I have no reason to live....I am contemplating my departure...

[redsamurai]

Hey bro, take your daughter and book bro. seriously, let your fiancee be with whomever. Take your fucking daughter and go dance somewhere else.

I would totally support you leaving this place, as it's something I will admit I've thought about as well because I'm not depressed, I just think there's somewhere "better"........but oh well. Let your life run it's course for a little while longer.........you'll know when it's time.

Or just get split custody right now, leave your daughter with her mother for a little while.........and go dance the dance somewhere else for a little while. That's all I can offer.

 

[redsamurai]

Oh, and your fiancee is an awful person. She had a child with someone she knew deep down she wasnt' totally in love with and IN FACT, still carried the torch for an ex. She's shit bro.

This is just me, but I would give her the kid and go start a new life somewhere else. It would pain me to do it, but I don't want to be a "major" part of a childs life in that situation. That child would always remind me of "her". I know you love your little girl.......you can still see her from time to time.........but time to start a new life. And one more thing........not a cent do you give to the mother.....not a shining penny. She can bring her lover from Romania and he can get a job and take over the family, it's his responsability now. Do not be the bread winner of the household but the cuckold of the marriage. I'm sorry, but no child is worth doing that to yourself.

 

[Smurfy]

Oh, and your fiancee is an awful person. She had a child with someone she knew deep down she wasnt' totally in love with and IN FACT, still carried the torch for an ex. She's shit bro.

This is just me, but I would give her the kid and go start a new life somewhere else. It would pain me to do it, but I don't want to be a "major" part of a childs life in that situation. That child would always remind me of "her". I know you love your little girl.......you can still see her from time to time.........but time to start a new life. And one more thing........not a cent do you give to the mother.....not a shining penny. She can bring her lover from Romania and he can get a job and take over the family, it's his responsability now. Do not be the bread winner of the household but the cuckold of the marriage. I'm sorry, but no child is worth doing that to yourself.

wtf?
i take it you've never created a life ?

 

[blueta2]

red, I disagree. His ex is not shit. She's human.
Noble admitted he was not good to her. What is she to do.
So she fell in love with someone else. People do it every day. It doesn't make them shit.
People do all sorts of things to try to find happiness.
She cheated and that totally makes her in the wrong, but she's not shit

 

[Mavafanculo]

reasons to be cheerful, part 3

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Sorry for my pathetic thread title...but I am reaching a very low point in my life...

A month ago I found out that my fiancee cheated on me...I was ready to forgive her despite her feelings towards me that were no there anymore....she is in love with her former boyfriend whom she has sex when we both went to Romania.

She still keeps in touch with him ....

My dad had a stroke and he is in bad shape.

I cant get my job back after being convalescent due to surgery on my achilles tendon.

I try to find another job but couldnt get one and I really liked my former job and my colleagues...but the owner of the business told me that he laid off 5 people already and it is hard for him to bring me back...


I cant suffer anymore....I love my baby daughter but I cant stand not having a job and seeing my fiancee emailing and thinking of her lover!

I was searching on line suicidal sites but I dont muster the courage to do it yet...

So here goes nothing....I have no more pride or ego in myself....

I dont care if you give me shit or insult me due to my macabre thoughts....

It wont offend me anymore...nothing can...

So, you have a baby daughter (whom you say you love) and you're contemplating offing yourself......?????

You need a good slap in the face to get your head on straight again. I konw life can get you down sometimes but you've got to stop withering away in your own selfish misery and at least give all you got to raise a good daughter.

There's support and potential for a bright road ahead but you need to snap out of your stupor first.

 

[redsamurai]

red, I disagree. His ex is not shit. She's human.
Noble admitted he was not good to her. What is she to do.
So she fell in love with someone else. People do it every day. It doesn't make them shit.
People do all sorts of things to try to find happiness.
She cheated and that totally makes her in the wrong, but she's not shit

I didn't read that he wasn't good to her. I guess that must have come out somewhere after page 3 or 4 when I skipped to the last. This was her ex b/f right? More than likely she's been carrying a torch for him the whole time.

And smurf, I stand by that statement........there's some things that not even children are worth putting yourself through. The situation that I described would twist a man's soul horribly over time. THose are the kind of situations where the police are called only to find the entire household dead.......think about that. Better to take off than to put yourself to that.

 

[gotmilk]

Been there.....once tried to cram myself into a telephone pole at 85 mph. Thankfully, I drove my skull into the windshield and realized moving my ass in another direction was what I needed.

Grow up ND. You'll always find great people whether you are starting new jobs, new friends, etc. Sounds like you need to get out of the house instead of sitting around pouting about someone cheating on you.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

reasons to be cheerful, part 3

I thought about cutting my hair like that but chickened out.

 

[silverstar1025]