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I'm moving...

i think it's the best for you.

clearly things are not working out. it just really sucks that you have a kid with him. it'd be so much easier to walk away if you didn't.

i'll be honest and just my intuition, i don't think the therapist can fix that. certain situations can be fixed I believe through therapy if both parties really love each other , are compatible, and are committed to making things work. But you guys seemed to be a bad match from the start
 
it did seem inevitable. why are you moving and not him? dont go overboard trying to be nice sweetie. things will work out for the best for you (real world karma) :rose:
 
calveless wonder said:
i think it's the best for you.

clearly things are not working out. it just really sucks that you have a kid with him. it'd be so much easier to walk away if you didn't.

i'll be honest and just my intuition, i don't think the therapist can fix that. certain situations can be fixed I believe through therapy if both parties really love each other , are compatible, and are committed to making things work. But you guys seemed to be a bad match from the start
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What's up bro where have you been? Talk to me!!!
 
Sorry to hear about it, MyWay. The good news is that everything will work out for the best.
 
move closer to the Meth dealers

I'll pm you my address

KTHXIWANNAFINgAFUKU
 
myway said:
..my husband isn't. We all knew this was coming.

We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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change is good, some painful, but it always ends up good..

Good luck with your new life, and this short time that you will be "morphing".. take the time to see and answer.. who do you want to become.. not just who are you..

Good luck.. remember if we do not learn from the past, we are doomed to relive it..
 
MyWay, just don't get bitter. Sure, I'd be easy; but don't because what it will do to you.
 
myway said:
..my husband isn't. We all knew this was coming.

We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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sorry to hear that myway. I know from threads that you were working hard. If things aren't right though it is better to split and deal with it maturely for everyone's sake. Best of luck.

S
 
I guess I'm on the other side on this, smart to keep going Myway and working it out. Otherwise, it will be challenging for both of you and your kid.
 
MightyMouse69 said:
I guess I'm on the other side on this, smart to keep going Myway and working it out. Otherwise, it will be challenging for both of you and your kid.
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True. This is how I think in real life. Its always worth working on if both parties are willing and able to do so.
 
ok, I guess I didn't know the entire story. I thought moving out was a good move?!

Myway.......good will always prevail. Hang in there, it will get better.
 
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MightyMouse69 said:
I guess I'm on the other side on this, smart to keep going Myway and working it out. Otherwise, it will be challenging for both of you and your kid.
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the mysterious red panties were never explained so to me there's really no other way. Dude was fucking around on his woman and got caught.......sucks.........but to stay together is WORSE FOR THE KID.
 
tell me about your friend that you talk to about me
I can visit her
 
myway said:
..my husband isn't. We all knew this was coming.

We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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this is probably for the best. On the bright side, I bet you won't find any large, red lace panties in their laundry!!!!!!!!!!
 
MightyMouse69 said:
I guess I'm on the other side on this, smart to keep going Myway and working it out. Otherwise, it will be challenging for both of you and your kid.
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I agree. Basically, we need to work on communication. Even if we are not together, we have a son. We need to NOT hate each other and learn how to communicate.
 
Good luck. You deserve the best.

Props on working it out for the kid. That's a very selfless act, which is always good.

Don't try to be nice to him - do what works for you and what makes you happy.

myway said:
..my husband isn't. We all knew this was coming.

We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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Good Luck MYWAY, take care of that little one, I too am a parent and divorced; you guys must communicte for the little one. I dont know how old he is but they are smarter than you think. Get along for him when around eachother. Also I wouldnt try to bring new people in his life if hes young, dont want to make things harder for the little one.

Keep your head high, tomorrow is a new day!!
 
Good luck myway.

Are you really only 20?
 
I hope everything works out for you, regardless of what decision you make.



On a side note, I will leave a light on and a bottle of wine on the nightstand ;p


myway said:
..my husband isn't. We all knew this was coming.

We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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I really do wish you the best. There's def worse things than this. I agree with prev posters about being civil with your baby's daddy. Not that he deserves it but the boy does.

You're a strong beautiful woman, things will work out.
 
myway said:
We are still gonna be seeing the therapist 2gether.
I'm gonna be staying with my parents until I get everything figured out.
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Good moves. Creating some space, leaning on your support system, good environment for the kid and hubby is cut off for now. Yet you're still in therapy and not rushing to end the marriage.

He knows you're serious about this. My hope is that you can reconcile.
 
I hope the therapist can help. First year is really a tough one but good that you two realize the importance of communicating in the best interests of your son.
Wishing you lots of luck and hoping you know that things get better.
 
You're a tough cookie - I have no doubt that you will turn everything around to a good place for you and your son.
 
Going to a therapist doesn't always make things better. There are good ones and bad ones and I have witness first hand that they can be as destructive as they are helpful. I am not saying people shouldn't go, just sayin it is not always a good solution.
 
good luck myway........im somewhat in your boat.........except im months ahead of you............i moved out about 3 months ago......to try to figure out what I want. I think in this case you have to be selfish and think about yourself. Your child will be fine as long as the 2 of you are amicable during this and if you divorce. That was the one thing I was very concerned about was my son. But after talking with many people who are divorced, it seems like the kids end up ok as long as there is no bitterness between the parents and they communicate with each other. Good luck.....i know how hard it is trying to make a decision on this and your future
 
bigmann245 said:
knowing her she had HIM move HER stuff...... hes a wuss and she can kick his ass so theres incentive to do what she says. :chomp:
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A few weeks ago, a girl moved to town and joined the gym. She asked if we would help her move some stuff in.

I told her I only help girls move OUT!!!!!!!
 
bigmann245 said:
knowing her she had HIM move HER stuff...... hes a wuss and she can kick his ass so theres incentive to do what she says. :chomp:
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I heart you,lol. U know the deal. :chomp:
 
blueta2 said:
where the heck is MYWAY?
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Sorry. I know I was gone for a few days. My dad kinda kicked my ass back into school so I had some paperwork to get finished...really quick-like.
 
myway said:
Sorry. I know I was gone for a few days. My dad kinda kicked my ass back into school so I had some paperwork to get finished...really quick-like.
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That's prolly a good thing. It sounds like your parents are being supportive.
 
I hope everything works out, it always does. You just have to stay positive in the meantime and just take it one day at a time. Thats what I do, but its more like "One problem at a time" for me.
 
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