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more often than she should be?
Is your wife a bitch?
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needtogetaas
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ya it hurts to.
digimon7068
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no. . .but i'm a huuuge asshole a lot more often than i ought to be. . .
heavy_duty
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this round is on me.
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boxhdn said:
Same here...women who totally dominate their husbands and scold them like they're children.
I'm not for hitting a woman but there's a point where enough is enough and they need to be put in their place and reminded that they should'nt push it with someone that could fuck them up if they really wanted to.
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No she is an ANGEL. I can be the dick a lot of the time. She is great. Very lucky to have her "By Your Side" our wedding song by Sade. We both have it engraved in our wedding bands too. Yes, gay but it is love! She rocks!
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I guess I am lucky she stuck it out with me. Very lucky!
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yonkers weights said:
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If you only knew dude. She lets me be me. We have been through a lot because of my dumb ass. Not gay just honest!
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TC2 said:
Equally blame the men for allowing it to continue.
I will never go to one of my buddies houses again. His wife is a complete and utter bitch and really showed her true colors over Memorial Day Weekend. She even chewed him out in front of a bunch of his friends for really no reason.
He complains, yet stays with her, probably out of fear of losing half. Of course I told him not to marry her in the first place.
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alien amp pharm said:
eh. . .you tell everyone that. . .
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digimon7068 said:
Ya'll gotta admit, that was pretty funny.
Bottom line is a man is married to a bitch then whose fault is it? Like as if she *magically* changed once he said, "I do?"
In case ya'll didn't notice, one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high anymore is because as women become more economically independent they are putting up with waaaaaaaaaaaaay less of men's shit and directly show their asses the door.
Case in point - my first husband was a lesson, my last husband is a gift. Both men - my choice.
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digimon7068 said:
lol, true. Well kinda.
This was a few years back when I was still blind and believed in love.
This girl actually liked me before they started dating. I would not go out with her though because she was extremely moody, selfish, and bitchy (everyone's opinion of her, not just mine). She is even on medication for her wild mood swings.
I tried telling him that it may seem fine now, but after a couple years of marriage to this particular girl you would be in Hell, and I was correct. She has zero friends and is quickly turning his friends away which is probably her plan.
I get so sick of hearing about wives being bitches.
Most men are idiots (and I'm not talking about you heavy duty). thats why we bitch at you. You are all big children ; and most of you cant even handle being loved by a woman. What? That means she wants to BE with me in her spare time? lol
Most men are idiots (and I'm not talking about you heavy duty). thats why we bitch at you. You are all big children ; and most of you cant even handle being loved by a woman. What? That means she wants to BE with me in her spare time? lol
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alien amp pharm said:
that's ok bro. . .i believe enough for both of us. . .20 days from today it will be 15 years. . .the best ones of my life
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cindylou said:I get so sick of hearing about wives being bitches.
Most men are idiots (and I'm not talking about you heavy duty). thats why we bitch at you. You are all big children ; and most of you cant even handle being loved by a woman. What? That means she wants to BE with me in her spare time? lol
lol, this aimed towards me, clingy chick ?
Some men are idiots yes, but some managed just fine in life without a woman so why the need to tell us what we should/shouldn't be doing?
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cindylou said:
My bad, clingylou
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He is just an angry elf. All good hun. Do your thing in KC.
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alien amp pharm said:
i tend to err to the side of shoot-first-ask-questions-later. . .i absolutely need someone to help keep me grounded. . .once in a while i suppose that involves giving me some advice on what i should/shouldn't be doing. . .a relationship. . .one that is lasting and productive is merely a microcosm of society. . .life without rules and fear of consequences is called anarchy. . .no developed society can live under anarchy. . .there's gotta be some rules and boundries. . .that's how it works. . .
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oh yeah and I dont think a woman should tell a man what to do either. No one should tell anyone what to do.
You are kind of an asshole; no? I'm saying that in the nicest way possible ; but just as much as a man does not want a bitch for a wife; a woman certainly does not want an asshole around either making her feel like shit all the time.
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It is a give and take. I need to be told no sometime to keep me out of trouble. Sometimes shut up and let me be me.
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It is astonishing to me how many people want to impose *their idea* of what a successfull relationship is supposed to be like onto the population at large.
NEWSFLASH - your right might be everybody else's wrong but as long as you and your partner are happy, who should give a flying fahootie?
Some women want tall, dark, vacuous and handsome badboys, others are drawn to nerdy accountant-types, some like the average joe and others are drawn to men that are somewhat flamboyant and have a definite flair (not Pick 3). Why is everyone all caught up on forcing their views on the rest of the population, then get pissy when opinions don't align?
