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Total ripoff of James Blunt youre beautiful lyrics.
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Total ripoff of James Blunt youre beautiful lyrics.
You cannot be serious
I met a girl, but she kissed another man, and I'm heartbroken
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lilj888
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Healother im goin to try and help u out best as i can. I dont know if this has been said in this thread but im certainly not reading over 15 pages of shit.
Ive have had plenty experience good and bad. And plently of friend girls to tell me shit and help me out. So im goin to pass it on to u. Its most likely to late now to get her back but this is for the next girl that comes along and who knows maybe one day she will come back to. it can happen and its happen to me before.
I know this is alot to read but read it for ur own good.
First u shouldnt even of got that far talking to her about the dude she hooked up with the other night.. Automatically u are putting ur self in the friend zone and she is going to look at u as someone to talk to. U show to much interest when u dont even kno her. Talk about urself, her and other shit. but dont get into other relationships just yet. Maybe when u actually start hookin up u can get into past relationships. IF it gets brought up act like u dont care say cool or something and change the subject so it shows ur not interested. THEY LIKE WHEN a man isnt interested in them because they take that as a challenge.
2nd- the hole forced kiss is bullshit. The guy problemly said give me a kiss or can i kiss u and she said no but not in a way that she is about to get raped. So the guy said come on or just moved in and kissed her. ive done it before works all the time or atleast most of the time. U can tell wen a girl is trying to play hard to get or when she really means get the fuck away from me, because she will get up and walk away or u can see she really is disquisted, girls like to play around and not let u kiss them but if u keep trying WITHOUT BEING FORCEFUL but playful ull get that kiss u wanted .. girls like to play hard to get and there not gonna let u just kiss them enless its one of those first date goodnight kiss crap. Ive had plently of my friend girls tell me that if a guy makes a move on them even if they dont want to kiss them they will cuz they dont want them to feel bad. But they also say they have to be good looking to actually kiss them back. SOOO that girl obviously thought the guy she kissed was decent enough to kiss him back. Cuz i know she aint gonna let a butt ugly fuck kiss her.
3rd- U say she doesnt like when people express there feelings to quickly for her. U got to far into the friend zone. now she tells u about relationships and problems and who she likes and what she likes.. Ur just another one of her girlfriends and now ur her gossip buddy. If a girl likes u she isnt gonna tell u everything about herself shes going to want u to figure shit out for urself and find out what she likes by being with her not asking her.
Im sure if brad pit said to her the first day he likes her. she wouldnt say eww i dont like that he told me soo quick. she problemable will be all over him. U know to much info and now ur trying to change urself so u can be perfect for her.
Dont be blabling about what u like and shit just be fun, funny, and flirty. tell her jokingly mean comments, it shows ur flirting and playful. U gotta show her that u might have interest but not enough that she is positive that u are interested in her. let her think about it does he like me or not? One second show her ur interested then the next dont. She will think about it and if she thinking about it she is thinkin about u and she will start to think more about u and then start to like u. Dont show her ur interested in her by getting all in her head and analyzing her personality. Cuz ur just getting back into the friend zone.
U need to be mysterious and not up her ass, show her u have a life other then her. Sometimes when she asks u a question about urself ignore it and change the subject. She will become more interested and want to know why u ignored it. If she asks u about a relationship u had with another girl say that it was nothing and dont give her any info. Show her u got other girls make her jealous. Even if u dont got other girls or girls that are ur friends. Then wen ur with her check out some other girls and try to get her jealous. Ur not going out with her u havent hooked up wit her yet so wtf can she do about it other then try to make u, hers.
And if its been awhile and u havent gotten anywhere, then Say this it always works ive done it a ton of times when i just couldnt tell if she had any interest in me. I kind of forgot how i said it i had it down good but ill try to rember what i said at best. Say: this might sound random and all but I have feelings for u and i just wanted to let u know. and then she will tell u how she feels and if she says she feels differently then u put her in ur friendzone or drop her completly and dont talk to her. But if u put her in ur friendzone u can use her to ur benifit to getting more info and help to getting other girls. And maybe wen she sees u trying to get other girls she will realize that she does have feelings for u.
