I have no reason to live....I am contemplating my departure...

[blueta2]

You want her because now you can't have her.
That will fade over time.
Whatever you do, don't go out and screw someone else to try to get over it. That's the weak mans way to deal with pain.
The only way to stop wanting her is to work on yourself

 

[Smurfy]

I disagree with Blue. If screwing another chick will help you get over this one, then I say go for it. why not?

 

[all the whey]

I disagree with Blue. If screwing another chick will help you get over this one, then I say go for it. why not?

Who is going to take one for the team?

Not HH.

She is already doing it for woot.

 

[blueta2]

I disagree with Blue. If screwing another chick will help you get over this one, then I say go for it. why not?

It doesn't work, It usually just makes the person feel worse.
But true, depends on the person.

When I did that, I felt pretty bad about myself. But maybe now I should change my tune

 

[biteme]

She didnt fall in love with someone else...

That guy was her former big love before she met me....She came to US , she got married with some US citizen dude to be legally in US.\
After she got her green card , she divorced..it was a business marriage, that guy got paid.

Meanwhile, her former boyfriend back in ROmania got married without telling her...she was devastated at the time....she met me on line, and she fell in love with me.

Unfortunately, I didnt treat her right....she told me once that her former lover treated her always nice and they never got in a verbal fight.


She is a hot woman too and it is hard for me to see her naked and not to wan her...

I dont know how to stop wanting her...any tips?

You'll always want her if you see her naked... Best way to stop wanting her is to get out and meet other women despite how hard it is right now.. That's my .02cents.... I still love every woman I've ever loved, but I got over them well enough to live my life without thinking of them on a constant basis and being in deep pain over them. I still have dreams of my ex wife and first girlfriend. My wife knows this.. Neither one of them could take me away from the one I have now though.

 

[jerseyrugger76]

you should visit www.mydeathspace.com. Click on the "latest articles" link. On the page that comes up, type "suicide" in the search box at the top. What you'll be looking at is a list of myspace users who offed themselves. Now here's the fun part: click on an article to read the obituary THEN click on the deceadent's picture to visit what remains of their myspace page. Take a few minutes to read the comments section on the individual's page. It's here that you'll read the tortured messages of mothers who want their best little boy or girl in the world back in their arms, cries of lonliness from children who won't have their parent at their next birthday, and the bitter frustration of those who would have done anything to help the person who killed him/herself had they only taken the time to ask. You see, suicide doesn't really end your pain, it inflicts it on everyone else in your life. I call this the law of the conservation of suffering. So a question you should consider is whether or not you hate your daughter, parents, & friends enough to damage them irreparably for life because this ain't just about you. I know it seems like your going thru a lot but people have made much grander combacks from more severe setbacks than loss of job & girlfriend.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Sorry for my pathetic thread title...but I am reaching a very low point in my life...

A month ago I found out that my fiancee cheated on me...I was ready to forgive her despite her feelings towards me that were no there anymore....she is in love with her former boyfriend whom she has sex when we both went to Romania.

She still keeps in touch with him ....

My dad had a stroke and he is in bad shape.

I cant get my job back after being convalescent due to surgery on my achilles tendon.

I try to find another job but couldnt get one and I really liked my former job and my colleagues...but the owner of the business told me that he laid off 5 people already and it is hard for him to bring me back...


I cant suffer anymore....I love my baby daughter but I cant stand not having a job and seeing my fiancee emailing and thinking of her lover!

I was searching on line suicidal sites but I dont muster the courage to do it yet...

So here goes nothing....I have no more pride or ego in myself....

I dont care if you give me shit or insult me due to my macabre thoughts....

It wont offend me anymore...nothing can...

if you cant keep going for yourself, then do it for your daughter.

eventually you will love yourself again and see the point in living.

my friend killed himself earlier this semester, and at his service his dad said something we should all remember

"no matter how good it is, it is never THAT good, but no matter how bad it is, it is never THAT bad"

try not to sit around either bro. when my depression starts kicking in high gear, its always when im going on EF alot, or sitting in my room. go out there and get some little jobs, train harder, get a lawn chair and sit out in the sun. but dont sit in your house.

feel free to PM me about anything, anytime bro,

 

[jack sparrow]

Close to 1000 vaginas in this pic from what I read. Probably a few billion more in the background somewhere, but you can't see them.

 

[Nobledude]

Nobledude, I honestly think No wait I in fact know that there are plenty ton loads of people that have been in your shoes.Not so much as over a lover, but over something, over anything. There comes a point in peoples lives when shit hits the fan and the depression gets to us, however there also comes a time when shit lifts up and life moves on...I was reading some of your posts and agree with some other posters here. So you think that removing yourself from this earth will remove the pain, well you are wrong it will just radiate onto other people (your daughter, her mother, your parents, friends, etc). DO NOT allow the wrong doings from other people cause you your dignity, life,etc. You are a good person, just in a wrong spot right now...Good things come to those that wait, give it some time I am positive that things will improve for you. As for your child going out of the country, that cannot happen without your approval She is your child also...So you cannot think of living without her while she grows up in the us, but you expect her to grow up without her father? Let me tell you, a father is the most crucial thing to a little girl. My father did not commit suicide or leave me, he just emotionally was not there, it is sucked. I won't get into my thoughts of him or my issues but i will tell you, DO NOT do that to her..I am usually a bitch, but this hits close to home. I really think that you need to call the hotline then see someone regularly to talk and to get on a depression med. Look Noble if you ever want to talk there are plenty people here who will try their hardest to lift your ass up, it took a great person to admit their issues and in my opinion this was not a suicide threat, this was more of a cry for help..We are all here for you please call that number and get well soon ND.

It is not a suicidal threat...but a desperate cry for help...I am exploring every venue that can take me out of this path of self destruction.

I just cant help myself to get over what happened.


I am a desperate man and I dont know if I can snap out of it!

She found a site where I was looking at how to kill myself.....

She asked me if I want to kill myself...I didnt answer!

She said that she cannot stop me and told me to think at my child....

She didn't really seemed affected....

 

[Smurfy]

It is not a suicidal threat...but a desperate cry for help...I am exploring every venue that can take me out of this path of self destruction.

I just cant help myself to get over what happened.


I am a desperate man and I dont know if I can snap out of it!

She found a site where I was looking at how to kill myself.....

She asked me if I want to kill myself...I didnt answer!

She said that she cannot stop me and told me to think at my child....

She didn't really seemed affected....

dude how in the fuck can you expect her to give you the answer you want to hear or to give the perfect answer to her SO wanting to kill himself??

have you ever been in that situation? how dare you put that on her. thats fucked and so are you if you judge her for not knowing how to react to it.

believe me, Ive been in her position and theres no scripted way to react to that. if someone says they want to kill themselves and you find them surfing suicide websites, thats terrifying for the SO finding it trust me.