The reason it took me so long to find a suitable match is because I am so peculiar. I am hardly a bitch but I am sooooooooooooo not like most other women. So I took my time and when I found the right oddball to complement my quirkiness we got hitched.
Geeze, I couldn't imagine being married to a scumbag bastard again. Can't even fathom what it must be like being married to a bitch.
NEWSFLASH - your right might be everybody else's wrong but as long as you and your partner are happy, who should give a flying fahootie?
Some women want tall, dark, vacuous and handsome badboys, others are drawn to nerdy accountant-types, some like the average joe and others are drawn to men that are somewhat flamboyant and have a definite flair (not Pick 3). Why is everyone all caught up on forcing their views on the rest of the population, then get pissy when opinions don't align?
The reason it took me so long to find a suitable match is because I am so peculiar. I am hardly a bitch but I am sooooooooooooo not like most other women. So I took my time and when I found the right oddball to complement my quirkiness we got hitched.
Geeze, I couldn't imagine being married to a scumbag bastard again. Can't even fathom what it must be like being married to a bitch.
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I can be a bitch at times. Who is perfect?
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Dude you always bring me down... :-(
I hope it does not go that way but that's way my family lawyer had us get a prenup. We both have great jobs and make a lot of money but you never know. Plus my family is a lot more well off then hers so in years, god for bid, when my father passes, it will all go to me. Guess they want to proect the family estate. She understood to a degree. Was not happy but my family loves her and she loves them. All good now!
I hope it does not go that way but that's way my family lawyer had us get a prenup. We both have great jobs and make a lot of money but you never know. Plus my family is a lot more well off then hers so in years, god for bid, when my father passes, it will all go to me. Guess they want to proect the family estate. She understood to a degree. Was not happy but my family loves her and she loves them. All good now!
javaguru said:Check back in about two years from now and sing your fiancee's praises once she's been your wife for a while.....my ex-wife and I had a great relationship until we got married.
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alien amp pharm said:
I have more than a few friends that turned into total fuckin pussies once they got married. I have one friend that I loved like a brother and now I cant stand him because his wife just dominates him,screams at him tells what/when/where/why he can do anything.
Fuck that shit. I'm an old school WOP, that shit will not stand with me.
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BIKINIMOM said:Ya'll gotta admit, that was pretty funny.
Bottom line is a man is married to a bitch then whose fault is it? Like as if she *magically* changed once he said, "I do?"
In case ya'll didn't notice, one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high anymore is because as women become more economically independent they are putting up with waaaaaaaaaaaaay less of men's shit and directly show their asses the door.
Case in point - my first husband was a lesson, my last husband is a gift. Both men - my choice.
Actually yes...most do "magically" change once they "got" their man to marry them. I've seen that a 1000 times over.
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TC2 said:
Not so much "changing" as it is "the true beast comes out", lol.
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I went out for drinks with my married best friend last night. I dropped him off at his home while I proceeded onto my first of three dates in three days with three different women. He called ecstatic that his wife decided to fuck him on a weekday and to live vicariously through my dating life(coming from a guy who was getting laid daily by his wife for the two years they dated). She's all about morning sex on Saturday and Sunday but sex is always on the womenz schedule. My friends brother got divorced, had a pre-nup and still had to pay the ex, who makes 80k a year as a pharma rep, $800.00 a month in spousal support, that's like $1,600.00 a month in NYC dollars. Any man will tell you that sex declines after the deed is done.....marriage is the devil..keep her on her feet. Hell, keep both people on their feet and don't get married. The divorce rate is over 50% for a reason......
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TC2 said:
I won't defend anyone. MALE OR FEMALE
I'll tell you how MY man changed though. He started taking ME for granted. I put a stop to that shit reeeeal quick. Trust me, he keeps me on my toes too.
He also has put on 15 lbs. in the last year.The "nest of shame" I found in his truck consisted of Little Debbie empty boxes and bags from Mickey Dee's. I never said a word, I just got all the garbage from his truck and laid it on his favorite pair of jeans he could not fit into anymore. The next day his ass was back at the gym. I never had to say one word....I think his hidden "nest of shame" was a cry of help.lol
Change is good. If you stayed the same you'd NOT learn and grow in life.....Could explain the woman bashing going on in this thread.
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vixensghost said:
if he had done this to you what would have happened?
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BIKINIMOM said:
wtf??!! i AM an accountant. . .in fact, i'm a cpa and i have a masters degree in taxation. . .we ain't all nerds. . .
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the_clockwork said:
IF you knew anything about me, you'd know that I am not into un-healthy lifestyles.
