ConstantChange]

Tough situation. Since it's one of your sisters first relationships, she's probably so happy she actually has someone giving her the attention she has desired, she overlooks all the goofy stuff about the guy. If you step in a break that off, good chance your sister is going to be extremely pissed and hurt

Talk to the guy. Let him know that you are watching him and that if he does anything to hurt your sister (cheat on her, lead her on to get sex, etc...) you will have to educate him.

Give it time and see if your sister doesn't figure it out for herself.

Good luck.

 

[b fold the truth]

THAT IS IT!! Me and this kid has to have a talk. My mother just served dinner and he has already wiped out the spagetti from earlier this morning and is on his 2nd LARGE plate of meat loaf for our family dinner. No one else has even 1/2 way through their first place...

I just don't appreciate it when a gues comes to your house and treats YOU like HE owns the place...OR the food!!!!

B True

 

[knight69]

if he eats that much maybe the sis would like a wild eater. (muff diver)

 

[b fold the truth]

if he eats that much maybe the sis would like a wild eater. (muff diver)

I don't appreciate the posts that you have been making especially in reguards to me or my little sister. I don't appreciate them at all.

B True

 

[Burning_Inside]

don't listen to these people. i have a younger sister, and its cool to be their 'friend' and 'support' them, but how are you going to feel when she's crying or worse after he screws her over? don't beat his ass or anything, just let him know you disapprove of him and you have your eye on him, and i bet he'll back off.

Well what guy in the world around b fold's sister's age is NOT going to hurt a girl? Hello, are us males forgetting how many hearts we broke at the ages of 14-whenever...even present day? It HAPPENS. It's a fact of life. You go through girl after girl till you find one you like then you maybe settle down.

How many relationships do you guys think actually last when the 2 people who are seeing each other are under the age of 20?

The girl's gonna get emotionally hurt (it's prolly not the first time either and the rules of life state it's not gonna be the last)

The again HIS feelings might be hurt cause she might break it off with him.

Some of you guys give the shittiest advice.

 

[CrimsonKing]

Ok mister! I am a little sister, and I know how I always felt when my brother tried to interfere in my love life. It didn't hurt me....it just pissed me off! Don't you dare mess with this relationship! Let her make up her own mind. Maybe he's not the right guy for her....that's up to her to decide. Not you. She's got to make her own choices and mistakes in life. Let her do it. I know you're a big brother, and you want to protect her. I know what that feels like since I have lived through it. I love my big brother for trying to protect me, but he better let me live my own life!

You are right.. I have a little sis.. I stayed out of her love life.. but I was there beside her if she needed a ear or protection from a boyfriend that thought pushing around a girl was ok.. poor boy almost did not live to regret that mistake..