Is kissing or flirting cheating????

[Hannibal]

Now physical contact such as kissing is definitely a NO-NO and if there is ANY DECEPTION or MISREPRESENTATION then the flirting has gone too far.

....just my .02

I would have to agree. You have to be careful with flirting however. Both participants must understand the situation. If one person thinks it's harmless flirtation, and the other thinks there is more to it...people get hurt

 

[Rider09]

Kak I feel the same way you do . Anything that you do with another person that you wouldn’t feel right doing around your girl besides friendly talking may not be cheating but that’s a fine line . Personally when I’m with a girl she is number one. I could talk with 10 hot chicks but it wouldn’t mean shit. I am very picky so all my girls are hot. Anyway kissing is cheating. I guess its if you don’t feel comfortable for lack of words when interacting with another woman than your proly flirting witch leads to cheating and if you do feel comfortable then it really don’t matter cause your proly gonna cheat.
I guess I’m kinda old school oh well some woman out there must still like that kinda thing

Oh yea I had a response to your reply to my post “ any models here? Some questions”

 

[KAYNE]

SIMPLY PUT, IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR MATE DOING SOMETHING, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT SOMETHING?

 

[Bikini Mod]

I HAVE NO PROBLEM with my mate flirting. As long as it IS UP FRONT THAT HE IS TAKEN and it is nothing more than harmless, pleasant intercourse (TALKING, hehe).

How does this make me shallow? If a pretty girl asks you what time it is then makes a silly remark about how she rushed for nothing and only missed the bus and got a runner in her stockings for her trouble while chuckling a bit about her wasted effort, does that mean that she wants to fuck your brains out?....I DON'T THINK SO!!!

I have NEVER behaved in a fashion that is unbecoming of a wife or mother.....just because I like to laugh and have a good time - I let EVERY GUY KNOW THAT I HAVE FOUR KIDS - UPFRONT and that I AM MARRIED - FOUR KIDS WORTH OF MARRIED......if that is not enough to let a guy know that I am only being pleasant and that my personality is warm and congenial then he has mental problems and needs serious therapy! Believe me, if I want a guy's johnson - THERE WILL BE NO MISTAKE!!

GEEZE - you need to loosen up, Varnsen.

 

[bignate73]

If a pretty girl asks you what time it is then makes a silly remark about how she rushed for nothing and only missed the bus and got a runner in her stockings for her trouble while chuckling a bit about her wasted effort, does that mean that she wants to fuck your brains out?

man i hope so!!!!!

 

[Night Fly]

NIGHTFLY---WOULD YOU BE "DATING" SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT EMOTIONALLY INTERESTED IN???

Why, yes, in fact, I would. I have dated several guys (just like bikinimom said), that I was not interested in emotionally. I just thought they had a great personality or something. I also did it to see if they would grow on me...basically trying to give them a chance. Granted, it didn't work, but I sure tried.

I mean, I am sure that you have gone out on a date with someone not knowing much about them...or have you not?

 

[blood_drinker]

im with slikdad(sp) on this one.
It isn't cheating, but if you are doing it I feel it is a sign you are not getting enough from your relationship - time to mend something up or move on.

FUCK THIS ! Once I caught my gf rubbing her ass on some fuck in the cafeteria line. that pissed me off majorly...and i told her the same thing i said on the first paragraph. that is it - end of topic. lol , i hereby close this topic.

 

[Burning_Inside]

it's not flirting unless you derive some sort of non-romantical/sexual feeling or intent from it. Which means you have to not be human apparently. However, every relationship between 2 people have their own rules, so, if you want it to be, then it is, if not, then it ain't.

 

[Kakdiesel]

Damn..good responses..keep it coming...but i have to stick with my guns here, ANYTHING i wouldnt do in front of my GF would be cheating in my opinion..

 

[Hannibal]

I also did it to see if they would grow on me...basically trying to give them a chance.

You're all heart Flygirl...J/K

And Bikinimom I don't think you could be considered shallow. As long as both people are up front with one another...flirting is definitely a good thing. You just have to be sure that both of you know where the boundaries are