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vixensghost said:
Wrong! You got married didn't ya?
hahahaha
Communication... use it.
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gonelifting said:
Can we flirt now or later? Cuz that really turned me on!
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javaguru said:
does the fact that i know how to skin a deer, hot-wire a car and rebuild a v-8 engine influence your opinion? how bout if i told you that i think i may have actually cried a little when dale earnhardt died? i bought my twin daughters a 22 rifle for their 4th birthday, i played rugby for 4 years while i was in college, i prefer to drink beer and the occassional shot of tequila. . .
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I got my .22 from my dad when I was five, I started shooting about the time I started walking, I've skinned a buck and run a trout line...lol. I know how to dress game...and I can hold my alcohol but I'm still a nerd at heart....digimon7068 said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4s0nzsU1Wg
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javaguru said:
dood. . .it's a "trot" line and yeah. . .you're right. . .i am a
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TC2 said:
LOL that is like me saying that my ex wasn't an abusive controlling asshole BEFORE I married him. See we women can admit that we fucked up when we say that magic phrase, "(insert negative behavior here)...BUT WE WERE GOING TO CHANGE HIM."
True story: I always blamed my ex mother-in-law for not giving my exhusband enough love (which she didnt, she had every opportunity to leave her asshole abusive husband but chose to stay - I know this FOR FACT because her sisters told me all the time). So I was going to love him enough to "make it ok". <----- for this I earned a beat down after 13 years of being a loyal, dutiful partner. So I kicked him out, never gave him ANY HOPE of reconciliation and began to live my own life on my own time. All the shit that has gone on since is 100% ON HIM.... yet to this day, even after all the shit he has done independent of me - I STILL GET BLAMED ON OCCASION BECAUSE "I MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING TO MAKE HIM ACT LIKE SUCH AN ASS."
Really? What could I have possibly done to him to make him take our 14 y/o daughter for a replacement wife and to verbally/physically/emtionally abuse all four to the point that they would be in fear for their lives?
Bottom line is this - we reap what we sow. I married the scurge of the earth at barely 22. I loved him to death, but my love was squandered. MY BAD as I chose him. But that was then and this is now. I have learned and grown.
My first husband was a lesson. My last husband is a gift.
If a man's wife is a bitch then that is 100% on him. He knew what she was like before he married her and if they can't come to terms with it, then they need to either - DIVORCE or SHUT THE FUCK UP AND DEAL.
Just sayin is all.
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javaguru said:I still have no idea how my parents made it work. I gather things here and there but my mother hated my fraternal grandmother....a proper German lady of breeding Vs. American country girl.
my wife's mother came to gallipolis ferry west virginia from mannheim germany (war bride). . .she's a friggin train wreck of a human being. . .somehow my wife turned out to be one of the sweetest, kindest, coolest people i've ever met. . .tough but soft. . .a good girl with a healthy dose of naughty. . .she still pushes all my buttons. . .
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digimon7068 said:
My dear man, you are an exception in every way (and that is a GOOD thing) as I am certain that your wife and children know and appreciate this.
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BIKINIMOM said:My dear man, you are an exception in every way (and that is a GOOD thing) as I am certain that your wife and children know and appreciate this.
i know. . .i just had to give a shout out for all my nerd bro's. . .
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I'm a bitch
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digimon7068 said:
Well you represent quite well.
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feisty11975 said:
LOL Then your husband2B got NUTHIN to bitch about!
See, when we as women are bitches, we freaking admit to it.
Me, I am just incapable. But I one thing I HAVE learned, is how to stand my ground. If I am wrong about something, then I am the first to admit, make amends and move on. BUT if I am in the right... motherfucker be prepared to spend a loooooooooooooong ass time in the doghouse.
And as for compromising - I am EXCELLENT as I HATE HATE HATE fighting. Life is too short to bicker about dumb shit. I never ever EVER give my husband drama for dumb crap. I choose my battles wisely. When I am dug in he knows there is no other option except to throw up the white flag and change his *evil* ways because if I am that adiment, it means it ain't dumb shit.
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BIKINIMOM said:
he doesn't complain one bit. He is self employed and when collecting needs to be done, he gets me to do it. hahaha When we were vehicle shopping he warned the salesman that I was a handfull and that I was a bit pushy. lmao
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feisty11975 said:
too bad your boobs arent
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feisty11975 said:
It's good when you find a mate that compliments you. See, I am a wussy. My husband is always trying to *ut me out in front* and I HATE IT... but once I get there, I am ok. Nothing like him though. It is actually funny to watch him cut peeps to ribbons. I mean, he isn't nasty at all. He actually has those parties freaking THANKING HIM for the verbal ass-whoopin!
