I have no reason to live....I am contemplating my departure...

[Pat_McCrotch]

Listen to ATW. You could substitute the word pussy with anything almost anything in life. I mean, even if ya'll were together you could be stressing out over finances, failed businesses or whatever.

Please, go watch that Secret DVD. It will give you hope. I know it will. It's by design (God) that you even ordererd it.

Watch your mouth!!!!!

 

[crazyjoe]

Sorry for my pathetic thread title...but I am reaching a very low point in my life...

A month ago I found out that my fiancee cheated on me...I was ready to forgive her despite her feelings towards me that were no there anymore....she is in love with her former boyfriend whom she has sex when we both went to Romania.

She still keeps in touch with him ....

My dad had a stroke and he is in bad shape.

I cant get my job back after being convalescent due to surgery on my achilles tendon.

I try to find another job but couldnt get one and I really liked my former job and my colleagues...but the owner of the business told me that he laid off 5 people already and it is hard for him to bring me back...


I cant suffer anymore....I love my baby daughter but I cant stand not having a job and seeing my fiancee emailing and thinking of her lover!

I was searching on line suicidal sites but I dont muster the courage to do it yet...

So here goes nothing....I have no more pride or ego in myself....

I dont care if you give me shit or insult me due to my macabre thoughts....

It wont offend me anymore...nothing can...

Once a cheater always a cheater in my book broski. I could NEVER get back together with someone who cheated. If someone really truly cares about someone else with all their heart and soul they just don't do that type of thing to said person.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Trust me...she is a great mom..

I pushed her on his arms ...during our 3 years of living together , I wasnt very nice towards her...when she was pregnant, I told her to go to her mom, and she left me when she was 2 month pregnant..

I was in tears...she came back eventually...

When I tore my achilles tendon, I was in crutches for more than 3 months and seh took care of me and my baby..she did it all...laundry, cooking, babysitting, nobledudesitting...

I couldnt work and fell into a huge depression after 6months since my injury...I was grumpy and started playing on line poker..she would go to work and when she woudl come back I would yell at her out of frustration due to losing at poker...

Meanwhile, she started emailing her previous lover whom she wanted to marry....but he got married while she was in US!

Trust me, I am at fault big time...I can forget her act of kindness towards me and our baby...

If she was a ho, I would have left her long time!!

So you fucked up?!?!?!?!??! Youll learn from this or you should when you meat the next great peice of ass

 

[EnderJE]

Agreed... I don't see the issue.

You got kids then what YOU WANT goes out the window. It is ALL ABOUT THE KIDS.

Not everyone can do that. Some people don't make good parents and should know their limitations.

NB, this does not apply to you.

 

[jack sparrow]

Please see post #108.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

You want her because now you can't have her.
That will fade over time.
Whatever you do, don't go out and screw someone else to try to get over it. That's the weak mans way to deal with pain.
The only way to stop wanting her is to work on yourself

the best way to get over one chic is to get under another one.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Not everyone can do that. Some people don't make good parents and should know their limitations.

NB, this does not apply to you.

We are all flawed and hindsight is 20/20... why I say that it isn't me that makes my children special, it is THEM that makes me who I am...

As parents we have an obligation to our children to keep growing and evolving.

I never ever realized how blessed I was to be a parent until life blindsighted me for the first time. THE ONLY REASON I AM STILL HERE IS BECAUSE OF MY CHILDREN.

ARE YOU LISTENING NOBLEDUDE?

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

I disagree with Blue. If screwing another chick will help you get over this one, then I say go for it. why not?

Are you offering? if so I feel really really really sad right now I need to heed your advice.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

It doesn't work, It usually just makes the person feel worse.
But true, depends on the person.

When I did that, I felt pretty bad about myself. But maybe now I should change my tune

"well chic see sex differently than guys. if you felt bad after the first time you gotta keep doing it until you feel better"

Dr. Phil

 

[all the whey]

lol, I know. ATW, you understand dudes better than me.

Nobledude, here's a hug (((( )))) Now please go call that # Mav gave you.

A curvymommy hug will make anything better!