i'm far too paranoid about men sometimes i think...

[danielson]

well if they help you thats fine, if they hit on you youshould take it as a compliment and iof they get annoyed you rebuked them then you should back away slowly

why do you think the ladies first-rule stuff happened in the first place? i dont see any other possible reason for it other tha it coming from sex....

i wouldnt worry about it. if someone does something and doesnt expect anything in rerturn then that perons a nice guy. and you can probably presume he;s single too

on another note, one thing i HATE is women who assume if i do something nice towards them, its because im hitting on them, and act in an arrogant/suspicious manner as a result. you shouldnt let it affect you

 

[smallmovesal]

dgreenhill... you're about to get a big whiff of bad sore throat breath. for a christian, you are incredibly judgemental..

thanks for your thoughts everyone.

 

[Prometheus]

Personally I'm a little uncomfortable with the whole MAN vs. WOMAN social interaction. When I talk to a guy, I see him just a person first, and not a sex object, so it makes me feel a little weirded out when some guy I don't know looks at me like a sex object. I think that's part of the reason I play down my sexuality around guys and act like a goofball right off the bat....that is unless I'm into the guy. In that case, I play up my sexuality and act even more like a goofball.

it's difficult to reverse millions of years of evolution in a single generation.

 

[velvett]

I was raised by an angry... German that would slap the shit out of me ...

OH?

You too?

 

[smallmovesal]

oh ok... sometimes it's hard to read intentions through type. sorry!

i think i'm sick because of stress... classes just finished and i haven't been able to train lately because of catching up that i'm doing. i can't wait to get back into the gym.

 

[Austin316]

also quick to assume

that is all

 

[saint808]

your environmental experiences are all that you are... i am not sure anything is inherited or inborn anymore.

 

[RADAR]

far too often i've noticed guys do nice things or help but then they turn around and hit on me... it makes me paranoid when men actually are just trying to be nice... which i cannot distinguish anymore.

it might partly have to do with the events a couple of months ago.. i fear giving guys the wrong impression and having advances made upon me.. even though that wasn't the case with that incident.

if anyone uses this against me in a hateful way i'm going to breathe on them and give them this god forsaken cold/sore throat and a good whiff of my sore throat breath.

I knew i was being talked about!!!!!! Soooo i make you paranoid eh????Maybe you should get outta Canada for a while! RADAR

 

[Taps]

I'm only nice to you 'cause I wanna bang your sister. How to you like them apples?

To be prefectly honest, most men think like this when they see a hot chick:

A) If I'm nice to this girl, she'll pay attention to me.
B) Ok, She's paying attention to me now....
C) Therefore, she must find me attractive.
D) I should hit on her so we can eventually have sex.

That's pretty much the male thought process when we do something nice for a girl. IF YOU TALK TO A GUY, HE WILL ASSUME YOU WANT TO SLEEP WITH HIM. See, the only time men really bother talking to women is when we're attracted to them. We assume it must work the same way for you.

It does make for awkward situations at times. My advice would be to make things clear right off the bat that you're not interested in them romantically. Or tell 'em you've got a boyfriend.

 

[polarpixie]

it's difficult to reverse millions of years of evolution in a single generation.

Yes. Thus, my goofball act works very nicely to divert attention.