I have NEVER seen anyone that my husband has gone toe to toe/eye to eye with that hasn't retreated like a whimpering puppy with their tale between their legs, and never does he raise his voice or use profanity. He is in TOTAL control during the entire conversation. Then lights up a cigar when HE is done and I get up, he takes my stuff, helps me out of my seat and says, "You ready to go now honey?"
That shit cracks me up right there....
In the end the Big Dog is a purring kitty for me and the poor sonofabitch that just got dismantled is left licking his wounds.
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alien amp pharm said:
hmmm more than a handfull is too much right? or is it a mouthfull? whichever it is, Hes satisfied.
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javaguru said:They grow them properly in Southern Ohio.....
god. . .i love sausage gravy
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javaguru said:They breed them well in Galipolis....I still miss that one....
call her. . .
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Damn there should be an option that if you're a female you can not post in this thread
Anyway I do think it is possible for an angel to turn into a bitch... it's called HORMONES
Anyway I do think it is possible for an angel to turn into a bitch... it's called HORMONES
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javaguru said:
aie carumba. . .that's fairly opposite ends of the spectrum. . .happiness knows no such boundries, though. . .does it offend your sensibilities that she's religious?? if not, then what's the prob?? we're not talking about healing the gaza strip or anything. . .
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She wants someone "equally yoked." I pointed out to her that Atheists have the lowest divorce rates.digimon7068 said:
It was her issue and I did throw it in her face, her beliefs Vs science but her major was biology and chemistry. I could have went along with her beliefs, I do it for my mom, we went to church every Sunday together but I couldn't be dishonest with her. That one difference was a gulf between us...but we still love each other.javaguru said:She wants someone "equally yoked." I pointed out to her that Atheists have the lowest divorce rates.
you should tell her that being equally yolked is not a commandment at all. Its a suggestion for a happy marriage. It does make sense but not required
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javaguru said:She wants someone "equally yoked." I pointed out to her that Atheists have the lowest divorce rates.
dang bro. . .that suggs. . .i'm in church every sunday. . .i don't know what i believe to be honest. . .life has hardened me and made me very jaded. . .but one thing's for sure, it means a lot to my wife that i am there with her and our kids and i enjoy that time that we're together. . .but my beliefs?? that's a little tricky. . .she knows how i feel though. . .and she accepts me for who i am. . .thank god. . .i don't remember what my life was like before i met her and i can't imagine my life without her. . .for me, our relationship has been nothing short of fantastic. . .
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I understand, everything was great but for the one issue. She's hard core. No sex before marriage, we slipped up a couple of times, and she hits up two Sunday services. When she was a teen she lost her best friend and I think her faith is her solace...she actually has a cross tattoo with her friends initials on her ankle.digimon7068 said:
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javaguru said:
huh. . .that's interesting. . .ink is ok but dating an atheist is taboo?? anyway. . .sounds to me like there's still some very strong feelings there. . .i don't think i'd completely throw in the towel. . .light consistent pressure. . .christians and jews get married all the time (almost happened to me. . .only other girl i ever loved) and i'm pretty sure that each religion at its core would tell you that the other group is going straight to hell. . .yet they seem to be able to happily cope with their spouse's impending eternal damnation. . .so, why not an atheist and an evangelical??
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javaguru said:
shit. . .your 7/8's of the way there. . .you're a good man. . .and good men aren't exactly falling out of the trees. . .and the ones that do usually hit a few asshole branches on the way down. . .
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That was my theory..the religious thing just interfered.She told me her mom REALLY liked me and has a good sense of people, her mom hated her ex-husband. We were taliking marriage the week she broke it off and she was talking about not wanting a long engagement and not caring about the ring...OMFG I love the red neck women....digimon7068 said:
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javaguru said:That was my theory..the religious thing just interfered.She told me her mom REALLY liked me and has a good sense of people, her mom hated her ex-husband. We were taliking marriage the week she broke it off and she was talking about not wanting a long engagement and not caring about the ring...OMFG I love the red neck women....
women are ridiculously complicated/complex. . .i got 3 of them in my house now and i'm clueless. . .i know less now than i did before
i say you still have a shot. . .if you want it. . .
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It's up to her....she still has my heart and I haven't been able to date seriously since the break up in December...digimon7068 said:women are ridiculously complicated/complex. . .i got 3 of them in my house now and i'm clueless. . .i know less now than i did before
i say you still have a shot. . .if you want it. . .
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time to move on dawg---->
javaguru said:She's a great woman but the Bible is clear about intoxication and pre-marital sex...
Mel getting her drink on....she's fun and cool as hell...