Most of the time u can tell if a girl has feelings for u because they give off signals. There not just a blank expression u just got to know how to read them properly.
and people on here might disagree to what i have to say and thats fine, what they say is important to because there isnt just one sure proof way of getting a girl.
and also they might have valuable information to input too. I didnt go over everything there is to know because i forgot shit and im not perfect.
forgot to add this dont bend over backwards for a girl u just met stand up for urself and dont be overly nice because u are trying to show her u like her. THEY DONT LIKE THAT. When ur relationship gets farther and The love part sets in then u can run across the universe and back for her. And dont say i love u the first day u go out either thats middle school retardedness and older girls will just think ur a weirdo
Ive have had plenty experience good and bad. And plently of friend girls to tell me shit and help me out. So im goin to pass it on to u. Its most likely to late now to get her back but this is for the next girl that comes along and who knows maybe one day she will come back to. it can happen and its happen to me before.
I know this is alot to read but read it for ur own good.
First u shouldnt even of got that far talking to her about the dude she hooked up with the other night.. Automatically u are putting ur self in the friend zone and she is going to look at u as someone to talk to. U show to much interest when u dont even kno her. Talk about urself, her and other shit. but dont get into other relationships just yet. Maybe when u actually start hookin up u can get into past relationships. IF it gets brought up act like u dont care say cool or something and change the subject so it shows ur not interested. THEY LIKE WHEN a man isnt interested in them because they take that as a challenge.
2nd- the hole forced kiss is bullshit. The guy problemly said give me a kiss or can i kiss u and she said no but not in a way that she is about to get raped. So the guy said come on or just moved in and kissed her. ive done it before works all the time or atleast most of the time. U can tell wen a girl is trying to play hard to get or when she really means get the fuck away from me, because she will get up and walk away or u can see she really is disquisted, girls like to play around and not let u kiss them but if u keep trying WITHOUT BEING FORCEFUL but playful ull get that kiss u wanted .. girls like to play hard to get and there not gonna let u just kiss them enless its one of those first date goodnight kiss crap. Ive had plently of my friend girls tell me that if a guy makes a move on them even if they dont want to kiss them they will cuz they dont want them to feel bad. But they also say they have to be good looking to actually kiss them back. SOOO that girl obviously thought the guy she kissed was decent enough to kiss him back. Cuz i know she aint gonna let a butt ugly fuck kiss her.
3rd- U say she doesnt like when people express there feelings to quickly for her. U got to far into the friend zone. now she tells u about relationships and problems and who she likes and what she likes.. Ur just another one of her girlfriends and now ur her gossip buddy. If a girl likes u she isnt gonna tell u everything about herself shes going to want u to figure shit out for urself and find out what she likes by being with her not asking her.
Im sure if brad pit said to her the first day he likes her. she wouldnt say eww i dont like that he told me soo quick. she problemable will be all over him. U know to much info and now ur trying to change urself so u can be perfect for her.
Dont be blabling about what u like and shit just be fun, funny, and flirty. tell her jokingly mean comments, it shows ur flirting and playful. U gotta show her that u might have interest but not enough that she is positive that u are interested in her. let her think about it does he like me or not? One second show her ur interested then the next dont. She will think about it and if she thinking about it she is thinkin about u and she will start to think more about u and then start to like u. Dont show her ur interested in her by getting all in her head and analyzing her personality. Cuz ur just getting back into the friend zone.
U need to be mysterious and not up her ass, show her u have a life other then her. Sometimes when she asks u a question about urself ignore it and change the subject. She will become more interested and want to know why u ignored it. If she asks u about a relationship u had with another girl say that it was nothing and dont give her any info. Show her u got other girls make her jealous. Even if u dont got other girls or girls that are ur friends. Then wen ur with her check out some other girls and try to get her jealous. Ur not going out with her u havent hooked up wit her yet so wtf can she do about it other then try to make u, hers.
And if its been awhile and u havent gotten anywhere, then Say this it always works ive done it a ton of times when i just couldnt tell if she had any interest in me. I kind of forgot how i said it i had it down good but ill try to rember what i said at best. Say: this might sound random and all but I have feelings for u and i just wanted to let u know. and then she will tell u how she feels and if she says she feels differently then u put her in ur friendzone or drop her completly and dont talk to her. But if u put her in ur friendzone u can use her to ur benifit to getting more info and help to getting other girls. And maybe wen she sees u trying to get other girls she will realize that she does have feelings for u.
Most of the time u can tell if a girl has feelings for u because they give off signals. There not just a blank expression u just got to know how to read them properly.
and people on here might disagree to what i have to say and thats fine, what they say is important to because there isnt just one sure proof way of getting a girl.
and also they might have valuable information to input too. I didnt go over everything there is to know because i forgot shit and im not perfect.
forgot to add this dont bend over backwards for a girl u just met stand up for urself and dont be overly nice because u are trying to show her u like her. THEY DONT LIKE THAT. When ur relationship gets farther and The love part sets in then u can run across the universe and back for her. And dont say i love u the first day u go out either thats middle school retardedness and older girls will just think ur a weirdo
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Dude!
lilj888, thanks for the advice.
