Lestat said:
do you know what the cause of your erectile dysfunction is?
According to the doctor, it was mostly nerves. This is the first woman I've actually cared about since my ex-wife, the others were just no future flings. My tests all came back OK, so he may be right. We've had intercourse twice now, it just seems like I have a harder time "getting ready" than I should be.
He's probably right, I just think too much. Embarrassing to admit that, but I'll just have to willpower my way fucking through it.
The nice thing is, she is more than willing to help me work it out, in fact she's been great for the whole thing.
See Healy, this is your biggest problem:
FEAR. You've got to be willing to talk to her about what you want, how you feel, tell her you want to date her, you want to kiss her. You've got to be willing to put yourself out there and risk it all. The Eagles don't win football games by sitting on the bench and hoping the other team might forfeit, they've got to play the game. Same with you.