I found out something very upsetting.

[Puc]

THAT disturbs me.


I don't know if I could have a daughter and actually let her out of the house. (oh God - I've become my parents.)

intelligence is the predominant factor in determining how easy someone is to deceive, not age.

the male who wrote that is both SICK and INCORRECT

 

[velvett]

intelligence is the predominant factor in determining how easy someone is to deceive, not age.

well, yes and no. I hear where you are coming from and I tend to agree with you. Age does not equal level of intelliegence.

You CAN be 16 and have the knowledge and experience/intelligence of a 25 year old but still have the emotional years and inexperience of a 16 year old.

I was extremely mature during my teenage years (who knows what happened ) yet when it came to relationships - specifically intimate relationships with males (none until I was 19) I was very immature emotionally. I had no experience what so ever and I would even say that it took my early and mid twenties to catch up to my peers.

I know that many men (not all) will target girls and women that are easy prey and most of these men will admit to such acts. They want someone they can control and they do want someone that they can impress easily wiothout having to do or be much.

It's really quite sad and unfortunately for many men that do find themselves in relationship with women much younger then themselves they will have to fight with the stigma placed upon their choice of romantic interest.

 

[Puc]

I just started a new job recently. Today I found out that the hot girls, that I thought were my age (early twenties), are actually infact only 15-17. Here I thought "oh ok, these chicks are cool. We are all the same age, working a part-time job, going to to school." But nooo. Now i'm like a dirty old man lol.

Geez, when i found out, my whole world was turned upside down . I'm still in aww



On a similiar note, they thought I was a lot younger.

similar thing from the other perspective:

I am 26. I have a tendency to flirt with all girls, no matter how attractive they are, because I like to be nice to people (except on elite, oddly enough). Well, I have been flirting with a reasonably good looking lady that works at a gas station down the street.

The other day she started flirting back. Then, she asked me how old I was. When I told her, she was completely embarrassed. Turns out that I am the same age as her son.

I could not figure out why she was red... still can't. I am a cute fucker, so who cares how old I am?

With the exception of pre-puberty, when deciding what and who is OK and who is not, take a holistic approach. Allow yourself to consider all available information. Don't limit your decision making abilities by being rheumatic like that...

 

[Puc]

It's really quite sad and unfortunately for many men that do find themselves in relationship with women much younger then themselves they will have to fight with the stigma placed upon their choice of romantic interest.

no kidding

 

[big4life]

I was talking with some friends of mine the other day, they have two daughters, the oldest 14, and they were telling me the rules that they had for her.

1) She can't get calls from boys until she's 15

2) Boys can't come over to see her at the house until she is 16.

3) Once she's 17 she can go out with boys only if her parents are with her.

4) At age 18 she can finally go out on a date with boys alone.


I just don't see how that approach is going to work, but then again, they are her parents. I just think that either one of two things will happen. She will be totally afraid of interacting with boys or she will become totally wild.

But like I said, I'm not her parents.

 

[underoos]

I was talking with some friends of mine the other day, they have two daughters, the oldest 14, and they were telling me the rules that they had for her.

1) She can't get calls from boys until she's 15

2) Boys can't come over to see her at the house until she is 16.

3) Once she's 17 she can go out with boys only if her parents are with her.

4) At age 18 she can finally go out on a date with boys alone.


I just don't see how that approach is going to work, but then again, they are her parents. I just think that either one of two things will happen. She will be totally afraid of interacting with boys or she will become totally wild.

But like I said, I'm not her parents.

can she have sex if mom is present?