I've heard that advice from a lot of people, and the consensus seems to be that i have to play games in order to attract women, and that most women operate under this assumption.
This is unfortunate, because this is really not my style and i hate having to pretend im not interested in someone just to tease them and get them to like me more but maybe its what i have to do.
the tricky part now is reprogramming myself. ive been trying to be a nice guy for such a long time now and i just do it automatically. also i have problems with being too desperate sometimes and having a temper sometimes.
honestly I think i may need to see some type of counselling before I am elligible to date any women, as much as that sucks. I need to control my temper and my desperation. Tonight at the club I called a couple of girls bitches to their face for rejecting me which was completely unprofessional. Also whenever I meet a cute girl I almost always scare her away by trying too hard.
sometimes i wonder if itd be better if i just gave up on women completely. i am the wrong person for getting laid. i have so many problems, i dont know if they can all be set straight. this world is unfair and i got the shaft. at times i wanna do myself in (and i probably would if i knew id be single the rest of my life), but what keeps me going is the hope that maybe if i tried something else i might be okay. theres too many things to try first.
I've heard that advice from a lot of people, and the consensus seems to be that i have to play games in order to attract women, and that most women operate under this assumption.
This is unfortunate, because this is really not my style and i hate having to pretend im not interested in someone just to tease them and get them to like me more but maybe its what i have to do.
the tricky part now is reprogramming myself. ive been trying to be a nice guy for such a long time now and i just do it automatically. also i have problems with being too desperate sometimes and having a temper sometimes.
honestly I think i may need to see some type of counselling before I am elligible to date any women, as much as that sucks. I need to control my temper and my desperation. Tonight at the club I called a couple of girls bitches to their face for rejecting me which was completely unprofessional. Also whenever I meet a cute girl I almost always scare her away by trying too hard.
sometimes i wonder if itd be better if i just gave up on women completely. i am the wrong person for getting laid. i have so many problems, i dont know if they can all be set straight. this world is unfair and i got the shaft. at times i wanna do myself in (and i probably would if i knew id be single the rest of my life), but what keeps me going is the hope that maybe if i tried something else i might be okay. theres too many things to try first.
lilj888
Well-known member
trust me u will find someone and they will like u for who u are, theres so many people out there that ur bound to find one that u suit. U dont have to stop being a nice guy but what u do have to stop is Being to nice and over doing it, and dont try so hard because it will come, if u put in some effort she will put in some to but if u put in to much u leave her no room to put any in and just look to desperate. And if she doesnt put any in she isnt interested and u just have to move on. Not try harder
Heres a example of being overly nice...if a girl ask u to do her homework for her say no, its not my job. Dont say yaaa ill do it and think that because u did it for her she is going to like u more. Thats being to nice. And she will problemly like u less because she can walk over all over u and its no challenge. Now if she drops something pick it up for her, if she needs help doing something help her. But dont go out of ur way for her. Enless u guys are dating for awhile and both u guys really like each other
Heres a example of being overly nice...if a girl ask u to do her homework for her say no, its not my job. Dont say yaaa ill do it and think that because u did it for her she is going to like u more. Thats being to nice. And she will problemly like u less because she can walk over all over u and its no challenge. Now if she drops something pick it up for her, if she needs help doing something help her. But dont go out of ur way for her. Enless u guys are dating for awhile and both u guys really like each other
bigmann245
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healother said:
like i said in the other post, your 23 and that is very young still these days. people aren't getting married till they are over 30 so you have a ways to go. it will happen when your not looking. just don't look too hard and bam it will happen.
Forge
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healother said:
Idiot, you just don't get it. You don't have to play games, you don't have to lie and pretend you aren't interested. You just need the balls to ask a girl out and pay attention to her, without acting like a wimpy pussy girlfriend to her. You have to be confident and at least a little assertive. You have to be fun and make them smile and laugh, make them feel good around you. You have to get over this fear you have of women in general.
Stop looking for THE ONE and just have fun with at least ONE of them...
But yeah, you do need some counseling. Your going to find one, get married, and then not be able to have sex due to your nerves being wound so tight. Imagine, you wait all that time only to get ED at the big moment...
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KillahBee said:
Ummmm there are some of us that call that daterape. (Obviously I am talking about more than kissing).
You have no idea just how wrong this view is in respect to MANY women.
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